Marriage & Divorce - 4 September 2007

2007-09-04 04:18:07 · 29 answers · asked by stel 2

We're unmarried and from Scotland, I signed the baby's birth certificate in Jun gave me full parental rights to him, same as her.

She's rude, arrogant and really quite vicious, she's left me several horrible and nasty voicemails on my phone which I've kept recordings of, she's kicked me in the balls, thrown stuff at me and generally makes my life hell, the final straw came the other night when I was crawling on the floor playing with my son and she kicked my in the jaw cause me to chip my tooth off another tooth.

I love her but I'm ready to go, the house is in her and her fathers name as my credit's shocking but I have my wages paid directly into her account and I pay the mortgage from my wages as a standing order - from her account. She doesn't work.

Where do I stand with regards to getting 50/50 custody of my son and getting my share of the house.

Should I go now or should I stay for a while longer and build more evidence of her nasty bullying tactics, maybe keep a diary?

2007-09-04 04:16:26 · 27 answers · asked by threecraws 1

I do love my fiance (been engaged for a year), but I have fallen in love with a married man and can't get over it. I started a relationship with this guy and he said he and his wife were separating. He told me he loved me and wanted to spend his life with me. When his wife found out about us he suddenly has to stay for the kids. He says he couldn't bear to just be a "weekend dad". What should I do? I can't get over him!!

2007-09-04 04:16:12 · 28 answers · asked by holly p 1

Last night, my husband confessed that Saturday and Sunday he had lied to me about where he went. I trust him so I asked where did he go. He told me he went to the strip club, and "didn't do anything" while he was there. Should I be mad at this? I'm so confused. We've been together for almost 4 years, and just got married last October. Why is he lying to me already!? Please give me your advice on what to do. Is he cheating on me? He goes out a lot without me, and leaves me home with our 5 month old daughter. Should I be worried? Please help!

2007-09-04 04:12:44 · 16 answers · asked by Ash 2

I have been married for almost a year with my husband and we have a 13 month old son. We chose to get married. The wedding was beautiful but I am confused about my husband. He hardly says he loves me, he always joking telling me he doesnt like me and then says just kidding. I knew him when he was dating his old girlfriend and he used to buy her gifts and be affectionate to her. I pretty much have to tell him to buy me a gift or what I want us to do on a special occasion. We don't really hold hands, We kiss once and a while . But we are really good friends. We have a lot in common and we enjoy each others company. But i know what he could be because I saw it when he was with his old girlfriend. I know that there is nothing between him and another girl because we are always together and there is nothing between him and his old girlfriend. Help...

2007-09-04 04:09:19 · 7 answers · asked by Emy 1

We're unmarried and from Scotland, I signed the baby's birth certificate which gave me full parental rights to him, same as her.

She's rude, arrogant and really quite vicious, she's left me several horrible and nasty voicemails on my phone which I've kept recordings of, she's kicked me in the balls, thrown stuff at me and generally makes my life hell, the final straw came the other night when I was crawling on the floor playing with my son and she kicked my in the jaw cause me to chip my tooth off another tooth.

I love her but I'm ready to go, the house is in her and her fathers name as my credit's shocking but I have my wages paid directly into her account and I pay the mortgage from my wages as a standing order - from her account. She doesn't work.

Where do I stand with regards to getting 50/50 custody of my son and getting my share of the house.

Should I go now or should I stay for a while longer and build more evidence of her nasty bullying tactics, maybe keep a diary?

2007-09-04 04:08:28 · 16 answers · asked by threecraws 1

specifically one is catholic and one is lutheran. thanks for your input.

2007-09-04 04:06:03 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

We are married fro 6months now. Ours si a love marriage. He lied for everything and cheated me.He gave me nothing from time of marriage.He showed me imaginary married life and world to me before marrying me.He doesnt earn he has no home so My parents supported us and gave a home to live. I am from very rich and high class family with masters in education. I started working also and he takes all my money and spends it of.He has never given me anything but knows how to take it from me. He made me sell my gold and ask money from my parents all the time coz i love him.He smokes, watches blue films, tv and playing cards and snookers on yahoo.he enjoys his life. He slaps me on my face if I argue.I love him and I am suffering. His family left him never supported him financially also at time we got married. My parents are my strenght.But now he is cheating and lying to me and meeting his family and giving them my money if they ask.Which is not accepted by me. Please advice.

2007-09-04 04:01:38 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

Can you (men) be completley happy with just one woman. I am a young married woman, who suspects but hasnt confirmed partners infidelity. He seems to love me ( I am very pretty), but he shows all the symptoms of someone who wants to have affairs. CAN YOU LOVE YOUR PARTNER AND STILL WANT SEX WITH OTHERS?? or IF YOU WANT SEX WITH OTHERS DOES IT MEAN YOUR PARTNER ISNT GOOD ENOUGH????

2007-09-04 03:52:10 · 20 answers · asked by kathleen p 1

Would you hold it against your husband for saying something that really hurts you, in the heat of a bad fight, when you say mean things too? We are seeing a counselor right now. He usually says mean things after I hit, these fights don't happen too often but, when they do I feel terrible. Please be honest, but only nice anwers, please. I know I have to work on myself I
had a hard childhood, my brother was a bully and very volatile
I remember always living in fear that something would tick him off. My husband and I have 2 boys 1 and five. My husband is not all that bad we both work, and he's a hard worker, does housework and is a good dad. I just think he should be more considerate of my defensiveness. I just hate when he shows anger towards me, because of my childhood I don't handle it very well. I really feel like geting a divorce, relationships are too hard, I just can't handle them, I just want to be alone with my 2 boys. Words hurt. advice?

2007-09-04 03:50:14 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've already told him in very clear ways I want out, but due to his deep Christian beliefs, he doesn't believe in divorce.

The townhouse in which we live is included in my pay, so he should leave, plus he couldn't afford it on his own. It's a 3-bdrm (as I have two children), so he wouldn't need that kind of room.
I don't believe in making things ugly or hard in a break-up. How would you get him to leave? Thank you in advance.

2007-09-04 03:35:14 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

Real short, had a get together at my house, one of my girlfriends hubby has a very professional job, nice guy, very respectful, great father. His wife who is a very dear friend is quite heavy, but very pretty and is alot of fun. We try to support her to lose the weight, but I guess she will do it when she's ready. Anyway, she was walking down to the pool area and started to dance, her husband made the comment to me and another girlfriend of calling it an "EARTHQUAKE" I felt so bad that he said that about her (his own wife). He meant it. Me and my other friend didn't say a word. I hate to say anything cuz I don't know him like I know her, but we can all see he isn't happy with her at all because of her weight. He admires the rest of us but not his wife and she is so perfect in every other way. Should I tell him off or just let them work out their own problems?

2007-09-04 03:27:25 · 5 answers · asked by Maria 5

One Indian girl filed for divorce for not living with her husband for 4 years. After filing, plenty of adjournments and in the due course she met another person became intimate and he wants to marry her. I heard that it is legal if a girl awaiting divorce gets married under protection that she married for safety,security and as protection. But if a man gets married before the divorce procedure is over - it is illegal. So can the girl get married-- yes or no. Only Indian legal professionals answer pls.

2007-09-04 03:24:30 · 3 answers · asked by TROUBLESHOOTERKILLROY 2

Is love like trust, once you lose part of it or all of it, can you ever get it back?

2007-09-04 03:22:48 · 21 answers · asked by redpeach_mi 7

Hi,there! I've been working abroad for 8 months now. I'm have been married to my wife for 2 years now. We got a 15 month old girl. Latety, I have been having doubts whether my wife really loves me because she does not seem to want to call me. I'm always the one who reminds her to call me from time to time,if she is not busy. When we chat through Yahoo Messenger, she seems not excited to talk to me. When I ask her questions, she will sometimes reply with 2 or 3 words. I suspect that she maybe changing. How can I really tell whether my wife really loves me? I don't want to ask this from her. She will just answer back that I'm doubting her again.

2007-09-04 03:21:53 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

one hangs out at his work and it has caused prolems in our relationship but he refuses to change any of it because of course he doesnt see a problem with it but it effects the way i feel i feel some dishonesty and has put a wedge inbetween the way i think i should feel

2007-09-04 03:10:37 · 15 answers · asked by jeannieboop 4

My husband and I have been married over seven years. We have been arguing for the past week and over the weekend he tells me he has been unhappy in our marriage for the past two years. Why is he just saying this now--after two years? And why would he stay in a relationship for so long when he is so unhappy? He is NOT cheating--I KNOW this is not the case. But how do I move forward? Do I stay in the relationship and a--hope he gets happy with it or b--decides he is still unhappy after two more years and leaves then? I am happy in this marriage (my second-his first) and love him with all of my heart. We don't have any children and I am torn with what to do here? Do I tell him to leave? Stay and work on it? How can I know he's truly happy if it has taken him two years to voice it now?

2007-09-04 03:09:06 · 15 answers · asked by CajunCutie 1

your husband/Bf jaking off? I woke up about 5:30am to alot of movement that seemed like he was jaking himself off, then he wiped up and went to sleep?! My back was toward him so I'm not sure, but the movement was from the lower area and shaking...then wiping! What else am I to belive? I wrote him a note in his luch asking him whats up with last night, so we'll see. But how would you react?
Our sex is really great but I've had my period and then for the last 4 days we've been arguing.

2007-09-04 03:05:54 · 18 answers · asked by Marge 5

One Indian girl filed for divorce for not living with her husband for 4 years. After filing, plenty of adjournments and in the due course she met another person became intimate and he wants to marry her. I heard that it is legal if a girl awaiting divorce gets married under protection that she married for safety,security and as protection. But if a man gets married before the divorce procedure is over - it is illegal. So can the girl get married-- yes or no. Only Indian legal professionals answer pls.

2007-09-04 03:04:06 · 8 answers · asked by TROUBLESHOOTERKILLROY 2

but now I'm starting to wonder. Ever since my husband and I married 2 years ago, we've had a string of difficulties. For example, 2 totalled cars, open heart surgery, broken teeth, needing to make extensive house repairs and the like. We exercise, eat right, pray every day, are positive do and everything a person is 'supposed' to do, but we can't get a break. Amazingly, we're closer than ever and have a very strong marriage.

I consulted a 'psychic' yesterday and was told that his ex-wife cursed us because we've been so happy together.

What do you think about this? If you think it's a curse, how can we break it?

2007-09-04 03:03:54 · 11 answers · asked by Claire 3

now her inlaws hv taken all her money n have written to the home office to withdraw the case to get her the british citizenship,no reply has cm fm home office on wether to give her the nationality r to deport her,what action can she take

2007-09-04 03:00:39 · 3 answers · asked by gugu 1

Without making him feel that I am picking on her? Her, and my inlaws, came to spend the weekend with us. As usual, after 45 minutes of her being there the house was in total chaos. She runs from one end of the house to the other. She plays hide-n-seek (with herself). She does cartwheels and she rolls on the floor with her head buried in the carpet. When my inlaws tell her to stop, she won’t stop right away. She’ll sit and stare them in the eyes and THEN stop, but only for 5 minutes or so. She does the same thing to my husband, whom she takes as a total joke. She hangs off my mother inlaw, literally, and acts like an infant that needs to be nursed. She plays with my mother inlaw’s ears and nose and that is how she falls asleep, in my mother inlaw’s lap. As usual, the adults were playing cards and it was late (after 10 p.m.). This child ran in and out of the guest bedroom back to where we were and was trying to manipulate my mother inlaw so she could come to bed, because she was sleepy.

2007-09-04 02:58:48 · 11 answers · asked by Hoping he will bless me with #1 4

my sister who i am really close to has recently seperated from her husband (she has two young children) and is contemplating divorce yet she has already been on dates with three men whom she met on the internet. i feel really upset by this, what can i do?

2007-09-04 02:55:00 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been with him almost three years, I have built my life around him. I just moved to a little town in the middle of nowhere for him. He has lost my trust because I found him on singles websites, tells girls he's single in his chats, looks for singles on myspace, and looked at a call girl website. I don't know exactly how long this been going on and I don't know if he's cheated, but how can I be sure when he says he hasn't. I've had my doubts about him since christmas when he receive a sexy photo from a girl on his cell phone. He hardly ever wants to be intimate with me and I'm an attractive young woman. He told me he has a sexual addiction, I just don't know if I can handle this anymore. I believe he's going to have problems the rest of his life and I don't know if it's worth the pain. He wants me to give him another chance. This is a fork in the road for me, I can go one way or the other and I need to make my decision today or tomorrow. I need advice.

2007-09-04 02:54:45 · 26 answers · asked by hey, be a decent human being 2

The town I was married in who has the marriage license or the town we signed it in with the witness before we were married?

2007-09-04 02:50:49 · 4 answers · asked by Jersey Style 5

My hubby and I have been having problems with trust for awhile now. He's a bit of a flirt and has a history of cheating (his previous wife). Well...to be honest, I accessed his email over the past weekend. We had gotten into a fight about his flirting and I wanted to see if my fears had anything behind it. He had written down his password months ago but left it out by mistake. I remembered it and I checked it out of curiousity. What I found really upset me. Now...I am not the person to snoop. I've never done it and never intended to. I just trusted him, until now. Something felt odd about the way he was being flirted with at a party. He set up a profile to an adult dating site just last week. I logged onto the site and he listed his marital status as "I'll tell you later" and he is specifically looking to hook up, nothing more. I know what I need to do but how do I confront him? I found the information by being sneaky.

2007-09-04 02:47:55 · 21 answers · asked by Krissi 1

i cant stop thinking about my ex but i love my husband.

2007-09-04 02:37:20 · 18 answers · asked by melissa f 1

My friend's fiancee has the most horrible family; they are crude and often are mean to her. She has agreed to go on holiday with them next week (where they will stay in a cottage all together!) but really doesn't want to go. She has spoken to her boyfriend but he refuses to believe there is anything wrong with his family and doesn't see the problem. They have been together for 6 years. What should she do?

2007-09-04 02:32:48 · 4 answers · asked by Jiggi 1

2007-09-04 02:31:04 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

On countries like America, a teenager loses her virginity at a tender age of 14 and above. Do u believe that a woman should give her body to different as frequently sd though she's changing her colthes? Is it important for a woman to stay a "one-man" woman and vice versa? why? why not?

2007-09-04 02:31:03 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous