I know men are different than women, but how do I deal with this and have a happy relationship?
2007-10-18 02:15:17 · 10 answers · asked by stacyjeanquart 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
They should say thank you. Keep saying it to him and hopefully he will start saying it. My husband says Thank you, Please, and your welcome. So dose my son. I think it is something that is taught at a young age..He should have enough respect for you to say it....
2007-10-18 02:19:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that depend on the guy you're in the relationship with, ok. not all men have problem saying thank you! you just pick the one who doesn't feel he need to said it. maybe he feel that its mature thing between the two of you. if you really have an issue with this with your partner, bring it up in a conversation. Thank you.....you have a wonderful day!
PS...there are some women have the same problem too, if you have notice. Thank you again
2007-10-18 09:22:00 · answer #2 · answered by Thomas 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop all the extra things you do that he should be "thankful" for. When he questions it tell him you got no "thanks" for anything, so you didn't believe it was appreciated, therefore an unnecessary effort. Ask him what is it he is thankful for regarding you and your relationship, then ask him to please acknowledge with gratitude when you do one of those things for him, so you in turn you keep wanting to do them.
( Or you can Just look up THANKFUL in the Thesaures, use the big words for it, and he'll "Thank you" all the time!! lol)
2007-10-18 09:40:59 · answer #3 · answered by Jenispent 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh, because they are men...
I gave up on teaching my cat to bark too LOL
serious: expectations are the source of all disappointment. So just don't do anything you expects a thank you for. And probably he has other ways to express his gratitude. (Ah well.. I know... but still.)
2007-10-18 09:27:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not hard for my husband, but I know what you are talking about. You should sit him down and tell him the type of person you want to be with and if he can't be that person (in this case) then he is just selfish and ungrateful. Then you are going to have to decide if this is who you want to share your life with.
2007-10-18 09:27:09 · answer #5 · answered by kitkat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
men have NO manners although it is fun to be able to teach them some...
manners have to come first in a relationship I think
2007-10-18 09:21:38 · answer #6 · answered by oh_jo123 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they are raised right, it shouldn't be hard at all...that's a rude, no manner man, not all men.
2007-10-18 09:25:35 · answer #7 · answered by madsmaha1 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him, explain that when he doesn't say you you don't feel appreciated? (I don't know if that is how you feel, you didn't leave much information here.)
2007-10-18 09:19:00 · answer #8 · answered by Beatngu 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they can be self-centered, selfish, and ungrateful, and lastly unappreciative!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-10-18 09:19:24 · answer #9 · answered by rita_hiemy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I always say "youre welcome",,,,,, they get the hint.
2007-10-18 09:29:05 · answer #10 · answered by Emily 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋