I was a virgin, when we married, but he wasn't. I know he loves sex, but he won't get it from me.
2007-09-04 14:06:05 · 7 answers · asked by Confused10 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
What?
2007-09-04 14:11:30 · answer #1 · answered by box of rain 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
wait , wot?.
You married and you were a virgin ?
thats about all I understand from this statement because it's not a question.
What are you trying to say? that you married as a virgin and you gave him sex and you know he like's sex but your not willing to give it to him>?
Girl you married him , so your duty is to give him sex wth are you thinking , why did you marry him if you dont want to pleasure him occassionally?.
If your not giving it of course he's going to go get it off someone else and who'd blame him? I dont condone cheating but hey even I'd cheat if that was the damn case.
If on the other hand your meaning you married as a virgin and now he doesnt ask you for sex (news flash their male they dont ask they need hints , visualisations and invites dont ask why its just how they think stupid as it sounds), so because he doesnt ask or innitiate you wont just hunt him for it so you think he'll go find it elsewhere.
Girl put your foot down , cook a nice romantic dinner , give him a massage and work your way into the best love making session you'll get in your early day's of marriage then after your done sit and discuss how your both going to work it so you dont have to wait .
Communication isnt just about the bill's or who take's out the garbage , marriage take's work and if you want it to last you'll work til the day he dies to keep him and he'll do the same for you.
2007-09-04 14:48:42 · answer #2 · answered by JadeyOz 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This still make no sense to me at all you married him you no he likes sex but he wont get it from you. you were a virgin when you married right. If your now his wife and dont give him what he needs then he will get it some where else because the bible says sumit your selfs to your husband do like wise. Think about it okay. why did you marry him?
best of luck
2007-09-04 14:15:12 · answer #3 · answered by mmurray001 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't understand. I guess I need to see the first question. But why won't you have sex with your husband?
2007-09-04 14:23:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well that is up to him if he has sex with someone else before your divorce is final.
2007-09-04 14:09:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you should ask him what he wants you to do and you should please him as much as you can ask him in a naughty sexy way tell him i ll do what you teach me to do with benefit or what ever try to be sexy.get naked when he comes home.push yourself under the shower try to let him see a new you a very naughty one
2007-09-04 20:11:25 · answer #6 · answered by mony y 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why?
2007-09-04 14:26:21 · answer #7 · answered by bubba gumps light 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋