2007-09-04 15:32:23 · 6 answers · asked by hunny_tummy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I am in the exact position you are in. But I've been married for 5 1/2 years, and we have 2 kids. I completely lost my sex drive just after my youngest was born, and that was 2 1/2 years ago. It is normal. My husband doesn't understand it, and is extremely frustrated. I don't blame him. I don't know exactly why I am this way, but it's like I don't like being touched hardly in any way, nor do I enjoy cuddling anymore. My hubby keeps asking if I'm attracted to him still. It's hard to deal with, because it feels like we're just back to being friends. There are ways to help this, but it involves prescriptions. I would probably talk to a doctor first to see what they have to say about your choices, then go from there. Good luck to you, and don't give up!
2007-09-04 16:47:32 · answer #1 · answered by mp 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. The daily pressures of everyday life can be overwhelming or just quietly wear you down. It's true for men and women. It typically happens at 7 and 11 years of marriage. Relax and wait it through. Take bubble baths and visit a sex shop or two.
Don't kill your marriage because you thing the grass may be greener with some young stud.
The truth is that more than 67% of marriages will end in divorce. 92% of the time it will be initiated by the woman for no other reason than she is “unfulfilled” – oh, and because she gets the kids, the house, at least ½ the assets and most of his future after tax income for the next 18 years. The man will get raked over in family court. He will lose the house. He will see his kids 2 out of 14 days (if the ex doesn't level unsubstantiated "abuse" claims.) He will be forced to hand over 40-50% of his take-home pay. If he loses his job due to illness or downsizing, the State will toss him in jail. While jailed the arrearage will grow and the state will charge interest. The State will revoke his driver's and professional licenses, make him virtually unemployable.
If you were to take up sky-diving, and the instructor informed you that 67% of the parachutes were defective, would you take the plunge?
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2007-09-04 18:06:45 · answer #2 · answered by Chris 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It will very likely be a hormonal problem ; which often happens after having babies and doesn't rectify itself . you should see your doctor or Gynechologist .
There is a herbal product called " Libidus ", which is very effective for men who are not sustaining an errection . They make a female version , which they say , like the male version , with a little stimulation will really get women going . Look up www.libidus.com or better www.biogulf.com . I hope this helps .
2007-09-04 16:37:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no and yes,,,first off you are a mommy and kids area a lot to deal with and it is tireing! Try dating again,,that always adds spark,,no kids when u go on a date
2007-09-04 15:50:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women sometimes have hormonal fluctuations that affect their sex drive.
If it's been going on a while see your family doctor or your GYN.
2007-09-04 15:41:08 · answer #5 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your doctor and/or use your imagination.
2007-09-04 15:40:56 · answer #6 · answered by box of rain 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋