2007-10-22 10:56:03 · 12 answers · asked by St.Anger 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
All the time, there's too many dam good looking girls now days.
2007-10-22 10:59:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Of course. Having crushes on other people are a normal part of being human. That doesn't mean you don't love your partner. The only problem is if you follow through on that crush and make it into something that can potentially harm your relationship. This is where you self-control comes into play. Also a time to reflect on all the reasons you love your partner and why you wouldn't want to do anything to jeopardize what you have with her.
2007-10-22 18:01:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Actually this is happening to me right now. I have a wonderfull commited relationship with my lady, but its a but of the same old all the time, at the moment i have a lovely young female hanging around tat i fantasise and have a crush on, she is alot younger and maybe thats why. I have not acted on this and dont plan too. but it does happen. but self control must come first....
2007-10-22 18:15:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, even in a committed relationship, people can have a crush on others. It may not be correct but it happens.
2007-10-22 18:01:23 · answer #4 · answered by Hi 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
sure why not! When you think some one is cute, funny, has a great pesonality... all the things you feel your commitment is not, sure you can dvelope a crush on someone. its how you act upon those feelings that seperate you from being a dog or a gentleman! just remember not to let your feelings get out of hand! its only human to look at others, its human to be drawn to another personality. your maturity is what keeps you from being foolish.
2007-10-22 18:08:20 · answer #5 · answered by Lynn 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
sure, people who are married or in a commited relationships can have a crush on someone other them the person that they are with....but asl ong as nothing happens with the situation ( cheatting) then there realy is'nt anything wrong with it...its completely healthy and normal.
2007-10-22 18:24:18 · answer #6 · answered by blue moon lady 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am married and I too develop crushes. I think we crush on those who have desirable qualities that our partner lacks. It's just fantasy. No harm unless you act on it.
2007-10-22 19:52:54 · answer #7 · answered by Vivian 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you might.....
but you and your committed relationship should be strong enough to have you not act out on the crush.
2007-10-22 18:01:04 · answer #8 · answered by Lady D 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
uhm, yes. I live my husband though, and would never test the strength of our marriage. a crush won't hurt anyone as long as it is platonic.
2007-10-22 18:29:09 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope
2007-10-22 17:58:11 · answer #10 · answered by Mrs. Jack Sparrow ♥ 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋