I've been with my girlfriend for over 4 years already. We are both over 24. I promised myself I would never have sex (through any kind). My girlfriend is getting frustrated with me. But I think sex is very perverted and stuff. I do kiss her (and foreplay) and everything but I would not have sex ever. Do you think she will leave me for not having sex?
2007-09-04 04:54:59 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
you can count on it. sex is good sex is fun you should try it before you lose her
2007-09-04 05:01:04 · answer #1 · answered by dan m 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, Danny, she will leave you. You need to find out why you think that sex is "perverted". Sex is a physical pleasure that is what you make it. It is only "perverted" if you make it that way. You are right that sex and love are not the same thing. But sex can be an expression of love, and i am thinking that this is what your gf is trying to give you. Making love with someone you are in love with can be one of the most beautiful experiences that you can have, honest. Denying yourself that is truly sad in my opinion. Id b surprised if you found another gf that does not want sex ever either. But you never kno. Good luck.
2007-09-04 12:05:04 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
what is going on with you have been with her 4 years and your both 24 years old would never have sex with her. she is getting fustrated with you. think sex is very perverted and stuff and do kiss her and forepaly and everything else but wont have sex ever , do you mean that you are not interested in sex are you waitng until you get married. I think this girl will leave you if this is what she wants and your not putting out.
She may still be in love with you who knows just ask her.
do what makes you happy.
best of luck
2007-09-04 20:35:15 · answer #3 · answered by mmurray001 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are saying no sex before marriage, it is a good thing. However, if you are saying no sex ever, then yes, it is wrong and she more than likely will leave. Most women want children as well as a healthy sex life. With NO sex, it is obvious she would get neither.
2007-09-04 12:00:32 · answer #4 · answered by AsianPersuasion :) 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Wow! She just might...after all sex is a nice part of a relationship. It seems that you think sex is dirty and wrong....maybe you should seek some kind of help to find out why you feel the way you do. Good Luck
2007-09-04 12:31:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Think you need to find out why you feel sex is perverted. It is the one thing that allows two people to share a bond closer than anything else in life; the giving of each other to please the other. Please get some help with your thinking of sex; it should be thought of as beautiful, not ugly.
2007-09-04 12:02:56 · answer #6 · answered by pussycat 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If she does, she wasn't the girl for you :)
You need to find a girl that has the same values as you do. There are plenty of girls out there that are saving themselves for marriage as well! If this girl doesn't understand, you probably shouldn't be with her. You will find the right girl someday, just be patient.
Wait...an edit. I just read that you will never have sex. OF COURSE SHE WILL LEAVE YOU! If you are never going to have sex, ever, you will have trouble keeping a girl. If you're just waiting for marriage, keep waiting. I don't understand why you NEVER want to have sex...that's just weird!
2007-09-04 12:00:59 · answer #7 · answered by Student Doctor House 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Probably. It sounds to me like your views on sex will not go away with marriage, and that eventually she will start to stray (maybe not, but probably). If that is the way you feel about sex and she sounds like a sexual person then you either need to find common ground on this or go your seperate ways.
2007-09-04 13:03:54 · answer #8 · answered by No one 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not have sex ever? or not have sex till after marriage? there is a difference. humans are made to have sex. and even if your a Christian or you just want to do it in the bible god made people to have this urge for a reason. you are prob the only man in the world that feels this way.
2007-09-04 12:04:15 · answer #9 · answered by Mrs. Nolan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
possibly. Why would you give her foreplay and kissing and then not sex? Don't bother with all that other stuff. Don't get her all excited and then roll over! thats like a tease.
2007-09-04 12:02:15 · answer #10 · answered by Marge 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Dude, that's just as wrong as two boys kissing......... if you have no intentions of having sex; why are you wasting YOUR time, and HERS. And yes, she'd eventually leave you if she doesn't get some. Wake UP, SMELL THE COFFEE & GIVE HER WHAT SHE WANTS!!!!!!
2007-09-04 11:59:14 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋