Marriage & Divorce - 5 October 2007

remember when you started your relationship with your significant other, and felt the need to make out all the time,
and your heart would flutter, you had butterflies in your stomach, you'd write letters to each other....................

is it still there?>>??

if not, don't you wish it was still there>>??

what can you do to feel that way again???

2007-10-05 15:40:07 · 21 answers · asked by Bullmastiff_Boxer_lover 6

I go through these cycles, over and over! I hate it! its been two years. is it because she had an affair, with a much older guy than me, who has no money? then married him with in 6 months. and got pregnant with him right away! #W$%$#%#

2007-10-05 15:28:36 · 21 answers · asked by fstmx 3

I am a mother of a 9 year old and a 6 week old. During my pregnancy, my husband cheated on me three times. He went to a motel room with each one. The first two he didn't do anything with but, the third one got undressed and gave him a bj. Apart of me says to walk away and never look back. At the same time, I love him and he has recognized he has a problem since his father did/does it and there is nothing wrong with that in his house.

Please give me your advice on if you think a strong christian woman can forgive and can he get past this. Is it possible to save this marriage?

2007-10-05 15:26:12 · 17 answers · asked by K_A_mom 1

Personal info, on me: I Had an affair with an old High school boyfriend over 11 years ago!
I left my family divorced my husband and left my son with his father to pursue the relationship!

After the divorce I married the man, and for better or worst got the **** end of the stick, He cheated on me he beat me up so bad I had to have emergency surgery and then left me less then 2 years later for a woman who was barly 23!

the saddest part is that my son to this day wont even speak to me, and I've been told by family members he doesn't trust women at all. I guess you get what you give huh?
Karma in spades!

So let me ask do you think our need for sex dismiss everything else including common scenes to the point that you can't distinguished good from EVIL?

WHat do you think?

2007-10-05 15:15:11 · 19 answers · asked by The Lady 1

I've been married 3 years. When I married my husband failed to tell me he owed tens of thousands due to past debts, and convinced me to quit my job to become a stay home mom. I now have a one year old and we just received our 2nd notice of wage garnishment. I am so fed up I feel like leaving with my son and putting an end to this. Yes I love my husband but not enough to live poor, or work myself to death to work his debts off. I want to own a home and have nice things, and it seems impossible with this whole situation. I'm angry that he didn't tell me everything I was getting myself into. If I stay I will work for nothing, just to sustain us - if I leave I have a real chance to use those earnings to create a better life with more financial stability and a solid future for me and my son. He's a great Dad otherwise, and I wouldn't keep them apart - after all I do love him. What do you think, what would you do? Nice answers please :) I'm already stressed enough...

2007-10-05 15:14:20 · 17 answers · asked by Sweetness 6

What a working married woman suppose to do? Do you also have same accounts, password..is it ok to have our own accounts. Save our own money but when needed I can give. Just dont want to be put everything into one. What is that everyone do? Plz suggest...

2007-10-05 15:12:32 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

he left when i went to college to get a better job, now i am doing good, it were ruff at first, but i am back on my feet, over the years, it showed me that i do not miss or want him back. ooo now he are willing to do what ever it takes to get back together. he is 365 days to late, please tell me if i am wrong.

2007-10-05 15:11:38 · 22 answers · asked by queenmidas1014 2

Ok so it seems once you have been in a relationship for awhile things tend to cool off at times in the bedroom area. What are some of your biggest turn ons or ideas to keep things alive and exciting?

2007-10-05 15:06:24 · 9 answers · asked by Jennifer M 2

2007-10-05 15:03:48 · 3 answers · asked by usinmynoodle 1

Is there anything I can try or just get some therapy? Serious answers only, please

2007-10-05 15:00:15 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

We have so many financial problems at the moment, our relationship is loving, but the arguments caused by stress and worry are tearing us apart, he is finding it hard to get work, he is a qualified tradesman, i own a small business, but its getting to the point where my resources to get money together are running very low, i feel ill most days, with that sick feeling in my stomach, i was an optimistic person, but for the past 6 months, nothing is going right financially.
I have been the strong one, for both of us, now i am at breaking point, in the situation where i am keeping it to myself, because, i could tell friends and family, but they are very judgemental, i know that for a fact, so i feel so alone, can i make it through?? can my relationship survive???

2007-10-05 14:54:17 · 11 answers · asked by natc 3

how often do you married couples out there have sex? just wondering.

2007-10-05 14:53:09 · 24 answers · asked by jessica T 3

I know that the same can be said for many women, but I'm going to assume that the reasons may be different.
Why do so men lazy, slobby, unintelligent, unattractive and crass men have such high standards for women? These beer-swilling, sweaty pigs with bulbous guts and bad breathe actually believe that women resembling Jessica Biel could be bothered with the likes of them, and have the nerve to judge these women. Come ON, man!! They're more worried about the bra size of the girl behind the counter than what their armpits smell like. And yes, it DOES seem to be much more prevailent among men.

2007-10-05 14:52:33 · 21 answers · asked by Ashley =) 1

my ex husband just died today. He can no longer hurt me. I can go on now. I suffered PTSD and depression. He can't hurt me anymore. From years of emotional, physical, mental abuse. What a huge weight off my shoulders. SHOOOOOOOO!

2007-10-05 14:49:36 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

my wife heard on the tv that a light over the bed is bad for the health?????so i had to take ours down and she does not wnat me to have one over the bed???? have any one ever heard of anything so rediculious

2007-10-05 14:48:50 · 6 answers · asked by terry p 2

in a colummist in a newspaper ,Magazine what advice given to this person.I have been with my partner for three years now. We both agree that we have a great relationship, though our lives are so busy with work, night courses and volunteer work. We hardly have time fir dates, let alone eating and getting enough sleep! I feel that i look way too fat so i started to diet 6 months ago. I have lost 10 pounds on this new awesome fat free diet. I feel I can trust jeff and he feels he can trust me. We went for HIV testing a year ago at a clinic that offered anonymous testing. We both tested negativeand decided we would stop using condoms. Nine months ago we decided we would like to start a family and have been trying to get pregnant.We have intercourse about three times a week but think we should have intercourse every night as nothing has happened yet. We enjoy having netercourse but we are feeling that the fact that we not got conceived yet is putting a strain on the relationship. thanks

2007-10-05 14:43:21 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-10-05 14:38:04 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am wondering how you would to respond to a person, who separated from an unhealthy relationship with an elderly parent (who is behaving in a way that is aggressive, egotistical and emotionally abusive) who struggles with the commandment of 'honour thy parents’.

In reality would Christians condmemn her as bad (or unChristian) if she maintains the position that seems psychologically healthy and necessary for her own well being ?

She feels excluded from the possible support of the Catholic community, which was the religion of her upbringing as a result of her perception (or misperception) of their perspective.

Changing the father’s behaviour does not appear to be a realistic option as he appears to be in an obsessive state of mind (with her as a target) ... since the daughter revealed a belief that he sexually abused her as a child. He seems to believe that his only way to peace is by changing her mind.

2007-10-05 14:36:56 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have a hyphenated last name. If someone writes me a check do they have to put the hyphenated name or can they just put my married last name? Assuming they didn't know it was hyphenated. Would the bank still cash it?

2007-10-05 14:35:10 · 6 answers · asked by lon1082 2

Do some guys just not like foreplay. His idea of foreplay is "come over here" for oral sex. Once he is excited Its wahm bam. No hugging, kissing, nothing. I don't mind a quickie once in awhile but this is getting old fast. When I try to talk to him the responce is its my fault. Is he just a selfish lover or is there hope for him with teaching. Guys whats up with him. I really do not think it is me.

2007-10-05 14:34:27 · 11 answers · asked by Patty 2

Seriously, have you done this or heard of this? Guys posing as their wife on the net on various websites, talking to men, sharing pictures, all sorts of stuff.

2007-10-05 14:27:44 · 8 answers · asked by DMV 1

I just feel so depressed, I have been married for 2 yrs now, My husbands mom lives in our apartment because they have alaways been living together and because he is the only son so he takes care of her. But she pretends she is the boss! she has control of the TV in the living room, she has all her stuff in the kitchen etc.. I feel like im the guest! and today at 3 pm it was so hot and humid so I turned on the AC and she started saying oh im so cold and got in her bed & when my husband came in he asked her why she was in bed at that time and she said " Oh because its so cold out in the living room, and he yelled at me & told me to lower it down!!! So I just turned it off. I cant beleive he doesnt care if Im hot or how I feel His mother is always going to be before me and that makes me so sad!! And she wont leave! I just hate her so much! I honestly pray everyday and ask to remove that hate I have for her but I just cant pretend to love her when I wish she disappeared! and I feel bad!!!

2007-10-05 14:18:13 · 35 answers · asked by ♥*´`*•. mommy♥*´`*•. 1

Is it a common practice to demand and get it back or is it more common for the Husband to give up that amount?? (by law the money is mine, just not sure what is common about it). THANKS

2007-10-05 14:16:58 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

Would that be a reason to pursue her? What is it about the money that you find attractive? Do you think it's wrong?

2007-10-05 14:13:45 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

If a man has been deeply hurt by his first love, how can I get him to open up and stop being so cold hearted ?? he acts like all women are out to break his heart, so he wont let his guard down. Is there any hope for a man like this, or am I fighting a losing battle ? should I just give up and move on ??

2007-10-05 14:10:00 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

So, my fiance and I have not gotten in the sack for quite a while. I would like some great advice on how to turn him on and suduce him into bed with me. Please give me some step by step info. I don't know where to start.

2007-10-05 14:00:32 · 13 answers · asked by kyla_shaylee 2

What can we do to make her look like a monkey in court? We always pay child support on time, we end up buying all their clothes, their school supplies, their games, toys etc. they are 11, 15, and 16. She gets $2,100 a month in child support....plus all of this other stuff we get for the children. She is taking us back to court after only a year of having it set. My husbands attorney says we are paying more than we have to already. She was supposed to have her car refinanced according to the divorce decree and didn't, she got $40,000 in the divorce settlement and could have easily paid it off..instead she got a tummy tuck any lypo. I am really angry and want revenge without moving the children out of her home because that would upset them....we could because she works nights and weekends and is never home when they are. Any suggestions?..I am sick of the control plays she puts on us. The reason they divorced was because she had a long term affair and became pregnant. Got dumped

2007-10-05 13:39:59 · 15 answers · asked by Rein 5

How would you feel and react if your husband got an email from a girl he had sex with that she was pregnant and miscarried at the same time you got pregnant??

He told me he hadn't had sex with anyone for 6 months before he met me.....

We don't have a normal relationship...he is very jealous and insecure and has always brought up stuff in my past...but now he has 3 girls from his past repeatedly trying to contact him and now this email....

As far as I know he is faithful...I have no reason to believe he isn't....

He also said he never had sex without a condom but she swears he didn't wear one....

I've always been 100% honest with him....

She said it's been on her mind and she was scared to tell him because he was in college and had just found out I was pregnant...but she needed to get it off her chest...

2007-10-05 13:38:31 · 15 answers · asked by mommyx3 3

My mom never wears jewelry even though she's got some really nice jewelry. So the typical is impossible. Any suggestions?

2007-10-05 13:37:11 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I HATE my last name and want to take my fiances name because it's nicer and even sounds better with my first name, but my family and friends think it's a dumb idea.

What is so wrong with a man taking his wife's name at marriage?

2007-10-05 13:36:09 · 10 answers · asked by Purple 1