Another email from the ex. Wife read it and wasnt too happy, this one was quite different she asked how my wifes and my relationship is doing. Do you think that is hint? I dont think it is anything big but my wife wants to kick her ***. I keep trying to tell her that she is only asking and it is not a big deal but my wife being the beautiful woman she is, wants to bash her head in and make it an ink spot. What do I do now?
2007-10-18 14:36:08 · 18 answers · asked by gamafoo 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
stop being a prick.
2007-10-18 19:24:32 · answer #1 · answered by mennonitegypsy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless the two of you have children then you don't need to be communicating with your ex. Its one thing if your wife was okay with her emailing you and your ex wasn't trying so hard to get your attention. She needs to remember she is your ex for a reason so think about it and move on. You need to send her a message and let your wife see it cause at this point your wife is angry and you don't want her doing something stupid over nothing . tell you wife its nothing and that you want her to see the email that you are telling her its over so you know that you aren't in any way encouraging this woman's actions
2007-10-18 22:04:54 · answer #2 · answered by Amazing_clarity 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your current wife may be more upset by your reaction to your ex, than that of the action of your ex. Seriously, any woman can come on to a guy...but if he proves by his reaction that he is not in any way interested, and then reaffirms his affection and commitment to the woman he's with...most women would be fine with that. I would e-mail the ex back that this information is none of her business, and to only e-mail you if it involves something necessary (like children from that prior relationship). Show your wife how much you love her. Be happy that she wants (only wants to) kick her a**. You, as her spouse should only start worrying when stuff like this happens, and your wife could care less!
2007-10-18 22:04:29 · answer #3 · answered by schmoo105 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your ex is probably asking you those questions just to see if you'll say something like, "oh we're good, but such-and-such is bothering me...blah blah blah..". That's when she move in and be that "special listener". If your wife is reacting negatively to it, cut off contact with the ex. Your wife is more important than that other woman. I wouldn't even email back the ex and explain anything. It would only give her more excuse to email you back more often and insist it's "no big deal". So stop the emails NOW!
2007-10-18 22:05:15 · answer #4 · answered by lyona22 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
even if you dont find it a big deal, it is one to your current wife, and you should respect how she feels and cut contact with the ex. the ex is an ex for a reason, right? unless you'd like to keep adding ex's to the list, then leave the old ones alone. by the way, YES that is a "hint". i too would be greatly offended if an ex of my hubby's asked about our relationship. if nothing else, it just seems very out of place and none of their business.
2007-10-18 21:43:32 · answer #5 · answered by pinksugarblue 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Reply that you are happly married and your wife is the best thing that ever happen to you and that we would appreciate it that you leave us alone then change your email address. Why are you talking to your ex for. Your ex is a has been, cut her out of your lives.
2007-10-18 22:28:50 · answer #6 · answered by jtease 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Very politely let your ex know that your wife can read your email at her descretion. This should send the message.
2007-10-18 21:56:03 · answer #7 · answered by rikirailrd 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are married and you need to respect your wife's feelings.....tell your ex to stop emailing you....your relationship with your wife is non of her business....
2007-10-18 21:52:51 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Send the ex an e-mail letting her know you are happily married and wish she wouldn't e-mail you. Then let your wife see it before you send it. Futher more block her e-mails and report it as a spam!
Don' respond to any of the e-mail after you sent the one above.
2007-10-18 22:20:45 · answer #9 · answered by colormelove 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
JEEZ!!!!!!!!!! UM HI!!!!!!!!!!! Change the e-mail address or you might be getting your butt into some very big trouble!!!!!!! Tell the woman to leave you alone and to go get a life of her own!!!! Seriously if you loved your wife you wouldn't need to ask a dumb question. You better think about what it is you really want and quit leading you wife on!!! DUH!!
2007-10-18 21:43:17 · answer #10 · answered by KELJO 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it is causing a problem in your marriage you need to stop communicating with your ex. Why do you need to stay in touch with your ex. Also, put yourself in your wife's position. If her ex was contacting her asking her questions as such.
2007-10-18 21:41:54 · answer #11 · answered by Yellow Bus Driver 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋