Marriage & Divorce - 18 October 2007

when a girl i really dont know well but love to death says "aww your so cute" im 18 is it a good sign or what. she didnt actually say it to me she wrote in my yearbook. she has flirted beforewith me. she doesnt talk to me she isnt shy. she always seems nervous around me like straighting clothes/hair



i have herd from people she is a party girl and "mischievous" with guys does this effect it

2007-10-18 10:43:25 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

If you were widowed or divorced, would you ever consider marrying again?

2007-10-18 10:42:29 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

at the end of july of this year, my husband and i got seperated. i packed up my things and moved back into my mother's house becasue my husband came to me and told me he filed for divorce. two weeks after we seperated i meet this guy and we only went out twice. my husband and i were sepereated for almost three months. a month after we seperated i only dated the other guy twice and then i stopped seeing him becasue i missed my husband and wanted to work things out. during those three months of our speration my husband and i were just dating and talking about working things out. he finally admitted to me that he lied about filing for divorce. he said he lied because he got tired of me letting my mother interfere in our marriage and that i did not have the guts to stand up to her. well i moved back in with my husband two weeks ago and we are doing fine right now, but the other guy who i havent heard from in two months has been emailing me.

2007-10-18 10:39:53 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

my husband never takes me out anymore he goes out of town all the time with out me and is always telling me i need to loose weight because after i gave birth to our son he says that i gained too much weight. i need to know if he loves me or not if i ask he never tells the truth he always answer an question with a question

2007-10-18 10:35:48 · 24 answers · asked by burroughscharlene 1

2007-10-18 10:30:36 · 9 answers · asked by Tori 1

My now ex husband decided he was not happy after ten years of marriage, had an affair and left. We have a ten year old son who lives with me and visits his Dad every other weekend. My ex usually did the disciplining. Our son has been acting out lately and having trouble in school. My ex is full of advice on how to handle things. The problem is I am the one who ends up dealing with the bad behaviour, extra homework, etc. It is just so frustrating and seems so unfair! My ex seems to want to help but in all reality - what can he do? We have separate lives now. He made choices that resulted in us barely speaking or seeing each other. We talk only when it is absolutely necessary. How do you raise a child like this?

2007-10-18 10:29:07 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

question is because of my marriage

2007-10-18 10:11:20 · 15 answers · asked by twistd_love 2

a friend of mine is a victim of such and heart broken. the husband left in the name of schooling only for her to find out that he is married to an american lady.this is very rampant and disturbing.

2007-10-18 10:03:16 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

This serious I don’t know what to do... his problem with me is that I press the issue to much which leads to an argument. But I feel like, if he’s wrong he should know about it. I’m not going to wipe his face and tell him that everything is alright when its not.

But then that starts another issue of he can’t stand the confrontation with me.

Am I suppose to “let him think that he is right" all the time and how do I let him know that he was wrong and he not worried about confrontation?

What is a wife suppose to do?

2007-10-18 09:53:44 · 13 answers · asked by Miss Lady 2

My wife and I have separate finances. I take care of the rent, car insurance/maint, and groceries. She is supposed to take care of the utilities, but I end up paying them. What should I do?

2007-10-18 09:50:46 · 23 answers · asked by Wrong Answer 4

2007-10-18 09:47:57 · 14 answers · asked by Kaya M 6

What were your reasons for or against marrying the person you chose? and how long has your marriage lasted?

Are there some major issues that you've overcome? did some issue you thought you could overcome end your marriage?

Just curious!

2007-10-18 09:47:29 · 11 answers · asked by blinker 2

2007-10-18 09:42:27 · 11 answers · asked by me87 3

Last a week I had a problem with one of my wife's friends who kept on refering me to her husband as a reference on how a husband should be and at the same time she had a crush on me and my wife knew it. However things between me and my wife are too rocky, unable to fix things, living like roomates until our divorce is finalised. However her friend ran away from her abusive husband and she has been staying with us. Yesterday I came home earlier because I had to complete my school assignment. I came home hoping that nobody was at home and surprisingly she called off yesterday and was laying half naked on the couch, not ashamed that I was here. Today I she called of and went to visit her sister and come back home and I was here doing my project, now she is laying half naked on the couch wants me to watch tv with her. What won't I do?I can't concentrate what I am doing now and its very tempting especially knowing that I havent had sex for almost five months now.

2007-10-18 09:38:12 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

I like to be free and marriage and kids takes your freedom from you so screw that I am a very adventurous person and dont let anything or anyone hold me done. I do what ever the hell I want when ever I want.
Alright so for those of you that are married why?????? I dont get it, do you do it cuz you actually love that person or you think society wants you to do this. Me I only love myself and I am my own person, I dont care what society wants me to do. I dont conform to nothing. Or is it that you get lonely and need someone. Maybe all of these things which dont pertain to me so thats probably why I dont get it.. I love my freedom and will never give it up. I am an island and need no one and dont get lonely, will never change my mind on this topic. Yes people change and so do I, but I will never want to be married or have kids ever. So for everyone who thinks its just a phase and you were like me at my age, nope thats not it its who I am and this decision is locked in so enough of th

2007-10-18 09:38:10 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

married now for 7 years i am only 29 my wife is 27 we only have sex once a week what should we do

2007-10-18 09:37:25 · 7 answers · asked by corey navarre 1

after we broke up we decided to be friend we live and work near each other so we see other quite often
lately i havent been seeing her cuz of the change in my schedule

for a good amount of time when we will see each other we will be happy to see each other
she will have a smile on her face and always ask me to come over to chi chat, so on our b day ( we have the same b day) she call me to wish me happy b day and we chi chatted i said a joke and she got mad at me for it she told me that i was rude and i told her to relax we ended the conversation ok
but we really havent spoken to each other
i saw her soon after, we chi chatted for awhile but not like before it felt different

so i saw her this morning, i said hello to her and she responded with a hello but wit no smile and some what like kinda ignore me
what up with her ? is she mad at me or bitter>?
whats going on here

2007-10-18 09:30:46 · 22 answers · asked by simple J 4

my friend marry this guy for 3 years but he not the father of her 2 kids and they are now divorced

can she get child support from her ex husband even it not his kids but he has been supporting her two kids ? no they don't have the ex husband last name

2007-10-18 09:27:38 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

I recently (a month ago) was reunited with an old flame from my high school days. We hadnt seen each other in 8 years. Well he has been separted from his wife (she left him) since May of this year. Well just when he was starting the divorce process she realizes that she doesnt want a divorce and wants to get back together. In the short while that we have been back in touch I have developed feelings for him. Its like we never lost touch. But it seems like he might take her back. What should I do?

2007-10-18 09:15:23 · 20 answers · asked by KD 2

I'm way to old for this to happen to me!!!!

One of my wife's oldest friends is staying with us, and she walked in on me masterbating... She was coming to get some towels from our room, and didn't know i was in there.

So mortifying.... It's even worse, b/c she got a look at my rather "small" tool. She seemed to chuckle and ran out in embarrassment.

She and my wife have been teasing me now for getting caught pleasing myself and for the the size of my tiny tool...

i'm mortified. should i just laugh it off or ask them to stop?

2007-10-18 09:11:53 · 33 answers · asked by Bill W 1

we have been together for 6 years. only just married this year. we have one child. i am a stay home mom in school working for a degree to go back to work. he is a mechanic. i am miserable. he is miserable. he doesn't talk to me. he pretends like things are fine when theyre not. he expects me to forget about things that upset me (yes, he has told me this) he buys thousands of dollars worth of "stuff" behind my back, etc. he yells at me for no reason. and from what he tells me, i make him feel like he never does anything right, im always bitching, i'm never happy, etc. it takes two to tango, i know this, but i can't take the fighting anymore. it seems like all i ever think about anymore is a divorce, or leaving him. i don't know why we got married. but it seems like since we have, things have only gotten worse. i love this man and want things to work, but i just can't take it anymore. where do we go from here? suggestions to get our marriage back on track?

2007-10-18 09:00:46 · 21 answers · asked by Paige 2

...about RIGHT NOW!!??

I am really thinking about seeing my hubby in about an hour and tackling him full force then kissing him while I hold him down. Do you think he will get mad since it will be in the Hastings parking lot??

I have been thinking that ALLLLLL day and I can't wait until quitting time! I love him so very much! Just wanted to share.

Sandy :O))))))

2007-10-18 08:57:22 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ever since my husband told me I was ugly and I realized he is not who I thought he was, I've been unfaithful to my husband of 5 yrs. I have not cheated on him physically with another manbut I'v had feelings for two other men. One was with by first love, 2nd with a coworker. In other words, I stopped loving my husband even though I still care for him. I have instead allowed my heart to fall for someone else. My body with my husband and my heart out of place now.

I told my husband what he said really hurt me and that I was no longer in live with him, however, he never apologized for what he said. Like many things, I don't think he took it very seriously. That was a year ago.

Am I being selfish because I'm no longer attracted to him? I keep wanting someone who is as ambitious as I am, more mature, talks and hold me, and someone who shares similar interests. I have told him all this but all he does is play WoW. I think I married him for the wrong reasons & I feel bad about i

2007-10-18 08:55:40 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

I can't believe her...
I saw them doing it..
and it ruined my eyesight/life completly.
and also my other friend,Minette is also supporting
their cheating bastardiness relationship to the
100%...



Maribel C. is preggy with my hubby's son.. :[
I feel like if my world is being torn down into
little pieces..
I beginned cutting myself and then
i find out that mary guardias is a biscuit..
=]



JONAS BROTHERS SUCKS

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2007-10-18 08:54:54 · 36 answers · asked by jeaneth_pink_soccer 1

his wife cannot want to make love to him, never..?that she never would like to sleep with a man that calls her ''idiot cow stupoid etc?

It is obviously taht a woman preffers to make love and is excited only by a man who considers her as being intelligent..otherwise..why would sleep with a man who sees no difference between her and a stupid cow?

do the men care that their wives don't want them..or they jsut don't care and usees them..?

2007-10-18 08:53:10 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

do you treat your spouse as you would like to be treated? When you complain about what they don't do ," do you think of what you should be doing instead from time to time?"

2007-10-18 08:51:49 · 6 answers · asked by "karma" 4

There is this guy that is married and we hang out with him and a group of people like every weekend. He is known to be a philanderer and is quite the playboy. I know him and his wife through my cousins and we have all been good friends but there is this problem that keeps occurring. Every time we party he hits on me at first i ignored it because he did while he was drunk but it happens every time every one is drunk. He doesn't hit on me when he is sober and everyone else is sober i mean he looks at me and talks to me but his tone and his actions change when we all start to drink. I have confronted him when him and i have been sober and he blames it on the alcohol. But he made a comment to me the other time saying he has always wanted to hook up with me and that made me think maybe it's not the alcohol maybe it's him. There is always other girls when we party and he never hits on them it's always me so is he lying when he says because of the alcohol or is it because he's a cheating jerk

2007-10-18 08:49:24 · 19 answers · asked by bella 1

He's incredibly smart, a talented musician, funny, and loyal. He's introduced me to my faith. I have learned patience, and to pick my fights. My problem lies with his bipolar disorder. He lacks in organization and motivation. I get frustrated because it's like pulling teeth to get him to help around the apartment. He wants children, but isn't consistant with caring for our pets. He wants to get married, but I'm affraid his history of poor credit and debt will make it impossible to get a home, future cars, etc. He has just started his fourth job since we met one year ago. I work 64 hours a week trying to save for college. Because his loss of money between jobs all my savings had to cover rent and bills. I love the man but hate the disorder. I am emotionally and physically tired. I am affraid he will go back to alcohol (he's been in recovery since we met), not taking his medication, and becoming homeless. I love him too much to want this to happen, and I care about his family too much

2007-10-18 08:38:02 · 16 answers · asked by BIRDY85 4

I want to control him but he doesn't let me. Any suggestions?

2007-10-18 08:35:41 · 48 answers · asked by vanilli 3

I want to be nice about it, but she will tell me I'm doing something wrong, when she doesn't even have a clue what I'm doing!

2007-10-18 08:33:29 · 21 answers · asked by Lt 3