what to do if i want a good girlfriend with whom i can talk everyproblem that i can not even talk to my wife

Answer 1

You need marriage counseling. Your wife should be your best friend.

Answer 2

I understand what you mean, it seems as though women who aren't married or in relationships tend to understand you more then your wife or girlfriend which ever the case may be. Counseling may help, going together and seperately at times. Lets face it you can't always talk to your wife or girlfriend because if they think your wrong, your wrong, no matter if your right. They only hear what they want to hear, its complicated at times. I'd suggest maybe asking some of your friends who are married as well. I had a roommate who's boyfriend said she was always so rude when ever they were doing something together she'd always be texting messages back and forth to friends. He felt like she was paying more attention to them instead of him, now of course she didn't think it was rude, she just thought he was acting like a baby. Course he asked me about it and I said the same thing as did my wife. So other couples might have some insight for you, specially couples who have been together a lot longer. Of course people may think I'm wrong for giving my answer but there's nothing wrong with having friends of the opposite sex, a majority of women I know and that my wife know have male friends they talk to about their problems with. For some reason its ok for women to have male friends, but turn it around and your *** is grass.

Answer 3

Finding another woman to share intimate thoughts with is CHEATING. Your wife should be the one that you can talk to about anything. If you feel that you can not trust her with what you need to talk about, it is time for counseling.The same goes for women who need a "guy friend" to share things with. That is CRAP and just looking for a way to cheat. It starts as emotional cheating then can very quickly turn to physical cheating. Once your emotions get involved it is harder to back away from the outside person. You start turning to them for things you should be turning to your spouse for. It is best for your marriage to stop this NOW. If you feel that you can't, seek help. It has already gone too far.

Answer 4

Urhm.. i dont agree with the other posters. Well those ones that are saying you shouldnt' get another girlfriend-friend coz they think youre cheating anyway

For me, Having a wife and having a girl-friend-friend (i'll use gff) are two different things

Well i assume you'd know what you share with your wife. But for me, (im not married, but i have a wonderful girl) i share everything with my gff that wouldnt make sense talking to my girlfriend.
Things like our problems, how to solve them, our situation, advice on what to do, how to be romantic,..or simply just sharing fun stories.

But since you asked how to get a good gff, Well, you cant force one to happen. You only find best friends. Well if you see one with potential, its okay to approach them with your natural self, to share random stories about your life, and soon enough they'll do the same to you, and voila! you have a gff you can tell anything to!

IT TAKES TIME.

I think a year is really the shortest time possible to really make a worthy gff. You really need to know the person inside out, so you know you can share yourself inside out as well. Also you pretty much have to share alot in common and be pretty up to date in your sharing.

CAREFUL! dont mix gff and wife together. You dont want a messy situation there... In fact, when things are comfortable enough, introduce your wife to your gff. IT'll make talking about lots of problems easier, esp if its to do with your wife+you.


=]

Answer 5

Sounds like you should have never gotton married, that,s if your even married to begin with as you were not very specific in your question. Are you saying you have a girlfriend or want a girlfriend? Either way, its not a good thing, and it tells me that you may be a very imature person or very selfish, you cant have it both ways.

Answer 6

talk to ur wife about this problem, somtimes issues r hard to bring up but im sure ur wfe will appreciate it and im sure u will feel better in the long run other than seeking outside ur relationship.. be fair to ur wife and urself. If u still cant talk to her seek councelling.

Answer 7

Get a divorce and stop trying to justify cheating on your wife.

Answer 8

I AGREE WITH THE OTHER'S YOU DO NEED SOME MARRIAGE COUNSELING. AND IF SHE DON'T MAKE YOU HAPPY YOU SHOULD LEAVE!! MARRIAGE IS A VERY COMMITTED THING YOU SAID FOR BETTER OR WORSE! RITE OR WRONG. DON'T BE LIKE THE OTHER MEN OUT THERE.