2007-10-16 14:57:51 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Just because your married does not mean you will no longer find other people attractive.
You're human and it's normal.
Just don't act on it.
2007-10-16 15:01:49 · answer #1 · answered by Infernal Disaster 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can do anything you want to do as long as you are honest about it. So if you want to be with men tell both parties before or else you may have problems later. If your wife is ok with being married to a Bi Guy then it shouldn't matter what the rest of the world thinks. If you are to afraid to tell her then you probably shouldn't do it because you already know her answer, or you may want to think about finding a new wife or minimally prepare yourself for the fact that you may NEED a new wife because if you get caught you deserve to be left.
2007-10-16 22:06:07 · answer #2 · answered by Bob 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You sound as if you maybe should not have gotton married, I mean, I could be wrong? You shouldnt be in a marriage with your sexuality in question. This is gonna be a problem for you that wont go away, you must seek out therapy and find out who you are, and what you want out of life. I really hope you find out soon as this is not fair to the woman you married, Im sure that she would be very hurt and feel betrayed if she knew her husband wasnt to sure about his sexuality, so get help!
2007-10-16 22:06:45 · answer #3 · answered by penelope 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
A man's bumhole is NOT like a vagina AT ALL. ugh!
It doesn't naturally get wet and juicy like a vagina and it isn't as warm either
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This was in response to someone's comment above about a man's bumhole being like a vagina.
Also, I'm a married woman, I love men (especially the back--I love the broad shoulders & back muscles and arm muscles), but I also think that women are beautiful too. That does not mean "I like both gender".
Does your wife know you had sex with men "before" marriage? You stated "(but never had sex with men after marriage).? " Italicize the word "after".....
2007-10-16 22:14:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
Does your wife know about this?as long as both of you love each other and are happy in the marriage then it shouldn't really matter. Just make sure you stay faithful.
2007-10-16 22:02:40 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think so. It's not like men who are 100% straight don't still like other women. It's just a matter of dedicating yourself to your wife. If you don't have a problem with that than I don't think its a problem.
2007-10-16 22:13:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO!!! that is a dangerous choice-you're married!!!!
be one or the other...but both? and on the down low?????c'mon...
hey...you said you never had sex with men after marriage...so does your wife know of your previous taste? and if you acted on it? i hope so
2007-10-16 22:05:36 · answer #7 · answered by D.... 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
So, you're saying you are bisexual? Yes, it's okay to be bisexual and married. Bisexual people can be monogamous and you said you'll stay faithful to your wife, so no problems, but if you are only attracted to men and not your wife, then you need to think are you being fair to your wife or to yourself by being in a heterosexual relationship?
2007-10-16 22:03:13 · answer #8 · answered by some female 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Just as long as you stay true to your wife. When you married her you told her that you wanted her only for life. You promised.
2007-10-16 22:12:15 · answer #9 · answered by moonchild 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why in the world did you get marrried then. Please dont have children you will just create a horrible situation later. You will probably act on your impulses at some point. You need to tel your wife.
2007-10-16 22:12:04 · answer #10 · answered by julie A 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋