Marriage & Divorce - 22 October 2007

I just moved out of state, away from my family and friends where I had lived for most of my life to be with my current boyfirend of 3.5 years and he goes home to his parents house, 2 hours away, every weekend to hunt. He will be going for half of November too. Prior to this it was fishing though not every weekend, at least every other or once a month.

I don't know many people here and I don't want to spend every weekend at his parents house. I also can't help but spend Saturday nights worrying that he is out at the bars as he can walk to them from their house.

We used to go out together but I quit drinking and now I don't like too go out to bars. We were both supposed to quit, but he didn't. I don't want to start drinking again, but he barely wants to do any non-drinking social things and basically I just don't want to sleep with him anymore as a result of all this as it feels like we aren't friends anymore cause we don't hang out.

2007-10-22 02:47:24 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

im 23 weeks pregnant and have been on this mood kick like no other. i feel like im not treating my husband fair at all but everything he does i fly off the handle. now i know i need to get that in check but what is something sweet i could do for him that will light that fire that we once had??
guys-what do you wish your girl would do for you?
thanks in advance!

2007-10-22 02:28:14 · 13 answers · asked by 2/08 is the due date! 3

I want to know my rashi . i dont know right time of birth. DoB 31/10/1986. birth place is Ratnagiri(Hardhakhale).Last 2-3 years their is no progress in the edu. i want to know that why this obstacles are coming in my life. which stone is perfect for me for edu as well as for overall improvement. so plz help me . when i get married & how will be my life partner.

2007-10-22 02:26:10 · 6 answers · asked by reshu 1

2007-10-22 02:25:51 · 7 answers · asked by Teach 3

I see how many married people online get into situations that they know they shouldn't, like talk to the opposite sex about things they should be talking to their spouse about, or they get into webcamming, or go to the chat rooms and talk about things they shouldn't... it's worse when they have kids... why does it bother me so much??? sigh =(... I guess I care too much...? =(... I just don't understand...no matter what, I would never hurt my husband... ever... I would never cheat... and he would never do this to me... (shakes head @ people who cheat online) I just want to scream at some people! argh! sigh...

2007-10-22 02:20:48 · 16 answers · asked by elvlayarvvi fEisty wife and mom 6

I am sexy male and I can not live without love.

2007-10-22 02:18:27 · 30 answers · asked by ashok k 1

Because she already cooks, cleans, picks up dry-cleaning, etc...like you have the wife already?

Is the saying"why buy the cow when you get the milk for free" really true?

2007-10-22 02:13:29 · 9 answers · asked by Maeve 4

Hi.I am 29 and married.I have been married for 6 six years. i feel absolutely no attraction to my husband. in all the time that we have been married i have had an orgasm only once. I faked all the other times.sometimes he tries too hard and ends up hurting me. i feel like i do not love my husband anymore. he is a wonderful person but there is just no attraction and i hate myself for it. we have nothing in common and he tries to mould me into this person i am not. i work 9-5 and when i come home i do the housework and cook. i feel as though i do the same thing day in and out. i am bored stiff and want to leave him for my sanity. any advice.

2007-10-22 02:05:24 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

together several times.He acts as he likes me, he's carrying,we go out with his friends,we dance together and we stay alone till morning,holding hands and arms.He never tried to kiss me or asked me to be his gf but when some guys approached me inside the club he acted jealously.The problem is that this Friday after having fun in the club,he talked 2 much about his ex gf.They broke up this summer but they had had an on/off relationship for 7 yrs.We went to his house as he wanted to show me sth in his "my space"and he still keeps pictures of this girl and him.I don't want to have a 2nd place in his life or to be his rebound girl.I think to back off.How you see this story?

2007-10-22 02:02:44 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

kicked son as punishment and promised to do so again if he didn't do as told.
has previous history of becoming violent when angry threatening myself and causing bodily injury while blaming me for making him do so.
told son it was his last option, as though he'd tried other ways to discipline.
all were implemented with anger.\

2007-10-22 01:56:07 · 24 answers · asked by bahabug 1

2007-10-22 01:52:09 · 19 answers · asked by pathma cute 1

Not the allowance for groceries & bills but her own personal allowance to be spent at her discretion?

2007-10-22 01:50:08 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've been married for 6 years. We were watching a movie last night, Madea's Family Reunion. It's kinda like a love story.

Anyways, Wifey asks me if she was the only one that was meant for me. I don't believe in the soulmate thing. I believe if you live in a certain area, you'll meet someone there. If you live somewhere else, you'll meet someone else, and so on. So I told her if I met her at the college we went to. I told her what I really believed, was that I met her and it just happened to be the location I was in. Needless to say, she wasn't happy with the answer.

Women, WHY do some of you insist on asking questions that either put the guy in a bad spot, or there's only one way to answer? I mean, you want us to be truthful when it comes to fidelity, but you'd want me to lie if my wife was 5'2" and pushing 3 bills (she's not, by the way) and she asks me if she looks better than Beyonce or someone like that...

My wife's awesome and I love her, but what was THAT about?

2007-10-22 01:44:18 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

you were going to get your heart broken?

I think everyone has mad this kind of mistake.

Why did you do it?
What did you do to try and soften the blow?
How did it all work out?

2007-10-22 01:41:38 · 9 answers · asked by Stuey 6

Could it be coz there are no commitments and no strings attached? If not, what then?

2007-10-22 01:39:15 · 15 answers · asked by Rave 2

what is the reason for following people around ? do people in love / wanting a relationship with someone engage in this kind of behavior ?

is it o.k for people who want to be with someone to get them by hook or crook ?

2007-10-22 01:35:08 · 10 answers · asked by Pramod R 4

2007-10-22 01:26:22 · 3 answers · asked by clarkee22 1

We have not told our two wonderful children yet. I have a difficult time sleeping next to him. It hurts. I really want to stay friends but it hurts too much for him to be right next to me. I hope that once all the pain is over maybe it will be better. Help! I have never gone through a separation/divorce before. When does it get easier?

2007-10-22 01:21:47 · 21 answers · asked by Marge S 2

what would be some tell tale signs of such behavior ( other then the Norman Bates type behavior ( as shown in "PSYCHO" by Alfred hitchcock) ?

2007-10-22 01:16:32 · 13 answers · asked by Pramod R 4

2007-10-22 01:13:52 · 8 answers · asked by Honey786 4

For the past 3 yrs or more my fiance has been into snorting cocaine. We have split up numerous times b/c of this. We have two young boys. I do not want my children living a life where their father is a drug addict. My parents did and I wont put my kids through the things I had to go through. I love my fiance more then life-he is a great man (beside the drugs).Through the week everything is GREAT! But when the weekend gets here, he will go out one night and not come home until the next day-when he does, he has spent most of his check on coke. He lies about it, but I know the truth. Every time the weekend is over he will apologize and kiss my but so hard all week long swearing that it wont happen again, and he just wants me to trust him and that he wont even go anywhere on the weekends anymore. But then the cycle repeats itself every weekend. I have kicked him out before b/c of this & he swore I did him wrong for leaving him during a hard time in his life. I cant take thia forever.

2007-10-22 01:13:48 · 15 answers · asked by Yellowtulips 3

I have 3 married friends. They come over have sex and leave. I feel used, but I like it. I'm just baffled.

2007-10-22 01:09:50 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

Every payday I have been putting money into a seperate account as sort of an emergency fund or to pay for things just in case the other account was low. I used this money to pay for all four of our children's b-day parties, bought him clothes that he needed and used it to pay bills that otherwise we did not have the money for. The thing is I did not tell my husband that we had this account, this was something I did without his knowledge for a kind of sense of security.

He found the bank statement last night and says that I have lied to him because I did not tell him about it, and now he says that he cannot believe anything I say, and he does not think that this marriage will work and say he may want a divorce. I told him that I did not lie, I just did not tell him. I have not bought anything for myself with this money, in fact I have not bought any new clothes for mself in over two years and I just had a baby last year. Does this really show cause for a divorce? HELP!!!!!!

2007-10-22 01:04:33 · 60 answers · asked by Anonymous

My exhusband and I are starting to now get along much better these days... The other day he called me and we had a real conversation that wasn't based around the kids. See I thought that this was a good thing (he lives in Atlanta me in Pittsburgh). Well we talked about how it has been years and the feelings are still there for each other and how that will always be (although no talk of getting back together- we are both in other relationships). He told me to listen to that new Garth Brooks song more than a memory cause it reminds him of me. I wrote him an email last night thanking him for the talk and told him I listened to the song and I agreed with the lyrics. In the email I said he was right when he said that no one will ever understand how we feel about each other. Well his girlfriend apparently has his password and read it - I had no clue. Now she is sending me emails, I want her to leave me out of their fight and tell her I don't want him. How do I do that w/o being a b*tch?

2007-10-22 01:02:50 · 15 answers · asked by daniegirl917 2

My partner and I are having serious, extended difficulties getting along, and my partner is unwilling to go to counseling (for reasons I don't understand). No children. If I leave, I fear my partner (based on past statements) will expose personal information about me which will expose me to personal and professional humiliation, though I would not lose my job. Does anyone have advice? I am not a bad person, but I did make a mistake (that affected more than just me). I think my employer, friends and family would support me, but I hate the idea of their image of me changing. I suppose, I am just struggling to accept that my prior mistakes have consequences. But I am also frustrated that my partner wants to destroy me if I leave (my reasons for leaving have nothing to do with the mistake I made). My partner has done embarrassing things too, but I don't threaten to expose him/her. I'm tired of all the fighting but too scared to leave. What should I do?

2007-10-22 01:02:35 · 12 answers · asked by problempill 1

The other night we finished watching a show we had taped a couple of nights before. We curled up close, facing each other on the couch and talked about what had happened the show. Tony Soprano meeting his dad's woman on the side, at the cemetery, and not seeing any flaws in his dad etc. So I'm talking at this point and he looks at the living room wall and .."Do you see that line in the plaster.., I never noticed that before. " He jumps up and looks at the wall more closely and keeps being all fascinated with the WALL! After two long boring minutes, I went to our room and went to bed. Later on he's all..,"What you don't even say goodnight now?" he apoligizes and tells me it made him think of treasure. WTF!

2007-10-22 01:01:57 · 8 answers · asked by so tired 2

I Love him but, he wants to get married. Thats a big comitment and I don't know if I am realdy for that. I have been maried before and I just don't think I am ready for that again. We argue alot and don't get along very well right now and I just don't think it is a good idea. I tried telling him that and he gets really mad! And freaks out. What do you think I should do? And if I get married again I want to have a good wedding. And we really dont have much time or money for that right now.

2007-10-22 00:42:39 · 14 answers · asked by chickapoo12001 1

2007-10-22 00:30:47 · 8 answers · asked by dr renish 1

i cant deal with the affairs my husband had. the last affair i found out about was a year back and i still cant get over it. he is doing everything he can but still i suffer. I do not wanna divorce him

2007-10-22 00:19:10 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

my daugher has three children by three different men and she has recently married.my question is does she need permission from two of the fathers to change the childrens surname to her husbands? as both fathers see their children on a regularl basis
her new husband is the father of one of the children

2007-10-22 00:08:49 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous