2007-09-04 07:08:16 · 23 answers · asked by bo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You don't give us much to go on. Having sex doesnt mean he loves you. Going everywhere with the kids may mean that he does. TALK to him, I imagine that lack of communication was what made you split in the first place.
2007-09-04 07:11:37 · answer #1 · answered by Caroline 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well as some said . You did not give a niff info. If you two are living together then stay that way. If not he has his place you have yours and the only time you see him is when your with the kids you better think! You may be making it easier for him to be with the kids. You take care of the kids and he sits back and dose nothing. Your also having sex with him when your with the kids then your losing out. He may have a girl friend on the side too. Use you head. Not what is between your legs. You might just what to start looking for some different. Best of luck I hope you two can work it out. To hard to find some one that is good out here.
2007-09-04 14:27:49 · answer #2 · answered by tadm 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I dont know you or him but the fact that he is ex-husband means that you were not able to stand for each other in better or worse stituations. I dont see a point of sleeping with him if you dont decide to be back together. Maybe he is just interested in sex and doesnt want any other responsibility at home or to face wife. I supposed you dont live together, right. If he loves then he must makes it clear where are you standing in your couple, if not dont let him. Its normal to be everywhere with kids if you have to but he shouldnt take advantage of you like that. DOnt let him.
2007-09-04 14:16:56 · answer #3 · answered by Nomimi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Other than the fact that you two are divorced, has anything else changed with either one of you to make you suspect that if you got back together, things would work out? If you can't answer this question, chances are, it's not worth finding out whether he loves you or not. Also, you're asking the wrong crowd...no one here can read his mind. Ask him if he loves you once you know whether or not it would make a difference.
2007-09-04 14:22:03 · answer #4 · answered by V 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to break the news, but just because you still have sex with him, doesnt mean he is still in love with you..Sometimes it is very easy to be with someone who is familar and you are comfortable with. . And why if he can get sex from you, would he not take it, after all, he is a man..Sweetie , you need to quit having sex with him and move on..Sex reenforces a emotional attachment that may not be there....
When i got a divorce , it wasnt because sex, was bad, on the contary, it was because everything else had soured...
2007-09-04 14:18:41 · answer #5 · answered by mssgtmidnight1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
is he your ex or not?bet this is really confusing your kids?hes pro bally having sex with you, cause he knows you, and thinks your safe, like no std's stuff like that, if-it was love, you two would have figured out something before the divorce.he's still the same guy, you married and divorced, you gotta make up your mind, and either remarry or go get on with your life,or are you using him too?you to may be having fun, but your gonna have some messed up kids. is the sex worth that, plus in long run, it will mess you up to, come on make up your mind and do something!
2007-09-04 14:18:16 · answer #6 · answered by debbie d 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Umm an ex is an ex for a reason. He might still love you, but just remember why you got divorced to begin with. It might be good for you two to do things with your children, but what's going to happen when you both find a new love? That might make it odd.
2007-09-04 14:11:46 · answer #7 · answered by You can do it!! 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Being a single parent, I love to tease the couple across the street of being in an even less common demographic - divorced (from each other) couple with kids living with each other. It works for them.
Some people love each other, but can't live with the other one. Some can live with each other, but can't be married.
2007-09-04 14:17:30 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How will we know if he still loves you. Why did you divorce? Why are you now having sex again? Is this confusing your kids? Do you want him back? Does he want you back?
2007-09-04 14:20:09 · answer #9 · answered by Mean Carleen 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Can't say whether he still loves you. Obviously he thinks you are a fine partner in bed, at this point in time. But do not get mad at him. Stay as close as you can for the kids.
2007-09-04 14:12:54 · answer #10 · answered by Wolfithius 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋