My current boyfriend and I were set up by mutual friends on a blind date. We talked on the phone daily for about 2 weeks before we actually met in person. I really liked talking to him even before we met. In fact, I had this gut feeling the 2nd time we talked that he was "the one". Now its only been a month since we've been dating, yet things have happened pretty quick(and it doesn't feel wrong or bad). We talk about marriage, moving in, kids, etc....we're so in love! Has anyone else had a relationship that started quick and are still together....tell me your story etc.
2007-09-04 15:47:14 · 9 answers · asked by L♥G 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
We met and had our first date at the very beginning of May. We got engaged on July 4, and we got married in January. So, from the day we met to our wedding, we were together 8 months. Now, we've been married for a year and 8 months and have our first baby on the way. We're very, very happy.
We had differences to work out at first but that's the case with any marriage. It's a lot of hard work but if you can meet in the middle and work through the problems, it's well worth it.
2007-09-04 16:01:17 · answer #1 · answered by mommymartin 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, my hubby and I hit it off from the first time we met. We didn't meet through friends but in a restaurant. That was in 1999. We did break up for about 6 months, but got back together. We've been married for 5 years now. Love is a chance we all take. As long as it feels right to you, I say go for it.
2007-09-04 22:56:02 · answer #2 · answered by renamed 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Control your emotional desires and don't rush into marriage unless all marrriage options are met. It better to move and stay with him for quite sometime, know who is, and fully get yourself convinced that he is the right man for you. You are only testing the good time but your have not tested the bad time and see how he will react ot them or solve them. As you said, it was a blind date, so let it not be a blind love or blind marriage.
2007-09-04 22:58:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Started out quickly? YES
Lasted? NO
The first six months (if it lasts that long) you are running on hormones. That's not love by a long shot! If you're still enjoying each other (besides sex) after six months, the relationship has a chance. There's a big difference between good sex and compatability, much less love.
2007-09-04 22:57:38 · answer #4 · answered by missingora 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
enjoy it, but take your time! In the long range scheme of your life dating the man you are going to be with forever for a couple years before getting married is nothing.
2007-09-04 22:54:23 · answer #5 · answered by jillianszoo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
we started dating. i ended up pregnant after 3 months. decided to get married. we've been married for 2 years, have two children, and are trying to work out one of his affairs. take your time.
2007-09-04 22:53:07 · answer #6 · answered by redpeach_mi 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I met my husband in Las Vegas. I live there and he was on vacation from Australia. I didn't go out much but when I met him, I couldnt help it. 2 months later we were married and I moved to Australia with him but now we are back in the states.
WHEN YOU KNOW...........YOU JUST KNOW.......
:)
2007-09-04 23:00:23 · answer #7 · answered by DesignStar 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Keep going with it. Just do not ignore the "red flags" that may or may not come up.
2007-09-04 22:55:02 · answer #8 · answered by box of rain 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yep...thats how all relationships start out. eventually it'll fade out...that;ll be the real test to see if it's true or not.
2007-09-04 22:54:04 · answer #9 · answered by Jax 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋