2007-09-04 14:07:31 · 18 answers · asked by Drew C 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Move on... and use spell check!
2007-09-04 14:10:27 · answer #1 · answered by box of rain 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
God has a plan for your life,make sure this marriage is apart of that. I don,t know how old you are,but are you ready to be a father and to provide for a wife and children, and not expect the wife to take care of you. There is a lot of responsibility to marriage it is not a game of chance but commitment, one to another, Love just is not a feeling that last 10 days, then you are out the door and don't bring a lot of garbage into your relationship, get that straighten out before you get married.
Love endures and is long suffering, not just fun and games.
If you take your marriage vows serious it will work but it takes two.If she says no then maybe it was not meant to be.
2007-09-04 14:28:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm sorry, yet I disagree with the 1st answer. She does not pick to be engaged for 4 years yet grants to be honest and she or he nonetheless loves you is a cop out. If she loves you and is going to be honest then why don't you be engaged? She is telling you this, as a results of fact she desires to have her freedom and to maintain her suggestions open in case you're away "in basic terms incase" somebody else comes alongside. in my view, if she became into hinting at getting engaged and then became you down, that could desire to be a large purple flag that she isn't taking it intense and she or he's in basic terms enjoying video games. circulate on !!
2016-10-17 23:42:03 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pick yourself up and move on with your life. Don't dwell on the past and think of your future. Keep yourself busy and still go out and meet new people. Let your friends know that you are back in the dating scene. There is a reason for everything and just take it as a sign. This woman was not meant for you. The one meant for you is still out there. You'll be okay! Trust me on this!
2007-09-04 14:51:51 · answer #4 · answered by TheCoffeeDiva 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on why she said no.
If it is a matter of timing, you could wait it out, continue to go on like you are now. If it's because she can't see herself married to you, it's probably time to move on.
If it is the latter, use the situation to your advantage. Take stock of your life, figure out what worked for you and what didn't. If she gave you reasons alluding to things that are in your control, take yourself out of the dating scene and work on being the best person you can be and the kind of guy that is worth waiting for.
2007-09-04 14:15:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
guess you guys aren't ready thats a tough one sry that things didn't go the way you planned first thing is ask why? if the reason is good continue dating until you both feel ready
y dont u get engaged and if things dont work out you could call off the engagement anyways sry again and good luck
2007-09-04 14:12:53 · answer #6 · answered by usmc 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Breathe a sigh of relief. You just avoided making the biggest mistake of your life. Enjoy being single and stay that way.
2007-09-04 14:15:41 · answer #7 · answered by acedelux 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you have two options:
1) You can continue dating her, knowing that she may or may not change her mind in the future;
2) You can break things off with her and eventually try to find someone else when you're ready to do so.
2007-09-04 14:10:32 · answer #8 · answered by Sturm und Drang 6 · 5⤊ 0⤋
Happened to me many years ago.Painful at the time with lots of tears,took a while but I got over it though I still think of her and the good times we had.
2007-09-04 14:26:54 · answer #9 · answered by Charlotte's Dad 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmm i would say move on...but that depends on your situation. my best friend turned down 2 proposals from her bf and when she decided she was ready...she proposed to him. they just got married in aug. still hope?
2007-09-04 15:28:27 · answer #10 · answered by Jax 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thank your lucky stars. At some point you will look back and breath a big sigh of relief.
2007-09-04 14:11:17 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋