is doing somthing that we are spliting up over and i really like this guy in the apt below me and i havent got devorced from my husband yet is it wrong to go on a group date with this guy if i wont be with my husband any more.. even tho we dont have the divorce yet??
2007-10-22 10:58:35 · 37 answers · asked by frogy_poo_87 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
ok so nobody said i knew this man before we decided to get a divorce i dont even knwo if i like this guys and it would just be as friends he does knwo my situation and does understand that if any thing happened it would be after the divorce is final .!
2007-10-22 11:06:31 · update #1
I dont consider a group of friends going out to catch a movie, a date, I consider it just that, a group of friends catching a movie. I don't that there is anything wrong with that. No it is not cheating on your soon to be ex husband, and it is nothing that he can use against you later in court.
2007-10-23 01:44:55 · answer #1 · answered by biggsbabygirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with going out with a group of friends, but keep in mind you are STILL married and will be until you get a final decree of divorce so any relationship is not really a good idea...but a group thing...go out and enjoy.
2007-10-22 13:31:47 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say a date would be OK. You need to be careful though and not get too involved. I have seen people get back together in the middle of a divorce (even though it seemed impossible at the time). Just be careful!
2007-10-22 11:03:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's the problem? You're on a group date. Nothing's going to happen. There's no harm in being sociable with your neighbours.
You can't be held responsible if this relationship expands after your divorce.
2007-10-22 11:03:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I like how you posed the question "is dong someting that we are spliting up over" You know that you are going to go on that date no matter what people on here tell you. I think the only thing that would stop you would be something like that guy in 3b yeah i know him he has herpes.
Good luck remeber the grass is always greener ;)
2007-10-22 11:05:45 · answer #5 · answered by Jeremiah W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what do you mean group date? but you can do whatever you want, you aren't committed! serperated is single.
have fun
Pssst dating neighbors has never been a GREAT idea but good luck! just remember whatever happens you have to see him all the time, bring home other people and vise versa and.. ohh the possibilities are endless
2007-10-22 12:25:41 · answer #6 · answered by blakie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So you and your husband are defiantly getting a divorce? I take it he is no longer living with you?
If you two are separated and getting a divorce, the paper work is in motion and no one is changing their minds about it. Then there is no problem on going forth with your life.
2007-10-22 11:02:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I am a private investigator, and it is ok to see someone after the legal separation... i.e. as long as you've filed for divorce, you're legally separated. If you haven't filed yet, you could be in danger of adultry, which could hurt you in the divorce proceedings.
2007-10-22 11:02:46 · answer #8 · answered by glandens_pi 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It can complicate the divorce, your lawyer should be your guide, he knows the case well, is there a separation papers drawn up already?
Ask your divorce lawyer.
2007-10-22 11:04:03 · answer #9 · answered by minootoo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think morally for yourself you should at least wait till you file for a divorce....If you want anyone else to value you then you need to value yourself FIRST
2007-10-22 11:07:34 · answer #10 · answered by Yvette D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋