Marriage & Divorce - 16 October 2007

would you get married, stay single?

**Include your approximate age and if you have children or not.**

2007-10-16 06:41:16 · 43 answers · asked by Lucky 3

for about a month. Hes driving me freaking CRAZY. He has interviewed with a several really good companies but nothing has come of it. He has been given the option of taking his old job back, which is less money and a total step in the wrong direction. He is really down about it and I have tried to be totally supportive, by not being negative. Why is he blaming his having to take his old job back on me? He quit his most recent job, because he and I have agreed that he was working for a female Attila the Hun. But, I feel like kicking his A$$. I have told him over and over its just for the time being until he can find another job. Does anyone have any advise for me? Because I feel like I am going to explode and have to go to anger management soon! I take kickboxing and I have been hitting the punching bag as hard as I can, but I cannot seem to get rid of this overwhelming urge to beat his a$$.

2007-10-16 06:34:04 · 17 answers · asked by Freakalicious 3

Well this is my story my husband and I dated for 6 1/2 yrs he cheated on me once before marriage, we got married in march and he cheated last year in april but he didn't dare to tell me until August of last year. Eventhough it was while we were dating it still hurt allot since he has been my first one and my only boyfriend. He is sorry and i know he is, he is a great husband he treats me like a queen, responsible, hard working man.. i truly can't ask for more. Here is the problem i don't trust him at all, I mean after all the horrible pain he caused by cheating, lying about it and telling me months after, im always thinking he might do it again, eventhough he says he will be very stupid to do so. We have been married for 7 months and we are expecting a baby in January he is very excited and so do I. I think im turning into an obsessive person as im always checking his phone, his email, his phone bill i havent found anything but all this obsessive behavior is not letting us be happy...

2007-10-16 06:26:32 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

am a housewife and do all the jobs around the home my payment is a packet of fags a day off my husband no weekends out etc i have a daughter that spends her days in bed and goes out with boyfriend at night he gives her money when she asks and she is nearly 18

2007-10-16 06:25:50 · 15 answers · asked by astra 5

Hi there my name is clarissa i am 52 divorced I was once married to a man of my dreams, His name was Rick we were married in the yr 1991 i thought i have everything going good in my life be happy with the man i loved makin a family the only thing was i could not have children bc when i got rapped by my step dad and there was alot of damage done to my insides that i could not have any more children so if there is anyone out there that feels love is real dont always bet on it, i have learned through my faith in Jesus Christ that i dont depend on humans anymore i depend only on Jesus to help me through things of the world I thought that we were going to be married forever but i guess not and the question was asked my ex why do you not love me anymore and he chose to tell me i dont know how could anyone after 12 yrs of marriage why would someone wait that long to tell you that if you can answer this one plz message me back

2007-10-16 06:18:10 · 8 answers · asked by mommom1980 1

2007-10-16 06:10:33 · 21 answers · asked by Lisa H 1

My boyfriend and me have been together for 1.5 years, and we're both juniors in college. He wants to live with one of his guy friends from high school. I wouldn't have a problem with that except for the fact that his guy friend drinks alot and doesn't seem to have alot of respect for women. My boyfriend says, "that's just how he is." And he also tells me that if he lived with him it wouldn't affect him and me either. I'm just afraid that it would because his guy friend drinks ALOT. My boyfriend only drinks with him. Also, his friend never looks me in the eye, and my boyfriend says that's because he knows I have morals and he doesn't want to do somethin to offend me. He also cusses all the time in front of me. I tried talking to my boyfriend about it, but he get really defensive about his friend. Suggestions? I don't want to be a ***** about it, but the idea makes me uncomfortable.

2007-10-16 06:05:32 · 33 answers · asked by Consultant 1

My husband owns a home with his father. On the original deed is- My husband, his father and his ex wife. On the mortgage is my husband and his father (not the ex wife)
My husband got the house when he divorced his ex wife.
He lived in it for about 2 years after the divorce was final then when we decided to get married we wanted to sell it. When we put the for sale sign up his ex asked if she could buy it. We were in a hurry to move and said yes. We let her and the children move in under the conditions (verbal agreement) that she would secure her own financing. My husband signed a quit claim deed to her. His father did not. The quit claim deed was notarized but it was NOT filed. Now she is requesting that he sign another quit claim to her, I think because she lost the first one and it didn't have all the right info on it. We have been trying to get her to finance it for a year and she still hasn't. We are now weighing our legal options...what are they?

2007-10-16 06:02:59 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-10-16 06:01:50 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

What is the preocess like for a legal seperation? Is it expensive? And how do I go about getting one?

2007-10-16 06:01:29 · 11 answers · asked by Lucky 3

2007-10-16 06:00:02 · 21 answers · asked by Lisa H 1

My wife and I have been together 16 yrs. I cheated 7 yrs ago when we had just one kid. A couple years later we had your youngest. I came clean and have felt terrible since I cheated. Last yr she wanted out and I got her to stay. Now last week she saw an atty and filed divorce pprs. I got them and never said. We had sex all weekend and I told her last night. She admits to cheating but with no sex. I still think that 16 yrs is a lot to throw away. I got an atty too protect myslef but have told her its not to late to call them off. She still gave me a kiss goodnight and goodbye this morning. She also cried herself to sleep. She said she feels nothing but the sex is because she feels bad. What do you read into this and do you think this can still be saved? Any help will be appreciated. 16 years is way to much for me to turn my back on. I just dont want to turn my back on this relationship and my kids. Im scared to death.

2007-10-16 05:58:32 · 11 answers · asked by browns_86 3

2007-10-16 05:58:16 · 36 answers · asked by Lisa0430 1

I have a huge problem I have been with a man for 2 years and we have a 5 month old and we ar eplanning on getting married but I am not sure if I want to? We are starting to become diffrent people it feels like and i am not sure if its because having children makes everything so much harder or if we were not reallt supposed to end up together after all? what do i do?

2007-10-16 05:55:47 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

My girlfriend and I will have been together for 3 years on Monday, and we have both discussed marriage and know that it is the next step. I want to propose; I know her family very well, and we get along great. Do I still need to formally ask her father for her hand in marriage if we've been together so long and they know me well?

2007-10-16 05:47:47 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous

I love my fiancee the thing though is he doesnt trust me. Why i have no idea. I have never given him a reason at all. How do i tell him in not so many words that I want to be with him and only him. There is no need to worry

2007-10-16 05:41:34 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

In sum of the past few years, my fiance and I met. We fell head over heels for eachother. Our biggest hurdle is our ages, we are 17 years apart. Last July 2006 I got pregnant. My little boy is now 6 months old. You would think everything was just peachy, but its the sheer opposite. Ever since I was about 7 months pregnany, our level of intimacy has reduced to about one a month or less...he doesnt kiss me or show any esire to be intimate. I am trying so hard to deal, but I dont know if I can. There are many other elements as well...his two kids ages 9 and 14 who are very spoiled and his daughter is VERY bratty. I am expected to watch them every weekend while he is at work, while their mother goes away for the weekend?. We just finished taking almost a month break from eachother, but things are not that diffrent. He keeps asking if we are going to plan the wedding for this spring or summer, but I have no desire to?! I feel like I am beginning to loose intrest in him?I am so confused.HELP

2007-10-16 05:39:50 · 10 answers · asked by nezzer 1

her scream in bed. spend at least 30 hours a month talking to her on the phone, email and text her as well all hours of the day and night from work , while driving, even from home. then insist to your wife this woman is just a friend , that 95 percent of your conversation is about his relationship with you his wife and he is getting input from a woman's perspective about how to make the marriage better. he did not mean to say he wanted to make her scream, he needs to hear her voice, needs to find a way to see her, that even an addict can't stop cold turkey.... am i the only one smelling a giant FILTHY rat?

2007-10-16 05:37:38 · 19 answers · asked by PHOENIXepiphany 1

Were they disapointed to learn the real you? What did you fake the most? What did your spouse fake the most?

Please share a story. Describe it. I got time to listen.

Please do not answer, "We had no pretenses" because that would be a lie. Everybody puts up a front even if it is a little one. So be real. AND IF YOU TRULY BELIEVE THAT YOU WERE 100% HONEST THEN THIS QUESTION IS NOT FOR YOU SO DO NOT ANSWER IT. I am doing a research project in psychology on love.

Thank you. Thank you. Thank you.

2007-10-16 05:26:16 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

I mean after you realize you don't want kids or don't want to have anymore kids.

2007-10-16 05:24:05 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

i am not married it is happening to someone i care about very much (family member)

her husband cheated on her this whole summer and she seperating and it gets worst she has three kids under 12. his girlfriend is actual therpist and been married three times (great therapist auh)

but that is not the bad stuff it is been going for years for money issues and having them gone for 15 yrs in another state and finally move back with his backing in the area about two yrs ago. (THEIR WAS NO ABUSE INVOVLED) the had money issues too. and i never like his attitude myself.

first of all as a sister what should i do and why?

and what should she do she still love him obviously for not divorcing what up front and why?

2007-10-16 05:07:44 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

I know in Vegas it isn't.

2007-10-16 04:55:11 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband has cheated on me and I need to hire a lawyer in order to protect my interests and those of my son... but I don't have any money. My husband made the money and I stayed home with our son. Recently he'd told me to leave the house so I left with our son and moved in with my parents. We didn't have any savings and there's barely anything left in our checking account (he's still left me on our joint checking account so that I can withdraw money as needed to pay for food or clothing, etc).

We've been married about 3 and a half years. Our son is 2 years old and I'm also worried about custody. I live in Arizona, the Phoenix area. Is my best bet to go through friends and to see if they can find a lawyer they know who would take me on pro bono, or are there free services out there for people like me that I've never heard of?

2007-10-16 04:43:13 · 16 answers · asked by ZER0 C00L ••AM••VT•• 7

big b o o b s?? I cannot help that I like them. Why do women get so offended that men like looking at them?

2007-10-16 04:27:53 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

My bf and I have been talking about the future a lot lately. Our relationship is great and it's getting to point where we're planning on moving in with each other. Marriage is definitely in the air. He hasn't asked yet and I don't know why. I'm done with college but he still has another year so he hasn't been able to save a lot of money. It will be a long time before he can buy a diamond. But I don't care! I don't want to wait any longer! I'd be happy with a cz and maybe replace the stone with a diamond later. Is that cheesy? I haven't mentioned that to him. Should I? We're planning on getting married next fall. I'm ready to get engaged but I don't want to rush him. What should I do? My dream has always been to get engaged on christmas eve. I'll be so disappointed if he doesn't!

2007-10-16 04:26:50 · 11 answers · asked by Due May 17, 2009! 2

Just curious if women over 40 are into that at all. Because of menopausal issues, does this change a women's curiousity for that sort of stuff. Just wondering.

2007-10-16 04:25:41 · 14 answers · asked by six7foru 2

Harshness will not work. I want to find answers and I think I would have a better chance of finding out from her than from him. She probably doesn't even know he's married so I don't blame her if she didn't know.

2007-10-16 04:03:22 · 12 answers · asked by Butterflies 1

My wife had a costume bunko party last night. She dressed to the hilt as a french maid! Well, instead of changing out of it when she got home at 9:30, she continued to parade around me lifting her skirt while pretending to vacuum and dust everything. I kept trying to touch her and pull her over to me, but she kept knocking my hand away with her feather duster saying "you need to wait sir!" The fishnets and heels were just killing me! Finally midnight granted some relief, a couple of hours worth! Does it get any hotter than that?!?!

2007-10-16 04:02:04 · 12 answers · asked by JoelMacDad 6

im married to foriegn guy..dont have work..my husband do the financing and everything. so i let him do that since he has a work and he dont want me to control the money thing. and so it end up i dont have a personal money though sometimes yes but very seldom. he likes helping if he wants to. my problem sometimes my parents wants me to help them but how? my husband dont like to help them for reason. i dont give him any problem; like i dont smoke, drink, gamble..or anything that makes him unhappy..he is very helpful he chooses who he will going to help. i love shopping but i does that once or twice in a month..mostly he does the decision making. yes he ask some suggestions but his decision still gonna win.so what do u think the problem is? anyone help me or explain it?

2007-10-16 03:59:26 · 7 answers · asked by ambot 2

people depart several years after marriage. mostly due to one of them falling in love with someone else,and never see each other again .then who can claim that love is forever

2007-10-16 03:55:37 · 13 answers · asked by jenny 2