why does the person you trust the most always end up fukkin you over the hardest?

Question

question is because of my marriage

Answer 1

Your guess is as good as mine. Going through some major problems with my spouse to who has and is really screwing me over. Maybe its because we let them get away with a lot more than we should because we are afraid to get them to the point where it is possible that they could walk out and leave. I don't know, I have been pondering that question myself alot lately.

Answer 2

You're telling me !! I trusted my husband because he would always get on to me about my insecurity before we got married telling me that I have nothing to worry about and that I have him completely. I got over it and we set the date after 2 years,planned the whole wedding,went through with the whole thing,then 2 weeks later he goes to work one morning and never comes back. I found out later it was for a life of using drugs and also a 350 pound whale b-tch. I know if he came to my door step on his hands and knees, crying for forgiveness I wouldn't let him back in so that he could ever have the chance to do me the way he's already done me. Trust only goes so far and there are alot of lessons to be learned when the trust is broken over and over again.

Answer 3

human beings have consistently been like that, you may no longer excpect from them something. understand that u'll meet all varieties of persons in life wherein in common terms few would be honest, & do no longer rush issues u'll in common terms finally end up upset. have confidence is all approximately time, after a at the same time as you the two elect to have confidence somebody or u do no longer there is not any mid-way, and in spite of everything ur selections are 0.5 possibility, u could have made the incorrect determination. undergo in suggestions there are consistently good human beings available ,optimistically you will meet them!

Answer 4

Because you let them....you have let them in your life and trust them more than anyone else which gives them the opportunity to F*ck you over. You would never give a stranger that chance that's why the odds are higher that someone you love and trust would do it and not a stranger.

Answer 5

Im really sorry to heard that.

sometimes that happen, i think the guy never met to do that,

some we are stupid or ignored , never know what we have until is over , when time comes , the hurt just get to u , if hard to forget , try to fixed the problem.

im really sorry,

take care,

Answer 6

Because of your trust, you became complacent to what was going on.

I guess you really can't trust anyone completely if they do not respect you like a good husband should.

To the first answer, Thanks. I guess it won't bother you if I say all women are complete B*tches, will it?

Answer 7

Because you always tell the one you trust the most the things that matter the most. And humans are humans, it's in their nature to fu** people up.

Answer 8

can i engrave your answer as a quote and put it on my desk?
thanx
ps. because that's the person you loved the most and if another person you never cared about did something wrong you wouldn't care, you wouldn't feel so much pain. so you love them, you open up completely and ..... you know the story.
but you should have been a writer or something, i couldn't put it more eloquently myself. or Shakespeare.

Answer 9

My wife did that to me.

The thing is the more you trust someone the more ammo you give them.

Answer 10

Because they were cow manure to begin with and we just didn't know it. Now, that you know make the decision to treat yourself well at all costs. If you don't respect you, no one else will.