Marriage & Divorce - 18 October 2007

I'm extremely lucky to live in Alaska, where they pay you money every year just to live here. That being said, what do you do if your husband spends all that money (this year it was $3,308) on a truck and a gun? We had agreed to pay off bills with it....I guess my question is, how do I not get so pissed? The money's gone, and we can't just get a refund, so there's nothing I can do about that. I just need some tips to try not to get so pissed off about this. Thanks everyone!

2007-10-18 17:04:43 · 26 answers · asked by moosesandsnow 2

What do u think of this marriage????
Do u think that she should have told her father about this????
Or do u think that she has done a right thing??????

2007-10-18 17:04:09 · 6 answers · asked by aksm_14 1

He says there is nothing going in but i live in Wa...he lives in Georgia because of the military. She lives in NC only 3 hours away. Now he tells me they talk often. He says to worry..but I am soooo upset at him! How do i confront him about this, he does have a child with her???

2007-10-18 17:03:20 · 12 answers · asked by lupe 1

I like to think we do, but do we really????

2007-10-18 16:38:23 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

The guy I was seeing was head over hill with me. He said he loved me 5 years ago when we first met, but I turned him down. He got married then divorced. I met him two months ago after five going six years of no talking. I've never attracted to him at the time but now I am. These last two months we spent some good quality time together, getting to know each other. Well, things didn't go that well. We got into some issues, his ex-wife (my issue) and my separation from my husband (his issue). I'm not fully ready for someone at the moment and my decision still pending to whether I would give my husband another chance or devoted to him. However, I started to fall for him hard, not physically but emotionally. Until recently things go down hill when I started to spent serious time with him at his home. He started to get upset with my stuff laying around, he likes to keep it clean. I felt like an outsider when he acted that way. I packed, gave back his key and left. Did I do the right thing?

2007-10-18 16:23:23 · 9 answers · asked by Confused 1

2007-10-18 16:18:53 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous

Before your married he would do anything for you, clean the house, eat you out all the time, dance whenever you asked, french kissed you a thousand times, flirted, went out on dates, etc. if you know what I mean. Am I doing something wrong? Why go through so much and then not much after? Do any of you understand what I mean? Have I lost my touch in being a beautiful woman? Or do I need another friend/lover to make up for the difference? I know marriage isn't always all fun and games and I do what is required of me as a wife, but is there something more that I'm lacking? Please write back.

2007-10-18 16:13:24 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

I dont blame her for having no trust in me...But AM I TRULY READY TO GIVE MY LIFE TO HER....I PROMISED MYSELF THAT I WUD NEVER EVER CHEAT OR HURT HER AGAIN..BUT THE PROBLEM IS THAT SHE DOESNT BELIEVE ME....I JUST NEED HER TO GIVE ME ONE CHANCE SO I CAN PROVE IT TO HER....I WANT TO MARRY HER AND HAVE KIDS....BUT TO HER...SHE DOESNT SEE IT THAT WAY....BUT I KNOW IT WAS MEANT TO BEEEEEEE!!!

2007-10-18 16:10:04 · 26 answers · asked by chi_south_kid1 1

Has his Mom's maiden name because his mom and dad are divorced. Do you take the mom's maiden name, do you both pick up the fathers loast name, or you do you keep yours?

2007-10-18 16:04:23 · 22 answers · asked by ~*~<3~*~ 3

I really want to make my husband of 13 years feel appreciated and flattered. What makes you guys feel this way, and what would make you over the moon crazy about her (Other than her womanly wiles...) :) Thanks-

2007-10-18 16:03:31 · 9 answers · asked by happygirl 4

I love to have a glass(or two) of wine every night. My husband recently brought this to my attention, saying that I shouldn't drink more than 5 oz a night. Is it bad to have 10 oz of wine a couple of times a week and the other days, just having 5oz? I get frusterated because my husband doesn't like me to drink more than two drinks, no matter where we go(party, club, dinner, etc.) and we are only 25 years old. Not that I want to go get drunk on a regular basis, but I think that it is okay to go out and have fun, and drink with all of our friends more than once a year. What do you think?

2007-10-18 16:01:09 · 9 answers · asked by h_nanny 1

She things your the greatest thing in the world.

Then as soon as she has her children she forgets about you

2007-10-18 16:00:10 · 15 answers · asked by That Guy 4

I'm not the fastest of walkers, but my husband walks at a fast pace all the time. He has a tendency to walk ahead of me, and often just walks off and leaves me if I stop to look at something or talk to someone. After a while he notices that he's not talking to anyone, and comes back only to accuse me of "leaving him talking to himself."

In my opinion he should pay enough attention to notice when I'm gone, or even hold my hand while we walk so that I don't get left behind. He thinks I should just walk faster - what do you think?

2007-10-18 15:53:41 · 13 answers · asked by trillian 5

2007-10-18 15:53:36 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-10-18 15:51:45 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-10-18 15:49:38 · 18 answers · asked by karam1982rahman 1

put out a big red flag to the ladies?

2007-10-18 15:43:50 · 16 answers · asked by Jeremy G 1

My husband is an alcoholic and i can't stand it when he drinks, because everytime we end up in an argument. What can I do I don't want to leave him, he is my heart and soul. I Love him so much just want him to stop drinking and he say's he will never quit. Is there any hope or am i just holding on a pipe dream.

2007-10-18 15:39:20 · 19 answers · asked by dcdaniel1968 2

Help me i don't know what to do....?
i have son with me...and his father is in abroad...we we're in a boyfriend relationship before and then i get pregnant then he went abroad but he acknowledge it but we didn't get married... i gave birth without him...im the only who raise my child he is four now.but his giving a financial support that is not enough. and now we broke up because he has another woman in abroad. do you thin he has the right to take my child away from me even my child is carrying or has is name/ surname? legally speaking...any suggestions...pls answer...thanks

2007-10-18 15:39:20 · 5 answers · asked by kissertoni 2

2007-10-18 15:35:16 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

Need help to have high libido...

2007-10-18 15:34:56 · 9 answers · asked by cherishmhe 1

I need yr ideas,please

2007-10-18 15:32:54 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-10-18 15:30:05 · 1 answers · asked by Pawan S 1

Ok, so my inlaws (i need to say OUTLAWS ) bec i cant stand them, live in Delaware, we live in Nj...i had a baby in May 2006. I said i would go with my hubby and the baby to visit them during XMAS....Our son HATES car rides, I dont want to put him through this...last year i asked my OUTLAWS to come up here and she gave me the HARDEST time....i am getting very anxious about it now.....i really dont want to go.........i also have to say that my inlaws have NOT been nice to me for this entire year...thye have found fault and all i did was marry thier son and have his baby...HELP!!

2007-10-18 15:19:07 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-10-18 14:48:54 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I can never seem to get "in the mood". It's strange, sometimes it seems like I feel timid about having sex with my husband, but I don't know why because I don't feel timid about anything else when I'm around him. Sometimes I feel like wanting to be more "agressive" and take the lead, but I think the way he responds to me turns me off. I feel like he makes sex a chore. Like it's just something I'm obligated to do, not something we do because we're just in the mood for it. Every time we get ready to have sex he feels the need to remind me of how many days it's been. If I just got off my period he exaggerates and tells me I haven't had sex with him for 2 weeks. Or he'll say things like, "are we going to have sex or what, because I can do something else if not?" Then I end up not wanting to do it at all and we get in fights about it. I don't know if I'm turned off by the way he approaches me about sex or if there's just something wrong with me sexually.

2007-10-18 14:48:47 · 11 answers · asked by Babycakes 3

I have a letter from my lawyer stating that I wish to separate from my husband. I am going to deliver it to him myself, and wondered how long it is valid for? Is there a period after which it expires? I am planing to wait until the end of the month before presenting it to him. It was dated Oct.1/07. I guess my question is: how long can I delay before it is no longer any good?

2007-10-18 14:44:06 · 5 answers · asked by Irishgal 2

We own the home together. Since the market is so bad i thought i could wait this out, but i can't stand him and i need to get out now.....How long would it take me to sell my home....at this point I dont even care how much i get out of it....I just need to get something back....

2007-10-18 14:39:10 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

what do u think about someone being a housewife or house mom that doesn't work?

2007-10-18 14:36:47 · 23 answers · asked by Rayray 5

Another email from the ex. Wife read it and wasnt too happy, this one was quite different she asked how my wifes and my relationship is doing. Do you think that is hint? I dont think it is anything big but my wife wants to kick her ***. I keep trying to tell her that she is only asking and it is not a big deal but my wife being the beautiful woman she is, wants to bash her head in and make it an ink spot. What do I do now?

2007-10-18 14:36:08 · 18 answers · asked by gamafoo 4