A childhood friend and I found each other online & met up Sat b/c he wants to see an old friend (me). We're 25. In his profile, it says he is looking for friendship, not dating. We went to cafe, talked, and lady selling pink roses passed by and he bought me one. I don't know if it was a date. We talked about how he must go thru 10 days of not eating meat to support his family being Buddhist. We joked about how it is hard for him to not eat meat. I gave him a hug when we parted. Afterwards, he left to eat dinner at a vegetarian place with his parents. While there, he texted"I hate eating veggies." I texted back (3 min later) "Aww poor thing..hang in there hehe." Some said what i texted was too much, obvious i'm interested (i don't want it to be obvious) & ball in his ct. They said i should've just texted "hang in there". It's been 2 days & he hasn't called. Is he looking for friendship & nothing more? He isn't calling b/c he doesn't want to lead me on? i want more but i should give up?
2007-10-22 10:56:33 · 11 answers · asked by angelgirly888 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
There was nothing wrong with what you texted and if he just wants to be friends then it might be several days before you hear from him.
2007-10-22 11:11:17 · answer #1 · answered by Spring 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you r reading to much into simple text messages. If he likes you he will call back. Even if he calls you back though that doesn't mean he wants a relationship over just a friend
2007-10-22 18:01:21 · answer #2 · answered by natasha 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Text messaging. Quite frankly this takes all the fun and romance out of the mating ritual.
No wonder marriages fail in this day and age.
2007-10-22 18:21:02 · answer #3 · answered by Quasimodo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take a deep breath and let it go. I know it's hard not to obsess in the beginnings of a relationship, but guys can smell that from a million miles away. They want confident women who say (or text) What they want. Be yourself and if he doesn't want you, he's not the one you want to be with.
2007-10-22 18:06:14 · answer #4 · answered by Diana M. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
whatever you texted him was fine. if you are really interested and want to see him again, why not text him again. dont wait for him. send him a sarcastic text...like....just checking to see if you survived through your veggie dinner" or something like that. dont be shy. make the first move. if he doesnt get back to you, then you know that he's not interested. if he does....then YAY! lol
good luck
2007-10-22 18:20:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you're really overanalyzing this. I can't believe that his decision to call you or not would be based soley on the text you sent.
2007-10-22 18:32:18 · answer #6 · answered by JennyM 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's a guy its been two days, come on NOW you look obvious! Dont sweat the small stuff!
2007-10-22 18:05:57 · answer #7 · answered by pinkleo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you asked this many times before under a different nic
2007-10-22 18:01:39 · answer #8 · answered by ann s 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should haev just told him you wanted to knock boots so everyone would be happy
2007-10-22 18:04:13 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
there are worse things you could have said. i think what you texted was fine.
2007-10-22 18:02:37 · answer #10 · answered by Morgan Tyler 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋