Harshness will not work. I want to find answers and I think I would have a better chance of finding out from her than from him. She probably doesn't even know he's married so I don't blame her if she didn't know.
2007-10-16 04:03:22 · 12 answers · asked by Butterflies 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Talk to her in person. You won't be able to pick up on the subtle non-verbal forms of communication any other way.
2007-10-16 04:15:00 · answer #1 · answered by mt75689 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just call the number, explain who you are and why you're calling.
Have you tried asking your husband about this? Trust is very important in a marriage. Sounds like you lost some of this in your husband. Talk to him (before or after calling this woman) and find out what's going on.
2007-10-16 04:13:00 · answer #2 · answered by reandsmom77 6 · 3⤊ 1⤋
The way you word that, I assume that he hasn't been all that honest with you in one way or another or you would simply ask him, to you could simply call her number and when she answers, say, "This is Mrs Mary Doe, John Doe's wife, and I would like to talk to Jezabell. She will either talk to you, complain to your husband if they are involved and he may then talk to you, or she will tell him to get lost, but one way or the other you should have an answer
2007-10-16 04:29:59 · answer #3 · answered by Al B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call her and tell her you found her # on my husbands cell phone and ask her who she is. If she hangs up immediately or gets quiet on the phone, then you will know something is definitely up. Either she didn't know he was married or if she knew she's going to be shocked you know now. Then when he gets home look at his stupid reaction.
2007-10-16 04:15:42 · answer #4 · answered by Thunder 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would ask her on the phone, let her know that woman to woman she would probably want to know the truth too.
Tell her he hasn't mentioned you before and want to know if there is something that you should know.
Be prepared for her to immediately call him and tell him what happened. Be prepared for the conversation with your husband.
2007-10-16 04:23:31 · answer #5 · answered by jlonva 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just call her and be conversational. Tell her you found her no. in your husband's wallet. Ask her if she knew he was married. You will be doing her a favor. Your husband is a scumwad.
2007-10-16 04:15:40 · answer #6 · answered by notyou311 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Calling, texting or confronting her is NOT a good idea.
Any problem you have is not with her.
IT IS YOUR HUSBAND!
If you cannot get the straight story from him or you cannot believe him I think you may have identified the root cause.
Work on that and leave her alone.
2007-10-16 04:13:29 · answer #7 · answered by Flagger 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Tell her just that. I don't know if you know but so and so is married. How long have you and my husband been in this fling? Let her know you aren't mad at her either way but you would like to know so she can either keep him or do what she want's to do because you just want to get rid of his a**.
2007-10-16 04:08:16 · answer #8 · answered by level_9yo 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I am sorry...but if suspected my husband of fooling around...I would talk to him.....seems a lot of women want to blame the other woman for their husband's cheating and not put the blame where it should be...ON HIM!
2007-10-16 04:09:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 6⤊ 0⤋
just say hey i found your number in my husbands phone and i wanted to know what was going on I've had a feeling something was up and I dont blame you
2007-10-16 04:08:46 · answer #10 · answered by sarah W 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋