I have recently been going through hard times with my breakup.. I have tried been friends with her but i can't take the mied singles she has been throwing at me!!! so i have decided to take a break from her for a while, i take the happy memories i hace of her to help me through the coming months... What dose evryone think?
2007-10-16 15:36:27 · 10 answers · asked by CFC 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Take a vacation to a singles resort...
2007-10-16 15:40:04 · answer #1 · answered by rukidden99 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can take the "happy" memories with you,
but it's the "bad" memories that you should be thinking about.
After all, that is the reason you 2 are having hard times, not because of the good times.
You can't look at how things "used" to be,
because things change.
That's just a fact of life.
You have to look at how things are now,
and if they aren't good,
then there's your answer.
Move on.
Good luck ;)
2007-10-16 22:44:12 · answer #2 · answered by MommaBear 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Usually after a break-up you need time apart to regroup and make yourself healthy again.
You don't breakup because things were wonderful.....so take some time away from her before you can even think about being friends.
2007-10-16 22:40:57 · answer #3 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kinda hard to understand what you're asking, but it sounds like a classic case of a broken heart. The answer to that is "they do heal in time." During the healing process, just try to stay busy. There's no magic cure.
2007-10-16 22:40:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to take a break and get her out of your system. Its all going to take a lot of time but you have to start taking care of yourself. Find support for yourself with families and friends. Catch on your old friends. Take a vaccation. I know, its not going to be easy but you have to let your heart grieve and time will heal it all.
2007-10-16 22:45:40 · answer #5 · answered by Romi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take a good look at your life and ask if you would change any thing yes what your going throught right now go out with friends you have and think on this matter . my opion?
2007-10-16 22:46:25 · answer #6 · answered by the_silverfoxx 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
before you can be friends you have to get over her and to do that you have to make a clean break. don't talk to her or hang out with her. it will take time, meanwhile keep busy. good luck
2007-10-16 22:45:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give it time, and good doses of activity and other friends and family.
2007-10-16 22:55:03 · answer #8 · answered by Linni 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get on with you life. you will see life has so much to offer and you will be kicking youself why was i dealing with HARD TIMES
2007-10-16 22:44:49 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i agree
2007-10-16 22:42:20 · answer #10 · answered by butterfly_kisses81501 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋