Marriage & Divorce - 5 October 2007

My mother wants to divorce my step father of 3 years. I just started working at the same place as him in June of this year, and he has been really nice to me. I feel really bad for him. My mother said she's not in love with him, but I wonder why she married him in the first place. Nobody's perfect, but he's a nice guy. I've tried to get my mother to figure out what is making her feel this way. I feel SO bad!. What should I do?

2007-10-05 02:26:09 · 12 answers · asked by Eagiusti 4

i got married a year ago with my maiden name. now i want to change my name to my husband's. how do i do this?

2007-10-05 02:24:08 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

I think there are going to be only a certain group of people who gets this question.


I know this is not in the right section, but there is no section for it.

2007-10-05 02:20:15 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

i love a boy who is a doctor, i am too a doctor and also ambitious, he also loves me a lot but he hates my love for career as he feel neglected and he hates my family as they insulted him once. if i marry him he will love me for sure but keep me as an housewife and will make my contact with my family members as minimum as possible because he thinks these two things might bring disturbance in our married life. should i go ahead and marry him but i love my parents, i am scared. can he change and accept them and my career as well?

2007-10-05 02:18:50 · 23 answers · asked by tara 1

I work offshore for 14 days and I'm off 14 days. While out here my wife never answers the phone so I can speak to my daughter 7 and my son 2 who I dearly love. During divoce why is she using them as a tool to hurt me? I don't want to talk to her, but my kids... It sucks.

2007-10-05 02:13:52 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-10-05 02:10:46 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

Should we wait till after the divorce and file separately? or will it make much difference if we joint now and get divorced later? we are going to remain friends so that is not an issue about whether we want to deal with each other. we just wanna know which will be the most beneficial way for both of us in the long run. thanks

2007-10-05 02:08:04 · 6 answers · asked by honestjoe 2

be a huge drama and intimidate you and basically tell you that you aren't efficient enough and decide to pick on something around the house and put you down if you aren't keeping house properly?
Do most women have to put up with it or is it just me?
Do men like to intimidate women?
and try to start arguments just when everything is really relaxed.

2007-10-05 01:46:06 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

What do you think of this:
Husband I have been arguing. I am in school FT this semester and can't cater to all his needs. I do everything for him.We fight wednesday night and thursday morning.
So Thursday morning he wakes up daughter and gives her a list of 5 things to do.
1.Make a pile of clothes you can't wear
2.pile of school clothes
3.pile of play clothes
4.pile underwear/socks
5.line of all shoes by TV
6. put all trash in a bag in hallway
7. ball uniform setting by itself
All of her stuff was either in drawers or on hangers. She had to take them off of the hangers and out of he drawers.

Then he woke her a gain this morning with another list
1.get all shoes from downstairs
2.put clothes don't wear in a trashbag
3.pick 10 sets of underwear to keep
4.pick 10 pairs of socks to keep
5.ten outfits to keep
6. pull ball stuff aside
7 pick 5 pairs of shoes to keep
8. all the rest put on bed
9. towels and dirty clothes in clothes hamper
10. keep 2 pajama's

2007-10-05 01:43:30 · 13 answers · asked by momof2 5

A friend of mine has been dating someone for a long time and it was moving towards marriage potential. It came to light that years ago they had participated in the making of a handful of porn movies. The have absolutely nothing to do with that industry today whatsoever. Would you still marry the person regardless of their past? Why or why not?

2007-10-05 01:23:24 · 23 answers · asked by Martin R 3

a guy he kinda like to look at me and when he did either i was not looking at him but when i did an eye contact with him his eyes was too deep
what does he wantfrom me?any details?

2007-10-05 00:24:59 · 6 answers · asked by ~electra~ 4

we been married almost 3 yrs. now, been separated for 3 months and we when out to dinner. while out, she get a call on her cell, its her dad.after 3 and some years. not once she gave the phone I can speak with him. I questioned her on her dad being dead, she said she never said that. she knew where he lived and so, we traveled to the same area where we were raise last year. now he appear in thin air. checked on her background, found out her mom she been calling is her aunt, lied about first marriage, she claimed that her ex husband won't claim her first son, found blood work papers claimed he is not. she claimed that someother woman took her place. found out the blood work match her oldest son and her. now her other son know the true. she claimed she had a trouble life now. that is why she lied, lies after lies coming into the light. seem i been hit with a mack truck.

2007-10-05 00:14:05 · 10 answers · asked by thruway 42 1

This past weekend my family and my husbands family had it out. His mom thinks it's ok to go through my paper work while I am at work (bill's etc.) Well she has even been calling my credit card companies (which has given her my info) I used to be a single mom before I remarried and I depended on my credit card it wasen't that I was careless about it but it did help with food and diapers. I am still paying for it but I work a job I don't ask my husband for money so am I in the wrong to tell his family to mind there own business....?

2007-10-05 00:00:23 · 24 answers · asked by ~~Just me~~ 3