Marriage & Divorce - 16 October 2007

Who doesn't do anything serious, but does a lot of little stupid sh*t that adds up. Let's say I'm going to bed, and I ask him to lower the volume on the TV. He'll turn it UP and sit there with a self-satisfied smirk on his face! Or....he'll flush the toilet while I'm in the shower, so the water gets really hot really fast. I think he does it on purpose sometimes!
Other than giving up and living in a bubble somewhere, what can I do???

2007-10-16 14:34:04 · 21 answers · asked by Ms. GTO 7

What happened if a couple live together before getting married? I had a very bad experiences and regret to let my bf moved in with me, I lost all my respect to him... now we are breaking up..... I am not sure if this is my problem or it is just not a good idea to live together before married? Please share your experiences. Thanks.

2007-10-16 14:28:39 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous

future.............how can I prevent a future affair, because youth and beauty are two of my husband's downfalls and this girl is sinful..........

2007-10-16 14:26:50 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

were happy? A celebrity said he would be married until it didn't work anymore....he was a newlywed.

Discounting any kind of abuse....what do vows mean?

2007-10-16 14:26:48 · 10 answers · asked by daljack -a girl 7

Ok, I'm married for past 25 years, but recently separated and contemplating divorce for good reason. I met this married man, and we got along great. Saw eachother everyday for several minutes and then started to realize that he was more interested than just a hello here and there. He approached me and we started talking over the phone. He told me he had a serious crush on me, which I didn't really know. Well, soon after that we got intimate (please don't judge, these things happen). It started getting really deep and he backed off, saying that we have such a strong connection and we should just be friends (which I agree, we have such a bond). Ok...no intimacy although conversations get deep sometimes. Didn't see eachother for several months as I relocated. But continued talking everyday over the phone. Saw eachother a handful of times. The one time we met for several hours just hanging out and having lunch, it got really heated and things happened again.

2007-10-16 14:16:50 · 17 answers · asked by BluePassion 4

Have you have to live in #ell ,cause you had to much to lose????

2007-10-16 14:15:45 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

im 15. my bf never calls me & never spends time with me. its been 2 months. he has been busy. i hate it. i cry for him everyday cuz i miss him. i call & he doesnt answer. he always has an excuse not to see me. he isnt dating someone else. how can i make him call me? someone has to make him call.

2007-10-16 14:04:55 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-10-16 14:04:06 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm just curious :) I'm not trying to say it shouldn't be that way, but I just want to know the right answer.

2007-10-16 14:04:05 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm disabled my husband is an acholoic. I want to get a divorce. can he make me pay half of the bills we owe with me disabled on social security. I also will have my 12 year old son with me. please help

2007-10-16 13:57:38 · 5 answers · asked by diaerwin 1

How does she know that? I mean how would anyone know what someone else did in the shower? She checks the shower and watches him and goes "OH, no he is peaing in the shower."
They were advised to see a marriage counselor. So this man has to tell a marriage counselor which is probably a women.
what he does. Hay, man stop it or tell your wife to get a hobby.
Do not have a wife but how many out there do and this is a problem? Are women actually that controlling?
She was complaining how he washed? Come on ladies.
Is this necessary that you give us a how to wash class when we get married?

2007-10-16 13:56:58 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

He looks at other young women alot., he is enthralled by them and when he gets to know a girl, he is enthralled by her personality. He just loves women too much. HELP !

2007-10-16 13:44:09 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

Here is my last question/comment......
Ok. Here is the story. I am really against abortions and one of our friends is pregnant and is going to get an abortion. I text her and tell her that she will regret it. Told her that I know people that have gotten them and never forgive themselves for it. We went back and forth and got kinda heated. We have not gotten along cuz she sticks her noise where is doesnt belong when it comes to talking to my husband. Anyways i told him that we got in a huge blow out with eachother and dont want him to talk to her anymore. He wasnt supposed to be anyways. To put a very long story short she forwarded a message to him that i wrote her and he called me a b-itch! He admitted to it but kept saying stuff he didnt say when i had proof he said it. Not anything bad like calling me a b-itch but to me lying in a marriage is not a marriage. He is saying sorry and to not leave him but this just put me over the edge this time and i dont know what to do.....

2007-10-16 13:30:49 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

Why does it take too long to convince a woman to go out ?

2007-10-16 13:24:18 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-10-16 13:23:45 · 6 answers · asked by mermade153 1

Same questions all the time. I didn't mean to cheat. It just happened. I am so sorry that I cheated.

Come on.......I must be in a bad mood tonight, but there has never been a time that a penis has fallen into my vagina when I didn't mean for it to.
Do you really believe that when someone cheats that it was an accident?!?!?!

2007-10-16 13:20:22 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

Was at a bridal shower and a book was passed around asking for words of wisdom from all the women there. What words of wisdon can both men & women give to our soon-to-be-wed couples?

2007-10-16 13:11:29 · 22 answers · asked by pussycat 5

We have been together for 5 years and have two kids we are like
the perfect family but every time the subject of marriage comes up he says that he doesn't see the point of getting married since we are already living together and have kids. I want to be able to call him my husband i want him to tell people that I am his wife not his baby's mama. I don't know if I should tell him how I feel

2007-10-16 13:07:58 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

well this was almost 5 months ago ... my husbands friend well he wont ever come by if he know what is good for him my husband took care of that..... and i am really sorry ,, i dont know what i can do to prove it to my husband ...i wnat it to go back to how we were we have 2 great kids and he loves them we have had fights since then and he never says a word about me cheating i do love him help please

2007-10-16 13:07:50 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

I should probably ask this as a poll question. But I am going to ask it here. How many people are in a interracial marriage? And how many people out there still have a problem with interracial marriages?

And just so everyone knows upfront. My marriage is interracial and I am just curious about other peoples view points

2007-10-16 13:05:24 · 42 answers · asked by Anonymous

My realtionship of 3 years, the father of my child seems to be going down hill. He is dosen't seem to care about what I have to say or my feelings.

2007-10-16 12:58:47 · 8 answers · asked by American Women 3

My husband and I have been married since May of 2007. He is in the army and has been stationed in Korea since June 2007. He and I used to have great communication, talked about everything, but lately whenever we talk, there is a lot of silence on both sides. I'm at a loss for what to do. I have asked him if anything is the matter, and he says nothing is bothering him or upsetting him. Yet it continues...I don't know how to keep our connection strong with so much distance between us, especially so early in our marriage. Any advice?

2007-10-16 12:54:27 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

I met him 4 yrs. ago, he doesnt have his ged. so i tried to help him bought whatever he needed books, notebooks, even bus pass to go to school. Well 4 yrs, after he still doesnt have a ged. because he cant afford to pay $15 for a transcript but has money to go to san francisco and buy games etc. It gets me mad, because he shows no interest in doing anything other than his video games, but will whine about my job, my car, and what other people have. But yet he wont attempt to do anything about it. we have a baby together and i thought "maybe this will give him a reason to study" but no, i want to be successful and be able to send my child to college, be able to afford health insurance for us. but not him, its a big turn off because i never thought he was so pesimist. It sorta makes me not want to be with him. Any advise?? He also gets mad when i tell him i want to be an accountant, he thinks I'm trying to put him down because he didn't finish high school. But he wont even try.

2007-10-16 12:46:46 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok went to bar ran into one of husbands pals and had way to many drinks both of us hes married and im married but we had sex husband knows and his wife found out what can i do?

2007-10-16 12:41:37 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

I got back with my ex a couple months ago we have been off and on because of rumors...and now we are thinking of getting married...we both want to but people are telling us we're too young and we should wait...we're both 19...we both are sure that there is nobody else we could imagine ourselves with and we want to do it but we arent sure...are we too young??? should we just move in together and try living together first??? or should we trust our instincts and get married

2007-10-16 12:26:44 · 26 answers · asked by new mel 2

2007-10-16 12:24:42 · 24 answers · asked by Mari 2

2007-10-16 12:23:38 · 28 answers · asked by ? 5

...how does a person discern the difference in a mate if he's is trying to control you or if he is really wanting to sit and discuss things? He ends up getting mad because we can't come to a solution immediately.

2007-10-16 12:20:09 · 2 answers · asked by Lara Croft 3

I know a lot of men that are decent hard working that are divorced, and a lot of divorced women. Yet, men seem to never be able to find a women, and women say they can't find a man. Most of the women I know or have seen at work divorce perfectly good men, and then they slowly go down the tubes. Other women even encourage them to "get a divorce" and "take him for everything." Yet, a few years down the road, the guy is either re married or doing well financially, but she has spent all the money, the car she got in the marriage is breaking down 4 years later, and the shingles are falling off the house. It seems so self destructive. Why are women self destructive?

2007-10-16 12:04:25 · 17 answers · asked by ? 1

My husband and I always go on a vacation at Christmas. Two years ago, we spent a week in Florida (last year was a week in Hawaii). This year, I thought we'd go visit my grandma and then spend the rest of the week in Florida. A few months ago, some friends said they were going to Argentina and asked if we wanted to go with, but I kind of shrugged it off. Now, my husband says he really wants to go, but I do not. He has an answer for every obstacle, besides the one that I just don't want to go (can't afford it: his mom will pay for our tickets, etc.). He says he just doesn't want to spend any more time in Florida. What's the best solution?

2007-10-16 11:39:31 · 12 answers · asked by lucy_d 2