Marriage & Divorce - 18 October 2007

All I have ever wanted was to be a mother to 4 children. My husband knew this and one day promised me that this would happen. However my husband insists that I have a constant full time job. We already have 2 girls whom I love, but were not planned, and I would love to try for another. When I lost my job that I had to get because my husband got layed off from his, I put my foot down and told him that it was his job to be the provider. Since then he has completely changed his mind about having more kids and told me under no circumstance could we have any more. This hurts me very deeply and he knows. I can't even look at another baby without wanting to cry. He is so serious about this that the issue of divorce has actually come up. I am having a hard time getting past this. I know I love him and he loves me. I am not sure I could live without out him, but I resent him now and I am afraid this will hurt our marriage in the long run as well. Is this something I should just get past?

2007-10-18 02:38:45 · 12 answers · asked by buterbuny2 2

Last weekend, my ex-husband and I got into a verbal argument outside of my apartment and my boyfriend came to the door and told him to 'get the f*** out of here'....My x-husband took his gun out of it's holster and although he did not point it directly at my bf, he threatened to shoot him. My bf slammed the door and called the police. Now my ex-husband definitely has some anger issues and I sincerely do not think that he should posess a gun except when on duty (he's a corrections officer). His mother called me yesterday about both him and her seeing our 4 yr old daughter but knowing that he's carrying that thing around when my daughter is present bothers me not so much of what something he'd do to her but rather something that he might do around her if he's set off. Do you think there is a way for my to allow his mother to see her this weekend or should I wait? My bf is pressing charges so hopefully something is done where he can only have is gun at work...He has threatened me before 2

2007-10-18 02:36:57 · 20 answers · asked by serenity113001 6

living with him. How does he stop paying child support to his ex-wife? Does he have to file a motion. Could someone provide a brief explaination of the process. Thanks

2007-10-18 02:32:47 · 10 answers · asked by ijokey2000 2

2007-10-18 02:25:52 · 4 answers · asked by Sydarius H 1

She never answers the damn thing. It's always buried deep down in her purse. When I need to talk to her, I call and then wait a half hour for her to call me back...very annoying. What should I do?

2007-10-18 02:21:29 · 44 answers · asked by photoguy1967 3

I know men are different than women, but how do I deal with this and have a happy relationship?

2007-10-18 02:15:17 · 10 answers · asked by stacyjeanquart 1

its kinda agony..cox hes quite sticky to me..please help to advice me..how to ask him to kept a distance???? THANKS.

2007-10-18 02:14:38 · 9 answers · asked by macik 1

Have you noticed that as a general rule of thumb......women will meet a man and then spend an entire lifetime trying to change him, mold him, scold him, and push him towards reaching his true potential? While men on the other hand seem to want nothing more than for women to go back to being exactly how they were when they first started dating, and to never ever change?

2007-10-18 01:48:30 · 16 answers · asked by ? 5

In the bedroom, have you and your husband introduced a diIdo? i dont mean like a small vib, i mean like one that is much larger than him. if so, do u like it...does the larger size add a little something to things? thanks

2007-10-18 01:47:17 · 13 answers · asked by DMV 1

My old boyfriend and I e-mail each other a few times each week. We are now both married to other people, but neither of our spouses know that we are in contact. The content of our e-mail is platonic, nothing sexual. Is this ok, or do we need to stop? We haven't told our spouses about this because they are both very jealous people.

2007-10-18 01:43:07 · 33 answers · asked by J Mack 3

my husband called this morning well when i answered he hung up then for 6 mins i kept trying to get ahold of him and all of a sudden i had a voice mail well it seems he didnt know he dialed the number all though i could here him pretty clearly even better then usual but what i hear baffled me. I could hear him moan and say oh yea and well theres only one occasion ive know him to do that and thats when we are together but then i could hear another guy witch wasnt the one he is working with and could hear him saying yea see that truck its mine could he be cheating on me or am i over analyzing things hes been in and out of town for several weeks now with work since it means overtime and time he dont have to deal with my mom im going nuts running his message through my head over and over

2007-10-18 01:39:15 · 9 answers · asked by Buga Boo 1

2007-10-18 01:24:43 · 28 answers · asked by Aquamarine 5