Marriage & Divorce - 4 September 2007

My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 years, and my dad absolutely hates him, (of course I live with my dad, since my Mom died last year) my question is we want to be together so much that we are thinking about moving far away..is this wrong to do?

2007-09-04 08:11:55 · 43 answers · asked by Ge Ge 2

Have u ever run away with sum1 u met online even though u have bin married to the other person for a few years.was there kids involved?was it the right thing to do.r u happier now like u thought ud be.
im not doing it by the way.im just bored and want to ask sum questions.

2007-09-04 08:07:15 · 9 answers · asked by cfcbluesgirl 3

My husband and I are seperated, well not legally, but not living with each other anymore. I have a job at the local home depot, my daughter goes to school and son at daycare. I am not legally divorced because my ex pays about 350 a month for his son. And if I take him to court, #1 he may fight for custody, #2 I won't get as much child support from him (I already checked the percentage). So my question is, do I qualify for food stamps if I am legally still married? He makes good money, but he doesn't pay for anything for me except the 350. So since I am married, would they still take his income into account, or do I have to be legally divorced or seperated or what? Or do I just have to tell them we live apart. Thanks for your help.

2007-09-04 07:59:34 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

i have a child with a guy that is now married. and the last visit they had he came back at me saying he feels that our child should be calling his wife mom, I am against the idea until it is our child is old enough to make this decision for herself, for one her father and the wife hasnt been in her life long enough for my child to be all that comfortable with either one of them, and he thinks im insecure about my place in my daughters life, which im not. my daughter is already confused by us not being together and why hes married and im not why would he want to bring another confusion for her? I know i do need to have a talk to her about the wifes involvement in her life but it is hard to tell her some things since the father tells her different on things i do talk to her about, to get her to think im lying to her and dont have her best interest at heart. I do need some ideas on how to go about this any ideas appreciated.

2007-09-04 07:49:48 · 17 answers · asked by augustgrl80 4

My husband and I live 1.5 hours away due to my college and his work. I see him on weekends and, yes, like normal marriages, we do have sex. However, I really want to give him something special in bed. My question to you men is, what can I do to completely blow his mind and make him never forget that night?

2007-09-04 07:29:17 · 11 answers · asked by PaolaRossi 2

I am considering a move to another state for employment. I am looking for employment in Texas but I am open to anything in the southwest. I have custody of two children. How do I get these kids out of my state without my ex husband suing me for custody? I have a parental plan and it says you must notify the other parent if you move, but it does not say anything else. As a precaution I was considering buying a small house in Texas if that would make me a resident of that state. Any ideas on this one?

2007-09-04 07:25:57 · 9 answers · asked by Julie H 7

2007-09-04 07:08:16 · 23 answers · asked by bo 1

2007-09-04 06:49:30 · 13 answers · asked by Bullmastiff_Boxer_lover 6

2007-09-04 06:42:51 · 8 answers · asked by Praire Crone 7

When you make large purchases, such as furniture, who ultimately decides on the final purchase?
What if your tastes are so different?

2007-09-04 06:23:46 · 33 answers · asked by ? 5

Do you steer clear of a woman who stands up for herself and has the strength to tell you when she believes that you are wrong. I mean in a tactful manner not like a shrew or is nasty. I hate nasty people myself.

2007-09-04 06:22:53 · 14 answers · asked by Praire Crone 7

Guys I am asking this from the womans point of view. I am aware that you see it the other way around. But there are things that obviously the guy is responcible for and why doesn't he just step up to the plate and take the responciblity for it and change it himself if he is so unhappy?

2007-09-04 06:16:13 · 14 answers · asked by Praire Crone 7

Right, my boyfriend of two years has just left me for another girl! I am still in shock, however I always could never find fault with him in any way, he was perfect in every way. But clearly now I see he is cruel. I loved him with all my heart, so so much. I still love him but if he did decide he wanted ME back I don't think I could after this. He got me through the death of my mum 2 years back and I got him through his problems I won't go into. We've been through so much together and had such great times together too and he has thrown it away. I know he can't have loved me to do this, but my question is, is it possible to ever love any one as much again? I can't imagine anyone who could ever mean as much to me as he did...thanks

2007-09-04 05:42:57 · 44 answers · asked by . 5

I went to a concert with a girlfriend over the weekend, and we got horribly drunk. We ended up taking a guy back to our hotel room, and had sex with him. I had the worst feelings of guilt and ended up telling him. He's crushed, and told me that I'm disgusting and a whore, and I'm terrified he's going to leave me. We have a 1 year old son together, and I don't want him to not have both parents around.

Here's where it gets a little complicated.......We used to go to a swingers club regularly and have had sex with other couples, but always together, and we had our rules. The night that I was at the concert, he had a call girl at the house, and even though all they did was oral sex, it still happened, but I also knew about it.

I'm trying to find a way to fix things between us, but he won't even talk to me. I love this man with all my heart, and I don't want to lose him.

2007-09-04 05:28:05 · 52 answers · asked by mje0306 1

the other night he came home after having a few beers and was in a mood! Our 18 month old woke up in the middle of the night and I could not get her back to sleep. My husband tried too but since he was drunk, i didnt want him to handle baby. I said something to him (dont remember what) that made him mad and he was standing in our baby's room holding our child and jacked me up against the wall and choked me - twice - while holding baby with the other hand!
I am still in such shock that he could do that especially while holding our child. He has never done anything like this before and of course he was sorry the next day. I am just too disgusted for words and dont know how if ever I can forgive his 'Jerry Springer like" behavior. It felt like a real low life scene and we arent like that. I am so hurt that our child witnessed this even at such a young age I think they know whats going on. I cant help but think that there is a deeper issue since this came from out of the blue

2007-09-04 05:25:11 · 26 answers · asked by selery222 4

I pick fights about everything. The way he drives, talks in front of our son, eats in front of our son, being scared of spiders, and the way he watches tv. I know I'm not happy and I know I want out. But I'm scared to take him away from our son and our son away from him. When I go home and know that he will be there it makes me sick. While we are having sex it's ok for him to touch me but afterwards I feel like I need to throw up because he had to touch me. If it were up to me we wouldnt have sex at all. Help I need a safe way out without hurting everyone around me. or any advice.

2007-09-04 05:20:49 · 21 answers · asked by ? 4

Ever since he got the playstation 3 that was the end of of us, now it's just him and a whole bunch of people who play online, what can I do to get his attention? I have done everything even got naked in front of the TV, should I break his PS3?

2007-09-04 05:16:13 · 19 answers · asked by emigirl6363 2

I know a few couples through other friends I met over labor day and the conversations I heard shock me! Mind you, a few details are missing but to even hear this much is baffling.

It seems as if as long as they (husbands) stay the bread winner the wife will look the other way.

One guys is a trucker and even brings his girlfriend to card night with the fellas.

The other is a manager at a wearhouse and hangs out with the fellas like he's still single and has flings on the side yet goes to church and participates with his wife in family events.

Another couple the husband is addicted to porn and never gives his wife attention but she still stands by him but now is thinking of finding a lover.

What do you make of this, am I in the twilight zone?
Nobody is forced to get married so why commit and not commit? When I was married, I only loved her,Money broke us up!

2007-09-04 05:13:48 · 25 answers · asked by Ophiuchus 3

2007-09-04 05:11:49 · 5 answers · asked by ESTHER J 1

Recently married and already having communication problems. This is what we have endured:
1. I spent 3.5 weeks in the hospital with a major illness/surgery right before we got married. I got out and we got married 1.5 weeks later.
2.Our wedding weekend his best friend was here and he hasn't seen him since jan. the whole weekend was about him and his friend instead of about me and him and our wedding. I had to throw a fit just to be able to get a hotel room and spend our wedding nite alone.
3. We didn't get to take a honeymoon...money and my health. so he goes back to work and is miserable. doesn't interact with me and when he does it is fussing and moaning about work.
4. his dad shows up...he has never been around. and now my husband wants to spend every waking moment with him...he even quit his job and dad was one of the reasons why.
I told my husband that he should spend time with his dad but he shouldn't forget about everything/one else.what do i do should i expect from him

2007-09-04 05:05:36 · 25 answers · asked by justcatch13 1

In the middle of a fight, I lost my wedding rings at a restaurant and now have no idea where they are. We have filed a police report, looked in pawn shops around the area, and the restaurant claims they have no idea what happened, even though there were no people at the restaurant but ourselves and we even returned that same day. Where are these rings and/or who has them? They have extreme sentimental value to my husband and me.

2007-09-04 05:01:17 · 8 answers · asked by whatever79869 1

I am 19 weeks pregnant and over the weekend I heard rumor that at a party a few weeks ago, my husband ended up kissing one of the girls that was there. I hadn’t gone to the party because I was beyond tired that day. Anyways, I brought it up to my husband and he said he honestly couldn’t remember anything from that night. The next day he called his friend that had the party and asked if he had in deed kissed this girl. His friend said yes, but that it had stopped there. We talked about limitations with his drinking, and how he can no longer drink without me around (unless he is with the family). I asked him if he still loved me and wanted to be with me and he said yes... but if you want to be with someone and you love them then how can you go out and kiss someone else. Should I have forgiven him so easily? Should I believe everything he said? A friend of mine said to forgive but never forget. I don’t know... what is your opinion?

2007-09-04 05:00:28 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

I marrried to my husband bcos he is very nice with all the good attributes you want from a guy, honest, trustworthy, intelligent, loves me a lot, treats me very good, but Im not physically attracted to him, and he is not good at intellectual conversation which I enjoy.
So I cheated on him with J, J is incredibly intelligent and good looking, knowledgable and very fun to be with. Im very attracted to J.
I spent every weekend with J for 3 months till now, I left my husband alone at home and stayed over at J's house from saturday to sunday(we are 2 hours far away so cant get together on weekdays).
J gradually likes me more and more, and took me to meet his parents and talked about me moving in. I tried to leave J bcos J doesnt know I have a husband, but Im so fond of him.
My husband is furious when Im not at home on weekends. But he thought I just go out with some female friends.
I dont really feel guilty to my husband,I know the whole thing is too much but now I cant stop it. what to do

2007-09-04 04:58:43 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've been with my girlfriend for over 4 years already. We are both over 24. I promised myself I would never have sex (through any kind). My girlfriend is getting frustrated with me. But I think sex is very perverted and stuff. I do kiss her (and foreplay) and everything but I would not have sex ever. Do you think she will leave me for not having sex?

2007-09-04 04:54:59 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

I know everyone goes through things in the first year; I was just wondering what were issues that you and your spouse faced and were they resolved? just trying to learn more to benefit my own marriage. Answers are all appreciated :)

2007-09-04 04:51:09 · 13 answers · asked by Jersey Style 5

I just want her to give us a chance she says she still loves me but is still not seeing me. help

2007-09-04 04:35:36 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

is she cheating or wanting to have a threesome? She is telling me about men that is coming on to her and then the other nite she told me that she had a fantaisy about her me and another man?

2007-09-04 04:30:25 · 34 answers · asked by Tim w 2

I'm been with my girlfriend for 5 months already. I have fallen in love with her. I want to tell her I love her but I am scared to. MAybe I should wait until she tells me she loves me first? I care so much about her. I think about her lots of times during the day. I think about having her in my arms, I think about how much I care for her and my feelings for her. I'm really scared of telling her that I love her.

2007-09-04 04:30:18 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

I went from 145 (pre-preg) which was already too much( I am 26 and I was 135 in college) to 165 LBS. My husband, although I don't believe him says that he actually prefers what I call my new thunder thighs. Should I do this sexy performance for him or wait until I have less flab :-) ??

He's a great husband. Has not complained at all about my new weight or shown any signs of dissatisfaction. But in my opinion, when it comes to being sexy fat is fat . What do you think?

2007-09-04 04:29:55 · 14 answers · asked by learning...learning...pro 2

As stated in my previous question : I'm 27,have had OCD since I was 4 and have been in a relationship with an amazing guy for 3 years who recently proposed.I'm on medication and in therapy and while every aspect of our relationship is almost perfect our sex life leaves a lot to be desired.Since just about everything makes me feel dirty ,we only have sex every 2 weeks if he's lucky.I don't want to deprive him of anything but he says he loves me as I am and wants to marry me.Could you imagine spending the rest of your life with a woman like this?I want to say I'll marry him because I love him more than anything but I think I might be asking for too much here.

2007-09-04 04:27:15 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous