First she puts her arm behind my head [she never hurt me but she held *tight*] then she starts kissing me. I froze [I spoke of my wife about 100 times with her and I spoke of my wife that night]. Anyhows, so I froze. So she sticks her tongue in my mouth. |I didn't know what to do so I kind of hoped it would all just go away. [ostrich/ head in sand kind of thing] *But* I'm not made of stone and she is a woman so after a little while [and I was pissed], after a little while her womanliness was starting to have effect on me...... The she grabs me by the hand and pulls me out of the bar [into the hall], she pushed me against a wall and then she slipped her hand down the front of my boxer shorts...... Then, I politely told her [or begged her] no.. First she ignored me and kept on doing it then I said again and she heard. [Well I lifted her head and gently made her look in my eyes]. Then she stopped.
Then she promptly fell asleep. Obviously pissed and I make no value judgements.
But, A,
2007-10-22 15:15:57 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Anyhows, she's texting me and I just want it to all go away. I want her as a pal but not this.
2007-10-22 15:17:58 · update #1
I'm not sure it's as simple as some of you girls are saying. If I pushed her off then it would have created a scene and tell me, when's the last time you seen a man/woman in a tussle and you thoght it was the woman's fault? Never? Yea, well that's the problem. and if she disliked being spurned then she could have caused a lot of trouble. [she was pissed]
2007-10-22 15:43:16 · update #2
The 8th response was predictable. Well, with responses like that it's no wonder men can't speak out. Men are held as guilty no matter what happens. That's why I didn't make a scene.- the man's allways held as 'guilty'. Even when he's innocent. thanks for proving that.
2007-10-22 15:58:31 · update #3
And no, she's about 110-120 lbs so it's not a matter of force. And I'm about 200lbs and 6ft..... but why'm I bothering- it's allways the man's 'fault'.
2007-10-22 16:01:11 · update #4
Well, since you now know that she doesn't respect your wife and your marriage, the best thing to do is cut her out of your life. I know you don't want to, but she will ruin your marriage if you don't.
2007-10-22 16:17:07 · answer #1 · answered by janetrmi 5 · 4⤊ 0⤋
You can't 'marry' the devil, that's just her being ignorant and wanting attention, now some people, including myself believe Satan is the righteous way, but I do not talk badly about the Christian god because that is wrong to speak badly about another religion, because True Satanists do not even believe in Jehovah. So there for she has not have any of her facts straight and is just saying a cry for help. I personally wouldn't want someone to be converted into Christianity but it probably would be best for this poor girl. I pray that you can help her, her ignorance is the only real problem she has, along with her plea for attention, if you satisfy it she'll probably stop.
2016-05-24 22:14:26 · answer #2 · answered by amada 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not your fault; this woman has a weak character. You spoke of your wife. I'd stay away from this woman in the future. This happened in a bar. She was drunk, no doubt. (Did you say she fell asleep?) Jeeez... I've never "attacked" a man but I've actually seen it done and it just makes the woman look like a buffoon. Congratulations on making her stop! Not all men would have. You are of strong character! oh yeah--you need to END this friendship, it's as simple as that. Men and women can't often have productive friendships.
2007-10-22 20:59:11 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your a married man. If you love your wife I would have to say it wouldn't be hard to stop her. Think with your brain not that thing in your pants. Have a heart don't cheat on your wife. Don't waste your marriage over a one nightstand no matter how hot is.
Dude stop saying it's always the man fault. I understand people in this world can make you feel like it's your fault.just because you are a man. Sometimes it is the women's fault. It's not fair to always blame the man. As a women she knows better. Would she want some other women to do this to her when she is married. Ask her that. Don't worry about making a scene. At the time it might you might not feel so good about yourself. So what is worst feel mad that you turned her down and made a scene or cheating on your wife and ruining your marriage.
2007-10-22 15:27:56 · answer #4 · answered by NayNay 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Stop being a whimp and admit that you liked it. This woman is Not I repeat ,Not your friend. If you want to have a marriage I suggest that you get up and leave any place that she might frequent. I didn't see you say that you felt that you had been assaulted, or that you intended to call the police on her. You allowed this woman to think this behavior was ok ,and now you want to make it ok by acting like it wasn't your fault
You didn't say she was 100 lbs heavier and stronger than you are. You are trying to make excuses for your sorry behavior and it just doesn't fly.
2007-10-22 15:43:19 · answer #5 · answered by Mama Mia 7 · 3⤊ 1⤋
why would you want someone as a pal if she cant respect that the fact that you are married she is being a home recore.and a whore. dont tell your wife shes just gonna say you couldnt push her off. and to be honest you should have done that
2007-10-22 15:25:59 · answer #6 · answered by **prIncEsS gIrL*** 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Stay away from her, dont even be friends with her. Tell her to leave you alone and to stop texting. Temptation is knocking very hard right now, so please for love of your wife and your marriage dont answer.
2007-10-22 15:22:10 · answer #7 · answered by lynjen31 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
in this situation, it'll only lead to 2 roads.
1 - you keep her as a 'pal' and your marriage will eventually end
2 - you keep her out of your life and your marriage is in peace
the choice is yours.
2007-10-22 16:23:31 · answer #8 · answered by ~Amor~ 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
run forrest !!! Run!! find a new bar or a good lawyer and tell your wife now! and give her the girls number, i bet that will chill her out.
2007-10-23 01:30:03 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
me thinks ur wife already found out about it and ur just hopin shell read this and think all is innocent
2007-10-22 20:40:52 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋