If you would still have divorced would you have done it sooner.
2007-10-22 15:52:21 · 21 answers · asked by scout1567 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Two years sooner.
2007-10-22 15:56:40 · answer #1 · answered by Eratosthenes 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Knowing what I know now. I would have divorced 10 years sooner. There was no making it better and I tried to make it better for far too long. Not to mention the kids would have been better off.
2007-10-22 23:52:43 · answer #2 · answered by kirk1500 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my case I should have divorced way earlier. Instead of giving him chances to clean up his act. He was cheating and started using Crack, lost everything after the kids and I left.
Took him back 3 times after he seemed to have improved.Was married for over 15 years, should have divorced after 5,lol. Seriously though, if yo are married you should try to resolve your differences first,if that don't work get a divorce.
Happily remarried now.
2007-10-22 22:59:30 · answer #3 · answered by devilish1965 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a hard one but i have the answer . Even if i knew that the ex was going to cheat and run off i would have did it all over again . All though she is a lying cheating snake at one time in her life she was a good person that i loved . In fact all the woman that came in and out my door i still have feelings for . They all made me smile and feel good about my self one time or another . Now that im allot older i really don't think about the bad things . I remember all there smile and kisses that they gave them self to me . Its nothing they had to do its what they gave . And in my older age i sure do have allot of fine memory's to take with me not to mention the great kids i have that shower me with love all the time .
Yes it was all worth it .Every woman that broke my heart was the greatest gift that God gave me and i thank him very much for all the joy that i had . Sometimes we cant see our blessing until its all over.
2007-10-22 23:16:33 · answer #4 · answered by dad 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would try to make it better, not for him but for my son, but if I would have stayed who knows if he would have ever grown up, because he still hasn't three years later? He cheats on the current wife and blames me because I'm the one who quit? Marriage is a lot of work, and if both people stop working at it at the same time then it's over. Would I give him/us another chance, I think most people with children always struggle with that question forever.
2007-10-22 23:25:40 · answer #5 · answered by Cam P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My first divorce would've occured sooner (I let him get away with too much because I was insecure and afraid). He cheated on my many times, spent all our money faster than we made it, and I lost that loving feeling way before we finally split up.
My second marriage would've never happened,so that divorce wouldn't have been necessary. That marriage was an "oops" plain and simple.
2007-10-22 22:57:28 · answer #6 · answered by . 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
depends on who you are married too!!! i have been divorced twice and i look at the men i married and they have not changed or grown up, so i was hanging on and gave them both plenty of chances to change, some people never change i see them NOW and all the relationships they have ruined since we were divorced and they still haven't learned anything some things just are not meant to be.... i tried to make things better and just wasted my energy and allot of good years of my life!!!
2007-10-22 22:59:48 · answer #7 · answered by tristy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What ?i would not divorce again I would hope not to marry again into a marriage that will end in divorce.Divorce is the reason i don't plan to marry again. I have been asked to marry and I don't want it.
2007-10-22 22:58:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I divorced when I was at the end of my rope. I found myself crying when I turned the corner on to our street and just knowing i was going to see him really upset me. It was really bad, we exhausted all options that we could find, counseling, dates with each other, time apart, talking, nothing worked...we had really grown apart and he seemed to hate me...I am glad that I left, I am glad I left when I did....no stone was left unturned and therefore neither one of us have guilt. We are friends now, have a child and life is better for her because we are apart and there is never any fighting around her. P.S. I have remarried and am very happy.
2007-10-22 22:57:01 · answer #9 · answered by Rein 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If I had known how the marriage was going to turn out, I never would have married him. I did everything I could to make things work.
2007-10-22 23:10:21 · answer #10 · answered by tygres74 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋