Marriage & Divorce - 22 October 2007

i met a great guy that is everything i ever wanted & now my boyfriend decides he wants me back..i have financially & emotionally carried this man the entire relationship..hes been afraid to committ & has called off our wedding about 10 times..he still lives with his parents & is afraid of telling his family he loves me because they dont approve of me..i have an 18 yr old daughter & the family thinks he can do better becuz of it..i love him to death & missed him so much..i know it would be a big mistake to take him back but never the less im tempted..im confused becuz i already have a wonderful man by my side & now im faced with this..please give me ur opinion & play out the scenarios for me..

2007-10-22 11:28:07 · 19 answers · asked by resolucion 3

My Mom Friend discoverd that her husbend was cheating on her with his brother wife , but she dont want to be divorced she fought with him with her brother in law wife but she didnt want all the family know so her husben stay as he is in front of his family but what a good lesson to teach him????

2007-10-22 11:27:53 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

he has acted like was at worked.gone to lunch with ladies(raunchy ones)and to late dinners,some get togethers.all while I'm thinking he was at work.
he has left me 3 times and come.back one week later.
the last time he left.i begged like a dog for him to stay.
i feel apart cried a week straight.i thought i would die.he was mean to me during this 3 month break up.after he found out that i was putting my life back together again.during that time i had met a nice guy and dated him.my ex came back again he asked me if i slept with date guy and i said no.(the truth i could not even kiss him let alone hold his hand )we had a fight i said i had slept with date guy.because he insisted i did.so many times.he said he wanted me to take a lie detector test after i finally said that i have been way to honest and what i did was really none of his business anyway.i told him sorry and that i did not and that i had other male friends some at church and some new guy friends.as well as women friends when he was gone for 3 months and that was all.now he thinks. the worst of me and this has been months ago.he is mean he wont hug,kiss,or comfort me true trying times or illnesses.
i kiss his a*s all day long.

2007-10-22 11:21:36 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

guys,
just asking...please dont be mean to me .i am bit low this time .i just need some advice or views.

i found my boyfriend watching porn online in yuvutu and other site too.each time i found him watching he suddenly close the windows down.

i really hate it when he watch porn though...do u think guys he is bored with me now.we been together for 20 months now
.do u think i should behave myself ?but i hate it knowing him watching somewoman playing them self.

advice please.....be nice to me guys when u answer..i am so depressed at this time.and thanks for reading.

2007-10-22 11:18:41 · 19 answers · asked by queenofheart 2

2007-10-22 11:18:03 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

i have been divorced for almost 2 yrs, but we still live together. i want to date other people but its hard to get away. i dont want to hurt his feelings, but i'm tired of living a lie...any suggestions?

2007-10-22 11:15:02 · 8 answers · asked by Fabulous 1

Me and my boyfriend Jake have been together for quite some time now. We have both talked about the future, marriage and kids etc. But today I asked him to marry me and he said no and couldn't come up with a reason why. I don't understand what i've done wrong? Is he interested in somebody else? Is he having an affair? Is he having second thoughts? Does he just not love me anymore?

2007-10-22 11:00:35 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'd love to marry an Indian girl. How do I go about meeting a nice one?

2007-10-22 10:58:46 · 10 answers · asked by Dandelion8 1

is doing somthing that we are spliting up over and i really like this guy in the apt below me and i havent got devorced from my husband yet is it wrong to go on a group date with this guy if i wont be with my husband any more.. even tho we dont have the divorce yet??

2007-10-22 10:58:35 · 37 answers · asked by frogy_poo_87 1

A childhood friend and I found each other online & met up Sat b/c he wants to see an old friend (me). We're 25. In his profile, it says he is looking for friendship, not dating. We went to cafe, talked, and lady selling pink roses passed by and he bought me one. I don't know if it was a date. We talked about how he must go thru 10 days of not eating meat to support his family being Buddhist. We joked about how it is hard for him to not eat meat. I gave him a hug when we parted. Afterwards, he left to eat dinner at a vegetarian place with his parents. While there, he texted"I hate eating veggies." I texted back (3 min later) "Aww poor thing..hang in there hehe." Some said what i texted was too much, obvious i'm interested (i don't want it to be obvious) & ball in his ct. They said i should've just texted "hang in there". It's been 2 days & he hasn't called. Is he looking for friendship & nothing more? He isn't calling b/c he doesn't want to lead me on? i want more but i should give up?

2007-10-22 10:56:33 · 11 answers · asked by angelgirly888 1

2007-10-22 10:56:03 · 12 answers · asked by St.Anger 4

I need help!!! I try to get my husband to notice me by wearing tigh clothing,make up,sexy sleep wear. Nothing helps girls call his phone and he will walk away from me. they ask him for money and god knows what eles they ask for. I have answered his phone and this one girl demanded I tell her who I was.I asked who are you she proudly told me she was my husbands girlfriend....what that can't be iam his wife itold her.then she told me that he had told her that his cousin(me) waas going to play a joke on her.he walked in the room took the phone away from me and walked off like nothing had happen. An hour later he returns lookes at and had the nerv to say what!! I told him that I was not going to sit with my arms crossed while he did that to me ,but I think that I might have been a little harsh on him. On the other hand the hasn't been that good to me. what advice can you all help me with????

2007-10-22 10:48:43 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

I married my cousins ex husband. Her daughter not his, was living part time with us. She is my cousin too. since there has been on going issues where the ex would come into our home and make scenes in front of the other four kids. I told her she wasn't allowed in the house anymore. The daughter stopped coming over at all. Well last week the daughter tried to commit suicide. The ex is accusing me of being the reason even though the daughter said she just wanted her mom to quit screaming at her. Someone called child protective sevices against her and she thinks it was me. She also has the daughter believing it was me. The daughter hates me. My husband is a mess. I have had to send my kids to stay with their father, because the ex has threatened our lives. Oh did I mention she has been on drugs and we can't prove it. Help I need advice. I want to just move out and stay away from it all.

2007-10-22 10:45:38 · 11 answers · asked by Beth 2

ok im 13 and i have a boyfriend whos 13 too., we love each other very much, and we want to get marry not by church but by the chapel, but i live in texas and i wanted to know if i could do this. or because if were under age are parents have to be there? or if they have to sign? but i want to do this behind my moms back. wat should i do???

2007-10-22 10:42:51 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-10-22 10:40:08 · 3 answers · asked by charlie d 2

2007-10-22 10:39:00 · 30 answers · asked by farrah200049 1

I've moved in with my BF, we are getting married in the next few months.
His ex- wife has been asked several times not to come into our house... on four occasions now she has just walked in when she drops off the kids. (4) comes into our kitchen and walks through the house.... always when I'm not at home

Someone please..give me some suggestions on how to diffuse this constant drama!!
Why is she doing this?
How can we communicate to her that her time with the kids is her time.. we don't intrude or interfere with her household and we don't want her intruding and interfering in ours.

She won't take no for an answer.... and purposely causes problems when it comes to the kids. Help.

2007-10-22 10:31:14 · 16 answers · asked by Kaybee 4

I know that I hate when my wife in gone for a period of time! Its always hard to sleep for me :( Do you like sleeping alone?

2007-10-22 10:30:56 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous

that she likes me
.She isnt afraid to touch me she sometimes touches or rubs agiasnt my arm
. Makes frequent eye contact "the eye contact were you feel like she is waiting for something"
. Sometimes says whats up but she generaly ignores me
. Seems nervous around me I was helping her with something once and she berly spoke a word
. She has tried to partner up with me before in science

It may seem obvious but she ignores me and doesnt really make an effort to get to know me. We have know each other for about a year but where not at the friends level.
I would talk to her but i just get so nervous i cant talk to her

2007-10-22 10:28:29 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

Hi

Well i am sorry if this is to long and too detailed but i was hoping that someone could help me or at least offer some insight and support..... first of all let me tell you that my husband is 48 years old and has diabetes, high blood pressure and a thyroid condition.....i am only 26....well we have been together for 2 and a half years now and just got married this past june....and my he just started meds for diabetes...previously he has been pre-diabetic....and has eaten right and exercised and taken care of himself....it runs in his family so he was going to get it sooner or later....so now he is on meds for that and all of a sudden we cant have sex....sex was great when we were dating but now that we are married and he got a meds he either cant get it up or once he is inside of me he goes limp again....the doctor switched diabetic meds and upped he high blood pressure meds thinking that might be the problem....he also gave us cialis....which when we took it it did nothing in fact he couldnt get it up at all.....now he is supposed to take Viagra....but it just feels like it is all my fault....like there is something wrong with me.....because we are trying very hard to have a baby but as you know it is hard to do that when you husband cant *** inside of you.....it is like he can get hard but cant *** in me....i can get him off with a bj but he can get it off in me......i know there is something that i am not doing right or maybe he is just not that in to me anymore....if anyone need more info or explanation on something let me know...i hope that someone can give me some help....this is really putting a strain on my marriage and i dont know how i am going to deal with it much longer.

2007-10-22 10:28:15 · 16 answers · asked by blah blah blah 5

I am wanting a divorce and my husband has bought everything for the most part since we have been married. All of the belongings I had before him and I got married, such as furniture he has replaced. He had me give up my car and he bought two new cars in just his name. He has never allowed me to be on anything, so now what can I do? What am I entitled to when I leave? I need help!!! One last thing. If he bought a house and it's all in just his name, am I responsible for it by any means?

2007-10-22 10:27:46 · 11 answers · asked by C&D M 1

I am being bullied by my husband that if I leave him that I will be kidnapping my baby and will go to jail. I need a safe place and my family lives on the west coast. We live on the east coast.

There are not any legal papers filed or divorce or anything, I just need to get out and away from the drugs and abuse. I need the support of my family.

A shelter will not work as my child has health issues.

My family is willing to help but I am afraid that if I leave the state that my baby will be taken from me
because that is what my husband is threatening.

2007-10-22 10:25:35 · 11 answers · asked by Smart Nurse 5

2007-10-22 10:22:32 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

This girl craimed that she loves me but she cannot marry me because of another guy she love most.the funny thing is that she ask money, money for her hair dressing, to take her for shopping and her fashions. but she didnt allow me to touch her, hence, i now set a trap for her to come to my house so i can touch her, is that a good idea? What should I do to her, what kind of method can i use?
She likes to consumes my money in vain but if i ask for her love or frienship, she refused me but she can ask for anything she like from me.

2007-10-22 10:20:30 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-10-22 10:19:03 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have to think you women would rather that your men kept their hair. But maybe women are not as concerned with hair as we men think. Do you think she is just being nice?

2007-10-22 10:17:39 · 21 answers · asked by mikegreenwich 4

2007-10-22 10:11:54 · 8 answers · asked by Holly W 2

I have been with my boyfriend for 5 years. We are both still young (22). He has been talking about marriage for a few months now, but I don't feel ready. Lately I have been thinking we might as well do it because I may never feel ready.
We are financially independent, but are not 'comfortable' financially by any means. We make the bills, but don't have a lot of extra money. He is in a slight amount of debt, which he is slowly paying off and the only debt I have is my college loans. I don't think we're financially ready to get married and he says that our parents will pay for it anyway so it doesn't matter.
I love him and I can't see myself with anyone but him. But I don't know if I'm ready to be a wife.
My question is, how do you know when you're ready to get married? And should I get married even though I don't feel ready yet?

2007-10-22 09:59:04 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

Okay i have been with my fiance for almost 4 years now with no break ups or anything... but i spoil the crap outta him... he has a psp, games, player pack, i pod nano, cell phone, new shoes every month, gamecube, computer, new tv, car stereo, and the list goes on.... i have paid for all of this crap for him.... he comes to me a week ago and says i want a new TV will you buy it for me... and then just two days ago and says I want an xbox 360 will you get it for me... i told him yes was i wrong

2007-10-22 09:56:15 · 24 answers · asked by Kayla J 2

2007-10-22 09:51:45 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous