2007-10-18 14:48:54 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Follow your heart. If you love her, stay with her. Your going to be living with her, not your whole family.
2007-10-18 14:56:32 · answer #1 · answered by MM 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A lot depends on the reason your family doesn't like her.
If it's based on a simple misunderstanding then trying talking to your family about it. If it's based on culture or religion there probably isn't much you can do but certainly still try.
In the end it's your life and you have to decide if this girl is worth the strain on your relationship with your family to you.
2007-10-18 14:56:30 · answer #2 · answered by looneybin90 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen honestly to your families dislikes, and then honestly, openly evaluate their comments. If they are right, either try to get your GF to change or set her free. If they are wrong, tell them to go pound sand. Just make sure you've given them an honest hearing, and give the GF a chance to defend herself too.
2007-10-18 18:00:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you? Are you sure that you will spend the rest of your life with someone now?
You might discuss with your parents openly. Sometimes adults are right. They have more life experience.
2007-10-18 14:58:14 · answer #4 · answered by Peter L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think to yourself very carefully... Do they have a real reason to not like her? Are you over idealizing her and expecting her to solve all of you life's problems?
Just make sure you can be honest with yourself. The easiest person for any one of us to fool is ourselves.
If your family is out of line, love them but still live your own life. Just do not expect them to suddenly come around.
Good luck.
2007-10-18 14:54:39 · answer #5 · answered by box of rain 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi ,,, you need to do what you think is best for both of you ,,
you need to really think about what you are going to do,,
if you feel in your heart that she is the woman for you and you are sure that things will work out well for both of you then go for it,,, but if your not sure about how things will work out,,, then don't do something that you will regret after ,,,
i hope that everything works out well for you
Good Luck
Leena
2007-10-18 15:02:37 · answer #6 · answered by leena 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i say too bad for your family - they are not marrying her YOU ARE and if they do not like it too bad.... you were raised by them and gratefully so, but when it comes to marrying they cannot pick and choose unless you are Islam( or soemthing else),,,,, so you have to be frank and forthright with your parents and tell them how you feel
2007-10-18 15:00:00 · answer #7 · answered by cristelle R 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
more details please cant conclude!Why they hate her?
Does she stay out all night?
Does she drink?
Does she have no manners?
Is she lazy ?
Doesn't have a job?
Doesn't go to school?
Does she tell you what to do?
like what to wear
when to leave
how to spend your money
what to say
where to go
when to come back
when to speak
all of the above????
more details please
2007-10-18 14:59:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋