Ever since he got the playstation 3 that was the end of of us, now it's just him and a whole bunch of people who play online, what can I do to get his attention? I have done everything even got naked in front of the TV, should I break his PS3?
2007-09-04 05:16:13 · 19 answers · asked by emigirl6363 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
don't break his toy..lol...what is needed is him to think your doing your own things...so when he starts playing his game when you want his attention just get dressed up in something really sexy and tell him you and a girl friend of yours is going out shopping and stay gone about 3hrs...and don't bring home no shopping sacks....keep doing this and he will be wondering what your doing...and to you can get your friend to call and when he answers just hang up...get him to wondering what your doing and who keeps hanging up....that may give him the incentive to start paying you a little more attention...if he don't call me...lol...good luck
2007-09-04 05:28:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Breaking his PS3 is only going to cause resentment. In order to communicate with him, you need to embrace his interest with the PS3 to a certain extent (show some interest, ask some questions, ask about the other people he plays with online etc.). If you show resentment, it is going to cause a bigger rift and the more he will want to play to escape from what he perceives as nagging from you.
Once he sees you as an ally in this instead of an enemy, you can tell him that although you understand his interest in this, you also need some attention and some of his time. You may find he will listen, because you have listened to him.
If he does not, even if you have compromised, then it shows a bigger problem with the relationship and how you two really get along (all problems that persist in a relationship, after being discussed, are usually due to a greater problem).
The truth is that if you start laying down rules ("you get an hour to play per day" etc.) or do something destructive, you will only make the problem worse because he probably lash back with a "who are you, my mom?" attitude.
Being a guy, I will tell you that we don't like being told what to do. If you let us do our thing, and respect it as much as possible, you might find you will get what you want in return.
2007-09-04 05:34:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
5 1/2 mo. You are still getting use to each other. The newness is wearing "Thin", Most couples will deal with this, T Give him a reason to show you "MORE" attention. Have a play time"Video" and have Married time. You both have jobs, you need to relax, his might just be the videos. Draw a bubble bath invite him in. But Don't let the sun go down on your fights, Resolve your problems , don't go to bed mad. You will have little arguments, But that is the good part, The making up is the best part. YOU, need to talk to him, you are not having any problem telling us how you feel. You said, he gets mad if you Can't or Won't tell him what is wrong. You are "Both" at fault.
2016-04-03 02:55:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not break his PS3 or you can end up on the receiving end of the same with something valuable of yours. You need to have a talk with him when you are lying in bed together, eating breakfast, dinner or something you both actually do on a regular basis face to face. Without asking him to give up his hobby, talk to him about your feelings in regard to wishing to spend more alone time together. Also, if you are at all interested in sharing in the hobby with him, let him know your interest and ask about possibly playing once in a while.
2007-09-04 05:57:03 · answer #4 · answered by V 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, do not break his PS3. Have you tried just sitting him down and talking to him? Ladies, it is amazing what you can accomplish if you can sit a man down and let him know how you feel. Don't mince words or try to get him to "read" you because we are just no good at that at all. Come out and tell him how you feel, and I guarantee you that you will get an answer. It may not be the answer you want, but you will know where you stand.
2007-09-04 05:52:01 · answer #5 · answered by No one 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope leave the PS3 and off you go to build a nice time for you! Get some hobbies, hang out with the girls, whatever is appropriate yetr away from the home. Oh and BTW--do no housework, only your own laundry, and cook for yourself or eat out.
Get the pic? Treat him just as he is treating you. If he still doesn't notice---break the damn thing! Or better yet, sell it--no use throwing good money away!
2007-09-04 05:42:03 · answer #6 · answered by Rebecca W 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, don't break his PS3. The best way to get his attention is find something that you enjoy with out him. For example dancing and then invite him to join you, if he doesn't, then go anyway and have a great time. Then come home and tell him what a great time you had and that you wish he was there... Either way you win because you still get to go out and do something that you enjoy.
2007-09-04 05:24:07 · answer #7 · answered by mrskerlin 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
First and foremost how long have you been married? Listen sweetie, braking his PSP won't solve your problem. What you need to find out is if he lost interest in you. He could be using that game to avoid being with you. He might have other issues that you don't know about. You have to sit down and have a very honest conversation with him. But when you do that, do not nag, instead ask him what's bothering him.
2007-09-04 05:54:39 · answer #8 · answered by Ricardo R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is he ever interested in sex? Next time he is, tell him you aren't interested in sex with a boy, you want to make love with a man. Only a boy would put his "toys" as a priority above his wife!
Seriously, you both need to have a serious talk and find a compromise - if not, your marriage is headed for some serious issues that could be disastrous.
Best Wishes
2007-09-04 05:26:53 · answer #9 · answered by Lady Ariana 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get another woman in the picture, and play in his PS3 with her--both of you women naked. When he walks in on both of you, he should enjoy the sight. If not, then you have a boy that will never gain his libido back.
Hope this helps.
2007-09-04 06:55:20 · answer #10 · answered by rc 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋