We have been playing an online game for sometime now and recently this woman she also is married with kids heavily flirts with my husband online! This is driving me crazy, he had previously told me when it started up that he is not going to let this happen not to worry I am his wife. Its easy to say but its hard to deal with every night when she tries to flirt with him before she goes to bed!! She has a husband. I know I can just wait this out but its so annoying. What should I do? I left my guild partly because of her and now my hubby acts impatient and angry when I ask him to ask her to stop bothering him because he thinks nothing of it, he says. She knows our computers are next to each other and she knows I can see, is she just doing it to annoy me?
2007-10-18 06:37:24 · 18 answers · asked by decentgirl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It's not kewl and unless he thinks it's okay for others to flirt with you and accept it, and for you to intiate flirting with married men yourself, he shouldn't be okay with her doing it and should've put a stop to it. Apparently he ego won't let him and he's getting a kick out of having another chick pay attention to him.
If you trust that he won't act on it, then let I wouldn't worry...but will this be the beginning of him accepting other flirting, cybersex, or what?
2007-10-18 06:45:27 · answer #1 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is this World of Warcraft that you're talking about? Well, even if it's not, as long as she's not local, I wouldn't worry about it. If he's not flirting back with her, there's nothing he can do about it, especially if it's a game where anyone can talk to anyone else. Just let it go as long as your husband isn't reciprocating. If he's faithful, that's all that matters.
2007-10-18 06:45:05 · answer #2 · answered by abrennan01 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You BOTH should stop playing the game. Period. My brother and sister-n-law went through this same thing. I wouldn't be able to ignore it either. And heads up, online flirting in the game they were playing ended up in secret phone calls and much more. good luck, I hope you aren't addicted to the game like they were.
2007-10-18 06:44:58 · answer #3 · answered by = ) 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your husband needs to tell her to get a life and stop enjoying it so much! She probably is just messing around and trying to tick you off too..which its working so she's having fun...plus she thinks its ok because your husband hasnt told her to go away. Tell him to stop it now!
2007-10-18 07:12:32 · answer #4 · answered by must<3dogs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell the woman to back off.
Ask her if she would feel comfortable with another woman talking to her husband that way.
Better yet, ask your husband how he would feel if another man was flirting with you every night.
2007-10-18 06:41:40 · answer #5 · answered by Simply Lovely 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about it, it's just on-line. It's not like they are going to hook up or something. Why don't you, flirt with her hubby on line and see how it makes them feel. Don't let your hubby see that it bothers you. It's just plain silly.
2007-10-18 06:56:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well personally as much as I would be pissed at her I would be more pissed at my husband for continuing the on-line game with her....he must enjoy it because he has not put an end to it either and she will continue to do this so long as he allows it...he is more to blame than her right now he is egging it on by not stopping it, does he really need to be playing this game? has he told her to stop or does he ignore her comments? if not than be pissed with him.. ....JMO
2007-10-18 06:47:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Grow up and stop acting like a child.
If there is something inappropiate going on, there is only one person to blame: Your husband. If your going to angry at anyone, it should be him.
2007-10-18 06:46:54 · answer #8 · answered by Stedway 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Turn off your computer and try to actually have a relationship with your husband. She can't get to you if she doesn't exist. Try taking a walk and actually communicate.
2007-10-18 06:46:09 · answer #9 · answered by tjnstlouismo 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She is doing this because your husband thinks nothing of it. If HE doesn't tell her to stop she isn't going to and obviously he doesn't WANT her to stop. So stop blaming HER and put the blame where it belongs...
2007-10-18 06:42:05 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋