Marriage & Divorce - 4 September 2007

2007-09-04 17:04:02 · 12 answers · asked by kittens 3

I tried to help him and his kids in december he gets papers Could i call immigration and stop it? Even if i haven't file divorce yet? I know he is back with his wife and i don't want him to get papers and then dump me!!!

2007-09-04 17:00:05 · 8 answers · asked by killer4tu 1

At times I wonder if my spouse really likes me. I only wonder this because my family doesn't. I dont blame them. I'm a burden, and they're getting tired, so they married me off. But my guy is a sweetheart. I'm so lucky to have found him(well...he found me). See, y I'm asking? One gets their sense of self worth, partly atleast due to family responses. But when I met my guy, he wanted to marry me. I"d tell him deterants, but he didn't mind them. I still tell him things, but he doesn't mind them. I do want to be married to him, but I"m just wondering of his intentions since I'm not valued by my creators. It doesn't help that he says he'll tell me when he gets here either(although i get that, it's not easy talking on the phone). I guess I just don't understand y a guy would like a girl who's family doesn't even seem to like her. OH, i do understand my family's reasoning, I just don't know what to do about it. I just don't understand my husband's. serious answers please, thanks.

2007-09-04 16:44:46 · 27 answers · asked by Uncertain Soul 6

Do you feel there is nothing you could not tell your spouce or ask them? Do you think communication is the key factor in a healthy relationship?

2007-09-04 16:37:26 · 24 answers · asked by hungryeyes001 4

if a father of two kids gets remarried is it wrong to pick the new wife over the kids?

2007-09-04 16:26:42 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-09-04 16:14:20 · 10 answers · asked by alex 1

and what did it take for your woman to win your heart?

2007-09-04 16:13:28 · 4 answers · asked by KB 1

This is just one topic of what being a "real man" is to me, but one that is heavy on my heart: Are there men that actually love their wives, only want to be with them and are not attracted to other women? Or is that just a fairy tale? I am in an ok marriage, so I'm not looking for a relationship, it is just that this world seems really sad, with no hope. God made marriage - and sex for married couples. That is healthy. I know men and women are "wired" differently, but sex should mean love for both!!!
Don't get me wrong, I know women can be a mess too! But usually it is the man that is more sexually "weak".
Please only answer with real answers, no rude comments!!!

2007-09-04 16:12:05 · 11 answers · asked by tnsndebt2001 1

his wife isn't living here presently.

2007-09-04 15:50:03 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

My current boyfriend and I were set up by mutual friends on a blind date. We talked on the phone daily for about 2 weeks before we actually met in person. I really liked talking to him even before we met. In fact, I had this gut feeling the 2nd time we talked that he was "the one". Now its only been a month since we've been dating, yet things have happened pretty quick(and it doesn't feel wrong or bad). We talk about marriage, moving in, kids, etc....we're so in love! Has anyone else had a relationship that started quick and are still together....tell me your story etc.

2007-09-04 15:47:14 · 9 answers · asked by L♥G 5

2007-09-04 15:45:20 · 21 answers · asked by DesignStar 1

We got a long so well and made plans to see each other again, but after a week, he emailed me this. Did he diss me or was just using an excuse not to see me again? Should I email him back? If so, what?
This is his email.
" Sorry I have not been in touch. It's a very long story but I'm not doing well right now.When things are better I will be in touch."

2007-09-04 15:42:27 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

Here's the info - My brother seems to be sabotaging his relationship. They were married since they were 16, when they had an unplanned pregnancy. For 10 years, they had a "descent" marriage with ups and downs. In the 11th year, they seperated, each going out with others. In their 12th year, they got back together and are now living together raising their two children (but still not remarried).

My SIL was having a hard time with her 30th birthday coming up a couple days ago... knowing how she has always begged and pleaded him to do something "romantic", even told him - buy me cheap flowers, rent a room, rent a love movie, anything ... and knowing her birthday was approaching, my mom and I called my brother on the sly, "do you have a cake?" (No) "Do you have a card? or note?" (No) "Did you get her a present?" (No)... He finally went to the store and bought a cake, but that was all.

I know he knew better... I knew he knows what to do to "build" his relationship...

2007-09-04 15:40:10 · 5 answers · asked by Wildflower 6

my dad and stepmom are getting a divorece.

My mom isnt around anymore and ive known my step mom for 10 years.

My stepmom is like another mom to me. my little sister is going to be devasted. All i wanted was for my sister to grow up saying mom and dad in one sentance.

how can I stop them from divorcing and throwing 10 years away???

2007-09-04 15:37:57 · 4 answers · asked by mish_mosh_posh 2

My fiancee of 8 months just lost his teenage dauther to a car accident a month ago. We are suppose to get married in 3 months. We just moved into a new house but have been living together for the past 9 months. This is second marriage for both with kids from both marriages blended. At first, after the accident, he embraced me and turned to me as his rock, for comfort. Since then he has been cold, distanst and down right mean to fight with me. Now he wants to go away for a week by himself. All we seem to do is fight, mostly by his doing. I'm can't imagine what he is going through losing a teenage daughter. The grief must be horrible. What I don't understand is why he has to turn our relationship, the one solid thing he has, upside down. Why won't he confide in me or turn to me?

2007-09-04 15:33:24 · 15 answers · asked by sweetone46530 1

2007-09-04 15:32:23 · 6 answers · asked by hunny_tummy 2

when i get mad he calms me down..
he has never swore at me..
he surprises me w/flowers all the time..
he won't eat w/out me..
he always tells his family how i'm a really good wife and won't let ppl interfere in our lives..
he always takes care of me..
he is perfect.. and i have been p.m.s.ing for the past 2 days and i feel really bad..

how do i show him i love him?

2007-09-04 15:31:27 · 44 answers · asked by ? 4

My wife had migraine(severe headache) during her childhood. She did not tell me about that before our marriage. Even now she gets headache frequently although it is not severe. She also gets headache whenever she is under pressure. I really don't know what to do? The migraine may come back after a certain age also. what you were doing if you were in my position?

2007-09-04 15:28:54 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-09-04 15:09:09 · 15 answers · asked by Donna C 1

My husband and I have been married for two years. This past weekend one of my old friends from college texted me after not talking to him in probably 5 years, which was before I even knew my husband. I was out of town for work and little did I realize that over the course of the weekend this old friend and I ended up texting probably 150 times. I didn't realize it until I checked on my wireless account online. My husband and I have a family plan so if he logs online he'll see that I texted a particular # so many times. Needless to say, I want to sit down and tell him about it tonight. I feel sick to my stomach, but I know that I need to tell him so it doesn't freak him out when or if he sees it. Any advice on words to use to make it easier???? I don't want him to wonder if I cheated on him, cuz I didn't and won't, but I know it'll put strain on our marriage probably and I'm scared for that. I know honesty is always best but....... scary at the same time. Any words of wisdom?

2007-09-04 14:58:32 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband of 11 years is sending instant messages and personal e-mails to a girl who is just starting college. I am sure that it all began quite innocently, but from the messages thay seem to be quite familiar with each other. Do other people consider this to be cheating, I'm pretty sure I do.
What do I do next?

2007-09-04 14:58:20 · 27 answers · asked by jamie t 1

I've been feeling lonely lately because my husband has been working a lot, my mom and sister live about 2 hrs away so i dont get to spend much time with them. I usually go to my sis in law's house so i dont stay home alone but it's not the same, they're just there, we dont really talk much so i just watch tv. It makes me feel lonely and i get depressed a lot, i get frustratred and it's obviously hurting my husband because i kind of take my anger out on him. Any advice?? please?? He's looking for a better job so he doesn't have to work as much.

2007-09-04 14:33:17 · 12 answers · asked by Pat's Angel 4

So this "old friend" who my boyfriend says means NOTHING to him was his first kiss when he was 16 years old. We're 20 now. He hasn't talked to her in over a year. I asked him if he always will hold a place in his heart for her, and he told me not to get mad. He said that, he probably will just because she was his first kiss and a good friend. He told me that their relationship was nothing, but I don't believe that. I did get upset, and he told me that he didn't mean anything by it, and I took it the wrong way. He said by "place in his heart" all he meant was that he'll always remember her, but there's no emotion/feeling there. Do you think he is lying? What do you think he meant?

2007-09-04 14:33:08 · 4 answers · asked by LateBloomer 2

Some people can relate to this & some don't even know what I am talking about!! Anywayz, in a society which supports arranged marriages, the parents expect their girls (i'm seeing it from a gal's pt of view) to be "nice", not be "social" with guys- all the girls need to do is study & be good until the parents find their match.. once the girl has finished her studies (& may be working too), she is introduced to a guy all of a sudden- she is expected to 'interact' with this guy & give her consent for marriage.. what an hypocrite-
worse than this, while premarital sex is so much of taboo here, the newly-weds are expected to have a baby by their 1st or 2nd anniversary- WHAT IS THAT ABOUT?!!

2007-09-04 14:12:36 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-09-04 14:08:28 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous

i am making a cd for my boyfriend and was looking for suggestions as to what good songs to put on it.any genre will do.i just want good 'love' songs. thanks =)

2007-09-04 14:08:25 · 8 answers · asked by katelyn b 1

2007-09-04 14:07:31 · 18 answers · asked by Drew C 1

I was a virgin, when we married, but he wasn't. I know he loves sex, but he won't get it from me.

2007-09-04 14:06:05 · 7 answers · asked by Confused10 1

I want to be happy in my family, but I am not. I have tried and tried. I work full time and make sure the bills are paid from my account. My husband has a crappy job and no benefits. I make good money, but no medical insurance. I do have an excellent pension plan.
I make sure the kids have clothes and school supplies.
I do 85% of the housework, gardening & shopping and cooking.
I do 100% of my own car care, homework with the kids, dental & doctor visits.
I am so resentful of my husband. He's a 40 year-old baby! I am really getting depressed about this. I work my butt off, stress about how next months bills will be paid and always feel obligated to someone else. I have read "Proper Care & Feeding of Husbands", but I just got more angry! I'll be damned if I'm going to meet the sexual needs of someone who doesn't meet mine! Call me cruel!!
I menion this gently to hubby, and he comes unglued. I am sooo unfair, sooo mean!!
WHAT ABOUT ME?

2007-09-04 13:20:20 · 17 answers · asked by toobusy4life 1

Monday through Friday: Works out of home office and is busy all day which is fine. Has dinner with me then immediately goes back into office until 8 p.m. or when something is on TV he wants to watch.
Weekends: Gets up late – usually after 9:30 – 10 am. Makes tea and go into office. Might come out and read paper. Sundays reads paper and watches TV while I do yard work outside. Spends the afternoons in his office, or goes out for a latte. Sometimes I ask if we can do something together or run errands. He often says he can’t because he has to work. Sees nothing wrong with this pattern and berates me if I say anything about it. Refuses to change anything. I have talked until I am blue in the face. Nothing.
Just got married 11 months ago. I feel he just married me for a tax write off and medical benefits. I go to bed alone every night and have had to find things to do on my own as he is always in his office. Depression? He refuses to go to the MD for it.

2007-09-04 13:17:41 · 22 answers · asked by Blondana 3