I just want her to give us a chance she says she still loves me but is still not seeing me. help
2007-09-04 04:35:36 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
well, if you cheated on her..... i don't know what to tell you, b/c the problem you are going to have until the end of time is, building her trust back up - to the point where she's secure that you won't be tempted to do it again.
if you really want her back, tell her that you are willing go to counseling. ask her if she will go with you, that way, you two can not "sugar coat" things, and you can learn how she really feels about you, and you can learn also - not only just about her, but more importantly, yourself.
God Bless.
2007-09-04 04:44:30 · answer #1 · answered by EM 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are committed to this relationship the best thing to tell your wife is the truth. Sometimes it is hard to tell someone you love, the truth, but if there is a secret you need to let her know about it. The truth will set you free. Even if there isn't a secret Mark, the truth is still a great way to start. Do some soul searching and tell her what is on your heart. Above all, share your feelings. I know it is hard for some guys to share their feelings but women love for the man in their life to share their feelings. Be real.
If you are not committed to the relationship: then you should either genuinely recommit your marriage or you should not even show up. If you don't love her enough to commit to her then you don't love her at all. Don't waste her time, don't waste her heart. or yours. You both deserve to spend the rest of your life with someone you love.
If you are a Christian, you need to stay in the marriage and commit your marriage to God, and do whatever possible to make it work for the very best because that is what you deserve, the best. God bless you!
2007-09-04 05:12:12 · answer #2 · answered by eva a 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Need to learn to communicate.
Brutally HONEST converstations are the cornerstone for ALL successful relationships.
You two need to learn to communicate. FROM THE HEART and be willing to tell each other anything and everything.
If you can't agree on somthing, then step back from the issue. Take some time and discuss it again at a later date. Eventually you will come to an agreement on every issue.
If you both agree about somthing then it will work out....
good luck
2007-09-04 04:43:26 · answer #3 · answered by flyfish_777 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Greet her with something that you only know and she likes. Feel good about yourself that she still loves you. Try to be a friend first than a husband.
Quote Richard Bach: "A farewell is necessary before you can meet again. And meeting again, after moments or lifetimes, is certain for those who are friends".
Good Luck you are blessed.
2007-09-04 04:57:41 · answer #4 · answered by Kalyani K 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who wants the separation, you or her? Just be yourself, be natural, be the man she feel in love with in the beginning. That's all you can be. Try to put your guard down and she needs to do the same. I do not know what your situation is because your message and question is very vague but best of luck to you and your marriage.
2007-09-04 04:41:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her you want to work on your marriage together as a couple.
2007-09-04 04:43:06 · answer #6 · answered by kitkat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that you miss her and love her and that you want to work on your relationship, good luck to you and God bless!!
2007-09-04 04:53:52 · answer #7 · answered by frawlicious 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why did you marry her? Just see if things will get better how long did you guys date before marriage?
2007-09-04 04:47:07 · answer #8 · answered by oh_jo123 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What notes to yourself on what you want to talk about, I wish you the best.
2007-09-04 04:48:47 · answer #9 · answered by kim t 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her, what do you have to lose.
Who knows, maybe she is still in love with you.
You will not know, unless you talk and ask.
2007-09-04 04:42:31 · answer #10 · answered by Eve 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋