Marriage & Divorce - 18 October 2007

We have been playing an online game for sometime now and recently this woman she also is married with kids heavily flirts with my husband online! This is driving me crazy, he had previously told me when it started up that he is not going to let this happen not to worry I am his wife. Its easy to say but its hard to deal with every night when she tries to flirt with him before she goes to bed!! She has a husband. I know I can just wait this out but its so annoying. What should I do? I left my guild partly because of her and now my hubby acts impatient and angry when I ask him to ask her to stop bothering him because he thinks nothing of it, he says. She knows our computers are next to each other and she knows I can see, is she just doing it to annoy me?

2007-10-18 06:37:24 · 18 answers · asked by decentgirl 1

2007-10-18 06:35:22 · 10 answers · asked by g f 1

2007-10-18 06:32:30 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

If you would be in a marrige for sometime with kids. You come to realize that the person you've been married makes you feel like a nobofy. Likes to argue allot with the oldest kid, just because he is the parent and he (spouse) thinks everything he says is right. Trys to pick out your clothes when you go shopping. Reads your diary.
Now after all this would you still have the same feeling for him? And if you didn't what would you do?

2007-10-18 06:24:41 · 41 answers · asked by ? 2

we have been married for 6 years, I am 30 she is 29. she worked for 3 years make\ing around 30,000 a year. We had a baby 3 years ago and she quit her job to stay home with him. now she wants a divorce and I am taking full financal responsibily for my son. and we are spliting custody of him 50-50. She is fully capabile of working. I live in colorado.

2007-10-18 06:23:10 · 8 answers · asked by json 1

He is a very rich man and he is a good muslim.

2007-10-18 06:22:32 · 1 answers · asked by Ibrahim Kamrul Shafin 1

Men become the oldest kid in a family . I have experienced this personally . They hate to admit this , but this is the reality . When am not well our home turns topsy turvy with my hubby & my 2 boys trying to figure what needs to be done next . Is there a way we can make the man of the household to be more responsible & maternal . Need tips ......

2007-10-18 06:21:58 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

HI, I,am a mother of a 10 years old daughter. Do you think its right or wrong if the mother has custody of her child.

2007-10-18 06:17:55 · 27 answers · asked by Mary H 1

My husband cheated on my 5 years ago and had a baby, I forgave him, but now he is acting secretive esp with his cellphone, and his email account, i use to have the password but now he changed it. I have asked him countless times if he wants a divorce but he says no. I also set up an email account with a fake name and emailed him as if i was intrested in him so he emailed me back and gave me his cellphone number and told me to call him during work hours so his wife(me) wouldnt find out. I have been married for 7 years and we just had a baby 5 months ago. help is he cheating again or am i just jumping to conclusions

2007-10-18 06:14:56 · 35 answers · asked by gigglestp76 2

2 weeks ago my husband called me up and told me he was meeting up with a girl he meet 2 months ago to discuss opening a business together. He has been sneaking out of the house after I go to bed and his cell phone constantly going off with text messages and phone calls from her. He has also got a prepaid cell phone to contact her. Only way I found that out was I found the receipt. They both state they are just good friends. However, on his days off he takes our son over to her house and stays there all day. As soon as I walk out the door or he does, he is on the phone with her or texting her. He swears left and right nothing is happening, that he is in a depressed place and she is someone who listens and talks to him. He won't talk to me about whats wrong and he erases all her text & phone calls so I can't see them. He tells me that I am just jealous and he is doing nothing wrong with having a friend of the opposite sex. Any Suggestions. I love him & want to fix any problems

2007-10-18 06:12:09 · 27 answers · asked by BreakingHeart 2

2007-10-18 06:10:24 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

After having 5 kids my wife has threatend to cut my b***s of herself if i don't get a vasectomy. My worries are
#1 sex drive
#2 the pain [ i am a wimp ]
#3 recovery time
#4 the risks


Thanks in advance

2007-10-18 05:53:03 · 35 answers · asked by gordie1 2

There are of course the obvious reasons. The aspect that I'm curious to know is this. 3 years ago, I had a family consisting of 5, married to a Lady I love, 3 beautiful children overflowing with love. As with anyone, we had good times, and bad. Anyhow, not the point. Point is...she gave up, answered an email about "make money working @ home with Ebay". A sales rep responded & called her. Well..they built enough of a relationship over the phone & net, that 2weeks after I found letters & lingere' he sent to her..she left. Married for 12 years, believing in Love, marriage (even more important..promises to each other & our children we brought into this world together) every part of me 100% NEVER believed either one of us would EVER cheat-leave-give up..etc. Well..I nearly lost my entirety..sinking into a DEEP depression..one that landed me in the hospital. Anyhow..even 3yrs later, its hard to grasp our family divided. Several times being told this(my ?)when feeling lost & lonely. Y?

2007-10-18 05:49:46 · 16 answers · asked by Honesty builds SOLID Trust!! 1

Please only pick one answer and designate if you are the husband or wife.

2007-10-18 05:49:07 · 58 answers · asked by snack_daddy10 6

My friend really needs help, and I have no idea about this. Hope someone can help her.
She is a Singapore PR and her husband is Singapore Citizen, and my daughter is 4. If she wanna divorce her husband, what will happen to her daughter's status?

2007-10-18 05:45:54 · 15 answers · asked by kylie 2

I'm not talking about romantically.

2007-10-18 05:38:42 · 14 answers · asked by daljack -a girl 7

My husband has been spending a lot of time at the baker's shop. He stops every day on his way to work, and then again on the way home. I know for a fact there's a cute little redhead that works there, and he has a bit of a thing for her. I didn't think much of it until he came home with a yeast infection! What should I do?

2007-10-18 05:36:25 · 59 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband had an affair about a year ago with a "friend" of mine. It lasted a couple of months and, after she confessed to me, they both said it was over. He has been quite distant from me ever since. He went astray 20 years ago and I thought we'd gotten past this kind of thing.

He threatened to simply pack up and leave the state a week ago.

My big question is that since our daughter is to be married in a few months, should I hold off divorcing him until then or just get it over with?

2007-10-18 05:33:07 · 11 answers · asked by Spots^..^B4myeyes 6

That shouldn't be an oxymoron. My spouse and I have been together for nearly 40 years but still enjoy each other greatly. Sometimes though a bit of erotica works to help get your mind on the right track. Too much that passes for erotica is really a turn off instead of a turn on,

2007-10-18 05:25:18 · 11 answers · asked by mantyfire 1

...would you prefer your wife stay home, raise babies, make meals, clean house, etc, etc, etc….OR would you rather she work and make her own money and you split household & family responsibilities/duties?

2007-10-18 05:23:19 · 13 answers · asked by Maeve 4

My wife and I were talking about this the other night. We know some couples who are happy like us. We know some couples who are miserable. We know a lot of couples who are somewhere in between.

Sometimes it was the husbands who were the problem. Sometimes it was the wives. Sometimes they just got married too young.

Here are the reasons we've found:

1) Men marrying women because of their sex appeal, not because of who they are (I have friends who have admitted as much).
2) Women marrying men because of their earning potential, not because of who they are (My wife has friends who have admitted as much).
3) Couples getting married immediately after graduation, rather than learning to live on their own and discovering themselves.
4) Couples getting married "because it seemed like it was time to get married."
5) Couples getting married out of sheer inertia, 2-3 years into a relationship.

Any others you can think of?

2007-10-18 05:22:01 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

Watching you as you're getting undressed. What would you say and do?

2007-10-18 05:03:42 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

My guy and his mom don't really get along. She is controlling and sorta mean so I understand that he refuses to take alot of the things she says, because he is 32 and does not need to answer to her anymore. Well, he and her started arguing over the phone one day as he wanted to bring me over for dinner and she wouldn't have it because she does not want to me now and he cursed at her, calling her B*** an idiot - you name it! I mean no matter how mad I could get w/ my mother, I would NEVER go there!! Are you kidding!? She'd get on the first plane out here and END my life!! LOL - But for reals, I told him to chill out and don't EVER be disrespectful like that again and hang up on her if it gets THAT bad. It is better then calling your own mom and a$$hole isn't it?? He said I was siding w/her. I mean he's 32, makes me wonder how it will be when we get married as we plan to within a year. Can you tell how a man is by he way he treats his mother? (mind you he has no sisters only a lil bro).

2007-10-18 04:59:12 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

My bf has two children, one 5 and the other 2. They live with there mothers. The 5 year old is a girl and I think she feels that somehow I am replacing her mother and she is begining not to like me. I do not in any way force myself on her. For people who have step children is it worth all the drama and do things get better? Are the children well adjusted? What should I do? I know that we are married but we plan to get married. In addition, the child's mother said today that my bf puts "other people" meaning me in front of the child...

2007-10-18 04:55:38 · 8 answers · asked by honeyluv_2010 4

what happened?

2007-10-18 04:54:50 · 31 answers · asked by Ron L 4

She desperately wants to, but has a tough time motivating herself. She has asked for my help, but I've been down that road and it wasn't successful. Need help.

2007-10-18 04:43:27 · 30 answers · asked by Mr.Boombastic 3

This is spawned off of my question here about maintaining a loving marriage. http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AsTrCN2v8BppTmAdWuOFQtfsy6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20071018072355AAK0Zjj

I have my ideas (been married for 11 years) but what are three (3) elements that are sure fire ways to destroy a marriage?

2007-10-18 04:35:48 · 30 answers · asked by theCATALYST 5

My husband moved out about 2 months ago and now has a checking account, cell phone and lease with his ex-wife. They were not friends til I left town for a week. Now, he wants to reconcile, but wants me to be okay with their friendship. Am I wrong in saying that I can't do that? All of it was done behind my back, including them becoming friends. When I left, they hated each other.

2007-10-18 04:24:10 · 27 answers · asked by mystique56 1

My husband's evil ex-wife and her horrid new husband took photos of my car (a 2007) that my husband was driving to pick up my step kids. My step son said he had heard his step dad saying he was going to get photos of the back of the car but didn't know why. My assumption is it was to get my license plate # but what could someone get from that? Keep in mind these are the most litigation happy people in the world and decietful too!

2007-10-18 04:23:03 · 6 answers · asked by nikandgabe1 2

I'm caught in the middle of serious problems with my husband's mother. He is the only child of divorced parents and was raised by his mother. She is very controling and has had a hard time letting her son move on to adult life. Before my husband and I met he purchased a condo and allowed his mother to do most of the paperwork. She loaned him $30k for a downpayement. For the past 3 years she has been mailing in the mortgage payments on his behalf. Now that we are married (5 months) I've been demanding that we need to take control of our payments and I refuse to allow us to keep sending her a "rent check" for our own mortgage each month. This has caused a huge backlash from her. We had a huge fight at her house where I told her off - which was not a good idea but I've had enough of her contoling ways. Now my husband is mad at me for disrespecting his mother and his mother is trying to convince him to leave me!?! How can I get my husband to put me first????

2007-10-18 04:21:29 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous