2007-09-04 17:04:02 · 12 answers · asked by kittens 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If your gut is telling you he is, 9 times out of 10 he is but don't confront him without proof. It took me months to gather info on my ex-husband but it worked out well because he could no longer make me think I was crazy. He started claiming he was working late but his check didn't reflect the hours, he started hiding his cell phone, some nights he came home smelling aqua fresh, he didn't answer when I called, the sex decreased while he was popping viagra and the icing on the cake was when he left a hotel card key in his pants pocket that I found while doing the laundry (what an idiot)!!!!! Thats just my experience though. I hope that your husband isn't cheating and I wish you well
2007-09-04 17:24:04 · answer #1 · answered by Mz.Shauntee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably need to give more info. to get more precise answers. I think usually a spouse suspects cheating when they have evidence, or sometimes a gut feeling along with their partner being different (suddenly much more concerned with his/her appearance, or distant). And sometimes unaccounted for lapses of time on a regular basis.
But none of these things prove without a doubt that a person is cheating (well, except the proof). Make sure that you have a real basis for this before making an accusation, and this isn't just coming from insecurity.
2007-09-04 17:19:11 · answer #2 · answered by MoonGoddess 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Saying he will be some place and then not being there, coming home late, changing normal routines, like use to call & say he may be late, then suddenly doesn't call anymore. Phone numbers in his wallet or in his vehicle that you don't know who they are. Calls to him and if you answer they hang up. Or he hangs up fast when on phone when you walk into the room. taking extra time to look nice before leaving the house for ANY reason. Extra miles on his vehicle, write them down and do that daily and then subtract the last one you write from the first one you wrote down and then you'll see how many miles he's driving! If it seems excessive- find out where he's going! Spending money on things you never see , and being moody and unresponsive when you iniate sex with him! Good Luck!
2007-09-04 17:21:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to settle in this for your self.....yet shall we rationalize this please. You your self purely pronounced he's no longer their for you in funds, parenting, emotionally and profession clever. You pronounced he does disrespect you, is on incapacity, has a prior drug and alcohol problem, was particularly verbally and bodily abusive, does not help around the residing house, which possibly skill in no way chefs, has a tendency to laundry, backyard artwork?? No intimacy because of the fact he's at conferences each night? So what's this guy besides your observed son? you have gotten a marriage that is in accordance with codependency and being a mom no longer a spouse. shall we upload in that he's receiving head from yet another guy. Which now makes you opt to have faith he may be bi-sexual and has been risking your existence with consistent with possibility the potential of contracting HIV....you need to get a reality examine and a backbone. No guy or quantity of love is worth this a lot. EVER, until of direction, it is your son? Get the hell out now! Or at some point you will awaken, previous depressing and demoralized and it finally clicks which you have wasted 22 years of your existence on his issues.
2016-10-04 00:18:28 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do your instincts tell you? Is he defensive at home? Is he leaving the house for extended periods of time with lame excuses? Working late frequently? Getting phone calls and taking them in private? Acting distracted and inattentive? If any of these sound familiar,,,,,chances are good that he is cheating.
2007-09-04 17:22:58 · answer #5 · answered by Lisa W 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try asking him first. but your gut feeling will never fail you on this subject. if he says no than watch he actions, coming home late, always have to run some where, take extras shower, working out more, always smelling good, all of sudden him and the boys are going everywhere, says he is working late or overtime but check dont reflect ot, dont sleep with you as much, arguing with you more than usual. these are just a few. but men are stupid. trust me if he is it will come to the light soon enough. GodBless
2007-09-04 17:14:52 · answer #6 · answered by Crystal G 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to know if your hubby is cheating on you:
1. he change his perfume or cologne
2. he comes home late
3. never answer his phone or his phone is "off"
4. always make excuses
5. he'll go straight to the bathroom before going to bed
6. before going to sleep, he always checks his phone if someone texts him or call him
7. he never kissed you or hugged you
2007-09-04 18:35:27 · answer #7 · answered by Beverly Anne N 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is cheating there is nothing you can do to stop him, so if you research it and find out that he is, are you ready to leave him, or are you going to put up with it or be in denial? If he isn't and you are fishing around, you will lose his trust.
2007-09-04 17:23:32 · answer #8 · answered by Vegas 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Coming home late doesnt answer cell phone by you or puts it on vibrate call hang ups not wanting sex!! Also moody for no reason
2007-09-04 17:11:49 · answer #9 · answered by Italy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you just know when the man you love is idfferent. usually his
actions will tell it all. but it different for each person. but your
guts feeling are usually right.
2007-09-04 17:17:58 · answer #10 · answered by luckystar 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋