Marriage & Divorce - 16 October 2007

My mother-in-law is legally married but hasn't been with the guy (a career criminal) for many years. She is lazy about following through with the divorce so my husband and I want to help her file the paperwork finally. Any suggestions how to do this? She resides in Ca, we think he is in Tx. I believe they got married in Tx back in 1980.

2007-10-16 16:32:19 · 7 answers · asked by STT 360 4

2007-10-16 16:31:26 · 10 answers · asked by christina 2

2007-10-16 16:25:16 · 13 answers · asked by tandy2 1

What are the benefits of being a mistress and how should a married man treat it? kos i wanna experience it...

2007-10-16 16:20:13 · 25 answers · asked by ehdays 1

Is being a mistress a bonus? what do you get out of it..

2007-10-16 16:15:31 · 18 answers · asked by ehdays 1

I can't take it nor do I want to. Married 30 yrs but we are not what we were. My youngest son died 28 June 2006 by choice; he stepped into a Simi going down the interstate! We will never over come this. I am coward. Although I supported the family for 20 years, now, she has master status as the bread winner. She treats me kike a dog on/off. She blames me for our sons death; rightfully so. No counseling has been NOT any help.

Sorry for rambling. I need to break out but have about $1000.00 hardly enough. I thought about living on the streets; I do own an ok car. Sometimes I think I want to kill her. Don't think I would, just myself. My psychiatrists says move, on, and move out. I need to do this but it's, so hard, because it’s so easy with her income and my control of the money... F...k it---money means **** till you can't eat.

Any way thought from the general community?

I'll know the ones who are--them who know who they are and your direction means dog crap to me.

2007-10-16 16:14:27 · 3 answers · asked by enigmatic1844 3

am 30 yrs old live with parents

2007-10-16 16:12:49 · 9 answers · asked by vineeta devi p 1

Many of us are single and likley to remain so like myself.
Being lonely is a big problem.

2007-10-16 16:12:17 · 3 answers · asked by starone 3

Guys, do you have experiences that when you get more close with a girl, you feel like to be alone for few days? and when you are away, you find she turns angry with you, and you don't know why? what are you thinking at the time of being alone? and what do you suggest a girl to do at this circumstances? would it be better just leave you alone?

2007-10-16 16:11:02 · 4 answers · asked by Caring Girl 2

2007-10-16 16:09:15 · 17 answers · asked by terri 1

2007-10-16 16:05:28 · 39 answers · asked by seafish 1

He ran her off but failed to call the police. He did not know what to do? I called them when I got home and filed a report with the neighbor. I was at football practice with my son and daughter. I have custody of my kids, she gets supervised visits and she has not seen the kids in about 2 months. I don't have any money, or any valuables, she took everything when we split up 10 months ago. What could she be looking for? All my court papers I keep else where. I don't have a clue what she would be looking for. any ideas to help me figure this out. Maybe she was on one of her drug induced dilousions.

2007-10-16 16:05:25 · 33 answers · asked by Bones 5

I have a night light on and sleep with stuffed animals too but the bedroom is large and I get so scared. I have my baby's crib in there too and sometimes my friend Jessica will sleep with me. I am 20 years old. My friend says I have a phobia but when I sleep with my husband I feel so safe. Do you have any advice for me? Its hard for me to get a good nights sleep sometime with my husband and he says he loves me but that since I am unclean during my period I can't sleep with him because I will defile the bed. I told him I would wash the bedsheets everyday but then he got upset and told me not to quit being fresh with him. :(

2007-10-16 16:04:14 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm lonely without him. The weekends are fun but the week nights are so long. There is no hope in sight.

2007-10-16 15:44:11 · 19 answers · asked by Chrissy 3

I have recently been going through hard times with my breakup.. I have tried been friends with her but i can't take the mied singles she has been throwing at me!!! so i have decided to take a break from her for a while, i take the happy memories i hace of her to help me through the coming months... What dose evryone think?

2007-10-16 15:36:27 · 10 answers · asked by CFC 1

this is for parents who are have got full custody of their kids. I have a friend who told me you can get full custody without tell the other parent and that u can also get custody when the other parent dont sho up is this true??

2007-10-16 15:34:50 · 6 answers · asked by Downsouthgurl 1

2007-10-16 15:26:48 · 29 answers · asked by John S 2

lets say u marry at 20. and u and ur wife are happy and have no problems with anything.and then your together for a long time. then boom she passes away. lets say u move on and get married. wat happens when u go to heaven and see ur wife again. do u have 2 wifes? do u got some explaining? or when ur wife or husband died do u stay single?

i just want some opinions..
wat would u do?

2007-10-16 15:24:26 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

but we didnt sex no more,he always said everytime i hug him that his tired of his work,sometimes i tell him that can we make love tonight?but he end up to bed and said he is tired,hes 18 yrs older than me,,im 31 and he is 48,i always looks sexy and care myself,he always told me that hes lucky to have to me,that im gorgeous,he hug & kiss me but thats all,,no sex no more,i dont know why?

2007-10-16 15:22:59 · 13 answers · asked by loveme 1

My husband says that men have a right to change their wive's first names just like they change their last names upon marriage. He likes to call me by his former wife's name sometime but not all the time. It makes me feel like I am not good enough by myself but he says he just does that because he misses her and stuff. Am I taking this the wrong way?

2007-10-16 15:22:12 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

Not only did I hide a $5000 debt I rang up (paid for a family vacation) I also was searching on the internet often for someone from my past I needed to get answers from. (my wife discovered websites, I was searching for him in men 4 men sites). I lied to cover this, was too ashamed and proud to tell her about what happened to me in past (searching for molester). Married 12 years when this happened, 4 kids, great life until then. 1.5 years later, we are existing in same house, separate lives and rooms. She hates me I feel, has told me she is confused and does not trust, nor ever will, trust me. Needs her space, leave her alone, etc. I am madly in love with my wife still. she refuses counseling. She refuses to talk or discuss this anymore. I have pushed, been not nice about it, I know I've been wrong, but I want to fix this. I don't believe in divorce (except for safety reasons)
What should I do? I am miserable, my kids are hurting, I'm lost. How can someone NOT love their spouse?

2007-10-16 15:22:03 · 28 answers · asked by dad of four 3

We live in the South and have hurricane's very commonly ... I just worry that during bad weather, me and my (future) kids will be without him due to him having to stay behind and help in dangerous times. Also, I'm afraid for his safety. He's not very quick sometimes (not to be hateful but it's honest) and it scares me that bad people will hurt him. What about holidays? Daddy won't be home and it kills me. How do I cope?

2007-10-16 15:14:53 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

What do you guys think about it and about people that do?

2007-10-16 15:11:10 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

I like to think that I'm 100% responsible for my own thoughts and feelings and my partner his, but we must be supportive. Many answerers seem to think that they're responsible for how their spouse feels, especially when it comes to jealousy and that their behaviors or ways of being must change to accompany that. I disagree and think that if my partner is jealous, that's his problem and I can only support him, through reassurances, but not changing my behavior as jealousy is often illogical, in dealing with it. What do you think?

2007-10-16 15:08:11 · 11 answers · asked by some female 5

What do you usually do?

2007-10-16 15:07:43 · 16 answers · asked by Somewhere in Time 3

Ok so I have a 4 yr old girl but me and her dad are not together anymore and havent been since a long time but he does see her on the weekends, I sometimes see him but not often but I only see him as her mother not as in like a romantic way, you know...he got married sometime ago but now is in the process of getting a divorce from the woman, the fact that he married someone else has caused me a lot of pain cuz i loved him so much and still do and it had affected me and my daughter cuz I would have liked him to live with my daughter all 3 of us together a family so she would have an "everyday father" instead of a "weekend father"...when I see him i get all emotional and upset becuz I want him back again and sometimes he tells me that we are evntually gonna get married agai but i dont think so cuz he never comes to see me and never calls me to see how I am or anything, if he really loved me he would have married me years ago. I wish I could just forget him and move on with me life

2007-10-16 15:07:06 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-10-16 15:01:43 · 9 answers · asked by Christina D 1

2007-10-16 14:57:51 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

Recently, an ex of his called our home and said he owed her $200.00 which was true. She proceded to tell me there's nothing to worry about, they only talk here and there. Then, I get a text message from this B*TCH saying if he doesn't give her the money, she's going to "spill the bean about the past three years." She claimed they'd been seeing each other from here to there yada yada yada... She knew what kind of cars we had, what my house looked like, and what my daughter looked llike. Is she crazy or has my partner been unfaithful? She is a coke addict. What are your thoughts? Honesty please.

2007-10-16 14:40:44 · 20 answers · asked by LiSa B 3

I would like her to not contact me and have replied to her with the info of the like. I am still in love, and our seperation I hoped would be a time of sould searching, not relationhip abandoning. MY hus. and I have children, are both a decade older than this woman, and we have two kids. How do I respond to her when she contacts me without sabotaging my self respect? I do not want to make any waves, and am still in a lot of shock thats its even happening.
Thanks in advance.

2007-10-16 14:38:28 · 18 answers · asked by erock 1