2007-10-16 15:01:43 · 9 answers · asked by Christina D 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Your husband is the one that will be going to work not you. Is there a reason why you don't want him to succeed? Tell him how you feel about it but you should really let him accept it if he wants it, support him in his decision.
2007-10-16 15:08:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not always easy to leave one position for anther, I feel that if you both love each other, then you need to sit down with no distractions like kids, and discuss it openly. I mean you listen to what he has to say about it, and how he feels, and he do the same for you. But what ever he decides, You as his wife need to support him in his decision. You don;t want him saying in 10 or 20 years, " I could have if only you let me try" A marriage is a union between a man and a wife, and they need to figure out there future together, and share, and support each other even when it is scary, and uncertain. I wish you good luck as a family, and a prosperous future.
2007-10-16 22:31:40 · answer #2 · answered by bill s 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First I would find out why he wants to change jobs. Then I would look at how this new job would benefit you both better. When my hubby told me he wanted to change jobs I was really against it, then we sat down together and went over all of the pros and cons of the two jobs and made a decision together.
Listen to what he has to say and work together to resolve the issue. Tell him why you would rather he stayed at his current job. Having good communication is the key to working this problem. Just make sure you approach the subject with an open mind and really listen to what he has to say. Maybe he is burned out in his current job and needs this job change.
Good luck and I hope things work out for you.
2007-10-16 22:10:42 · answer #3 · answered by roses_daggers 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing to say, if he going to get a better job, Then u should support him. I mean U want a husband who is able to care for you and ur children (if u have any) Your married, not playing house... this is what it is all about.
2007-10-16 22:22:49 · answer #4 · answered by lynnn30 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you want to? Right now all I see is a woman who is trying to stifle her husband's success in the workplace. If you had a valid reason for your not wanting him to switch jobs, then maybe I could give another opinion.
2007-10-16 22:09:36 · answer #5 · answered by some female 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should read a book called how to win friends and influence people.
Your hubby will be doing everything you want if your smart.
2007-10-16 22:11:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the role of the wife in marriage is to be submissive to her husband, (as stated in the Bible).
2007-10-16 22:15:45 · answer #7 · answered by debbiedeb 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not? Would you have to relocate?
Unless you can give him a good reason, its his career. I think you have to respect his decision.
2007-10-16 22:09:00 · answer #8 · answered by Pythagoras 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he.s loooking out for your and his future a better life for you both . my opion?
2007-10-16 22:10:19 · answer #9 · answered by the_silverfoxx 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋