my husband called this morning well when i answered he hung up then for 6 mins i kept trying to get ahold of him and all of a sudden i had a voice mail well it seems he didnt know he dialed the number all though i could here him pretty clearly even better then usual but what i hear baffled me. I could hear him moan and say oh yea and well theres only one occasion ive know him to do that and thats when we are together but then i could hear another guy witch wasnt the one he is working with and could hear him saying yea see that truck its mine could he be cheating on me or am i over analyzing things hes been in and out of town for several weeks now with work since it means overtime and time he dont have to deal with my mom im going nuts running his message through my head over and over
2007-10-18 01:39:15 · 9 answers · asked by Buga Boo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
i did get ahold of him finally he had the balls to tell me double check that it came from my phone i said babe had your name on my caller id then he said well i had my phone in truck charging so it wasnt me i said are you telling me i dont know your voice after over 5 yrs together hes like well i swear i was no were near the fin thing you biatch ok and he only talks like that when ive caght him in a lie witch has been a hand full of times but nothing too bad
2007-10-18 02:10:10 · update #1
I'd call that "sit down discussion" time
2007-10-18 01:43:35 · answer #1 · answered by wizjp 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, your husband is gay. Usually when cell phone accidently call you, that is the technology GOD trying to tell you something. The moan and growns with another mans voice in the background, enough said.
I just hope there aren't any kids involved. This makes for a very difficult and sticky situation.
Sorry hun.
2007-10-18 08:46:54 · answer #2 · answered by L J 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That would raise a little flag in my head and make me start becoming VERY alert. Like a previous person said, a sit down discussion seems to be in order.
It wouldn't seem so odd except that he will not answer your calls now. That's what seems "not quite right".
I hope you're able to get this cleared up sooner than later!
2007-10-18 08:46:29 · answer #3 · answered by checkingonin 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well its definitely very suspicious. I'd ask him about it, save the message, so he can hear what you heard. Don't freak out all over him though, confront him about it, and simply ask what its all about. Hopefully he'll have an honest and credible explanation for you. Don't let him fool you though, make sure he clears the air, you don't want it brewing in your head forever...
2007-10-18 08:46:18 · answer #4 · answered by Fo Sho! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's either having a homosexual affair or he and another guy were at a car lot oohing and aahing over trucks.
2007-10-18 08:44:20 · answer #5 · answered by Sharon M 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe your man is bisexual? Or really into trucks.
2007-10-18 09:14:44 · answer #6 · answered by gypsy g 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
COULD IT BEEN JUST A BUNCH OF GUYS AND HE WAS JOKING AROUND? HAS HE EVER CHEATED ON YOU? I WOULDNT WORRY TILL YOU FIND SIGNS OF HIM CHEATING!
2007-10-18 08:45:33 · answer #7 · answered by bondablegreeneyes2000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please don't be a drama queen! But the name calling 4 asking him a generalized question would make me snapp!!!!!!! I am big on respect!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-10-18 09:17:32 · answer #8 · answered by rita_hiemy 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
YOU ARE OVER THINKING -STOP IT
2007-10-18 08:44:52 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋