Marriage & Divorce - 5 October 2007

Okay,so i'm 6 months pregnant happily married for almost a month. Life is going great! Then last night at 1:30 in the morning my husbands cell starts ringing insanely. I'm half asleep but go ahead to check the number. It doesn't look familiar but something tells me to call it back. I sneak out of our room and call it. A girl answers and I know the voice emmidiately. It's my husbands ex g/f from like 3 years ago! I ask her what she needs and she tells me I have no business calling her back,what she called for is between her & him. I tell her, he is my husband and I have every right to know what she wants. Then she proceedes to tell me that he calls her all the time (which I KNOW isn't true!) and would probably be back with her if I wasn't pregnant(also not true,everyone knows he thinks shes NUTS and cannot stand her!) I tell my husband toTAKE CARE OF IT! He calls her back talks for less the 2 minutes and says it's Taken care of! Do I have a right to be totally mad! God knows I am!!!!

2007-10-05 04:06:44 · 32 answers · asked by Just Call Me Jenn 4

sometimes I think they say those things without meaning it.

2007-10-05 03:56:27 · 27 answers · asked by ki-ki 1

The guy I'm dating has a huge fear of vomit, which is understandable. But he said its so bad that in the future when he has a wife and kids, and theyre sick, he has to leave the house to not deal with it. Um what the hell...I could understand that vomit is gross, but NO WOMEN WANTS TO HEAR THAT WHEN HER OR HER KIDS ARE SICK HER HUSBAND WILL LEAVE THE HOUSE. Is he just trying to annoy me and turn me off or is he really that stupid and selfish?

2007-10-05 03:56:17 · 14 answers · asked by shanamoakler 3

I've been offered a highly desirable position that will require relocation to planet Zargon 12, of the Nebullous Galaxy, sector 7-G. I have always wanted to be Head Weiner on the Centrifugal Hot Dog Operations Vessel in that galaxy and this opportunity may not present itself again!! BTW, I am a self-deprecating, emo kid who constantly wonders "Does he really like me?" and "What does this mean?", so my inquisitive nature stands to be a great asset. Plus, since I obsessively wonder "Am I pretty enough?" or "Why do my roommates do this?", I know I am mature and can handle the rigors of a 50% gravitational pull. Add to that, I have no concept of love since I ask the same questions already asked a BILLION times, thinking I am the only one going through this experience. But seeing as how I have only seen them across the room, on Myspace or met them once, I SHOULD realize I actually have no concept of true love. So my question is:

If I answer that Nigerian email,will I get the millions?

2007-10-05 03:52:38 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-10-05 03:49:45 · 26 answers · asked by mary 4

I have been married for 1 1/2 years. I used to think my husband was just like me, sweet and kind and respectful for the person he chose to spend the rest of his life with. Over the couse of our 3 year relationship he has, come home with a hickey from his bachelor party, lied too many times to mention about looking at dirty movies and magazines and hid them, battled agressive drinking behavior and most recently I saw on here where he has responded to questions from other girls in a very sexual and flirty way that killed me inside when I read it. I confronted him on this and he said it was no big deal to him. That this site is like a game and that him and a co worker thought it was funny and he was trying to earn points and was sorry. On the other hand,some of his posts go on and on about me and our son being the best things in his life. I see in his eyes that he really doesn't think this was harmful in any way, but to me it is just another nail in the coffin. Am I over reacting?

2007-10-05 03:48:49 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

We should expect people for whom they are...who they were is not irrelevent anymore. Love is ment to be a scarifise and i keep getting answers from people that he doesn't love me anymore or he doesn't want me etc because i want to change him. All i wanted him to do was be honest. Is that asking to much in a marriage??
Asking him to leave is because i except he can't change and he doesn't love me. Why he is here is beyond me that my head hurts to sit and think why?
why can't men just go when he doesn't want to fix things. Why cause pain? Counceling is out of the question because he is always tooo busy. Lifes Sucks!! Well mine has been nothing but SUCKS!!

2007-10-05 03:41:51 · 26 answers · asked by feline l 1

I really would like my wife to find someone else and leave me. I am not in love with her and not attracted to her anymore. Problem is when ever I try to bring up any relationship subjects she has an emotional melt down. I would like to find a way where she would leave me, her having the idea and not causing me grief, and her to go off on her merry way, with someone else or something

2007-10-05 03:40:40 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

He is a recovering alcoholic.WAS physically abusive. Been alcohol free,now, for 3 yrs. Stopped the physical, NOW, it's constant belittling,& disrespect.No loving on me, sex, ONLY when HE wants it. ONLY thing he does outside of work is occasionally take out trash. Also curses me in front of people, rolls his eyes @ everything I say. So not even his kids respect me.I love them all dearly. Just tired of hangin my head in shame due to my "stupidity." PLEASE don't give me B.S. answers. This is very serious, & hurts. Thank-you guys !

2007-10-05 03:39:35 · 21 answers · asked by mamawdave 2

My friend was in Germany in the Army years ago. Met his now wife and brought her home to the states. They got married in Sayre Oklahoma. THey later moved back to germany where she has citizenship and lived there for many years. She had an affair on him,got pregnant, and he took a job in Iraq. While working in Iraq for two years he claimed residency back home in Oklahoma. She filed in Germnay for legal seperation and they have been seperated for a year now. The father of the child has been living with her in my friends and her home for the whole two years he has been in Iraq. She put his name on the birth certificate everyone knowing the baby ins't his. He has now moved back to the states and has been residing in Texas since August. NO divorce petition has been filed. CAn he file in The US to divorce her? Does it have to be in Germany? Will the US recognize the divorce in Germany when they were married in the States? Does Germany recognize their US marriage? Help..advice!!!!

2007-10-05 03:38:43 · 5 answers · asked by misstic_fire 3

my husband has been deployed for 15 months and is due to come home in three weeks.. yesterday he calls and tells me im not the same girl he married and he wants a divorce... so will give him the fact that ive become more indepentdent (but who wouldnt taking care of three kids alone for the last 15 months) but really can u decide if a person is the same over the phone?

2007-10-05 03:34:47 · 15 answers · asked by realbtch 1

I met my husband when I was 16, he was 21. We immediatly started dating. A month into our relationship, I saw what kind of a jerk he was. But he manipulated me into thinking I needed him. He told me he hated unfaithful people and even told me he drempt of killing me. I have always known what a violent guy he was. He has in the past, hit me numerous times. But since we have been married, he hasn't. The thing is, I don't love him. I am now 23 and I realize what a HUGE mistake I have made. In our relationship, I have found myself thinking about other guys very often. But I'm not that kind of person. I want a relationship, but not with him. We are like night and day. He hates animals, nature walks, everything I love. I have to pretend to everyone (for him) that I completely agree. He has made me hate myself and I have tried for SO long to avoid this. Now I have met some guy from work, and he makes my heart flutter. i never felt that with my husband. I'm scared he will hurt me/family.HELP

2007-10-05 03:34:35 · 12 answers · asked by PleaseHelp 1

but somestimes I can tell what my man is thinking. I can look into his eyes and just know. I'll say I love making love to you and he'll say I was just thinking the same of you. and no, I'm not a witch or anything like that. I just wonder if this has happened to anyone else.

2007-10-05 03:29:43 · 13 answers · asked by Lily 3

my husband is deployed and asked one of his close "friends" to look after me while he was gone (cant drive, no friends) at one point his friend texted me that he would want to have my company as fas as physically and wants me to be close to him, i told my husband about it and when he was here on leave the friend came unannounced by to see me (because i never replied again or answered his call) and my husband shook his hand and chatted with him like nothing ever happened. at another point a friend of him ask me in front of hubby why i picked such a loser for a guy and what i want with him and checked me out in front of hubby. he never said a thing to neither one of the guys, just ignored it, i am really offended and feel any guy can hit on me and he doesnt care.

2007-10-05 03:26:19 · 33 answers · asked by not this way 5

I think my wife is the most gorgeous, sweet, caring, generous, refined woman ever. I could blubber all day, quite frankly and keenly do given half a chance.

What about your hubby/wife/partner/
man/woman/significant other (can be non-human if you want)?

2007-10-05 03:21:43 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

...indicating that he will propose soon?

2007-10-05 03:20:21 · 6 answers · asked by Maeve 4

when you think of you family what the frist thing,
that comes to mind.

mine is there all f*** nuts

2007-10-05 03:14:19 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm in the service and engaged to be married when I get back from Iraq. The she just got divorced how long is the wait to get remarried in texas

2007-10-05 03:12:12 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

i really care about this male friend of mine. Doubt his feelings are as strong but it makes it awkward to talk to him about this. I have a feeling that another male friend of ours has made claims about being with me and it might explain why last year my friendship with the first guy all but ended. Anyway, should I go to him and tell him that if he heard these rumours they are not true? i want to put things right and clear my name if it has been taken, set the record straight etc.or is this a big mistake? can you all help me? You have been brilliant in the past.i am just afraid i am stepping into dangerous territory

2007-10-05 03:08:48 · 5 answers · asked by susieboo 4

I forgot what hand my wedding band goes on right or left

2007-10-05 03:02:44 · 34 answers · asked by mrpoet03 4

My husband has cheated on me. I have had that "woman's intuition" for almost 1 year that my husband is cheating on me. I have found food boxes with address on it that is not ours. I looked up the address and went to see where & who it belonged to. I have seen my husbands car there several times. Finally one night I decided to wait to see if he showed up at the home & he was coming back with her in the car that I bought for him. When he saw my car, he turned around & dropped her off on the corner so she could walk home. I stopped her & talked to her & she claims that she didn't know he was married, which I know was a lie because she has seen me with him on several occassions. When I caught up with him, the first thing he said to me was " Yeah I tapped that ***!" I love my husband, & I put him out for a while. But now I am having a hard time trying to deal with what he has done. I asked him to attend counseling but he won't go & I think he is still seeing her. What do I do now

2007-10-05 03:02:35 · 27 answers · asked by totally ignored 2

2007-10-05 02:54:31 · 12 answers · asked by jesse m_violated for nothing 3

Should I wait until the engagement, or let he/she know now before the proposal and spoil the surprise?

2007-10-05 02:53:32 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am needing advice for me to keeo my marriage going while my husband is locked up. Like how deal with the separation, etc.

2007-10-05 02:48:41 · 10 answers · asked by Leigh B 1

2007-10-05 02:47:44 · 19 answers · asked by ellegee3012 4

2007-10-05 02:41:21 · 15 answers · asked by mohamed d 1

My Gf says she loves me wants to be with me for the rest of her life and wants to marry me and start a family together in the future i love her to i can see myself with her for the rest of my life but sometimes i feel like she is playing with me i dont know i always feel like all of my gfs were playing with me i always expect the worse in everything and i dont know what she sees in me

2007-10-05 02:38:19 · 16 answers · asked by lost_soul 1

2007-10-05 02:35:58 · 18 answers · asked by jean 1

2007-10-05 02:32:18 · 21 answers · asked by skywalker 2

My wife and I have been married for 9 years and I love her dearly. For the last 3 (since we started having children) our love life is all but gone. We might be intamate one or two times a year right now. She says she has begun to think a lot more about it lately, but usually during the day. By the time the kids go to bed she is tired and has lost interest. I have tried romantic offers for dinners and dates but she feels guilty leaving the kids with family or sitters. Our time together is enjoayable and we have lots of fun along with a good overall relationship except for this aspect. She gets very irritated if I persist and says it is all I care about so I do not bring it up nearly as often any more. What can I do to help her understand my desires and increase our intamacy?

2007-10-05 02:28:04 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous