My wife had migraine(severe headache) during her childhood. She did not tell me about that before our marriage. Even now she gets headache frequently although it is not severe. She also gets headache whenever she is under pressure. I really don't know what to do? The migraine may come back after a certain age also. what you were doing if you were in my position?
2007-09-04 15:28:54 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
There really isn't anything you can do to change it. Are you upset that she didn't tell you? Maybe it wasn't a big deal to her. Migraines are very painful but someone who gets them still lives a normal life. If I were in your position I would just try to make her feel better when she has a headache and don't put unnecessary stress or pressure on her.
2007-09-04 15:34:58 · answer #1 · answered by Ashley W 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I applaud those of you that have the good sense to know just how serious Migraines can be. To those who describe it as a headache before you go shooting off your mouths about something you know nothing about you should try researching it a little to avoid sounding like total morons.
As some have said there are many causes and triggers... my stepson had terrible Migraines ...so bad in fact he had to be in a dark room and could not bear any kind of noise. There are many other problems as well. You definitely need to get her to doctor and have her checked out. It is very difficult at times to deal with someone with this affliction. It can alter your lifestyle greatly at times. You will have to look inside your heart and decide if this is something you can deal with.
Sorry I can't be more help. But there are many good treatments out there these days.
2007-09-04 15:48:12 · answer #2 · answered by ♥♥♥MiSSY♥♥♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she suffered from migraines as a child then she will suffer from them through her teen and adult years , they dont just come stay for a few years then go away they are a constant at least once a week or more.
If under stress maybe more frequently and she wont be able to move or be in any lit room's or out in the sun.
Word your questions so we can understand them please I'm beginning to get a migraine.
Buy her some pain meds.
2007-09-04 15:57:38 · answer #3 · answered by JadeyOz 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry, but you can't fix that by yourself. Which I'm pretty sure you know. Call an ambulance or get someone to take you to the emergency room. I'd definitely consider your symptoms a medical emergency. I'm not trying to be mean, but you probably shouldn't have had breast implants without health insurance. Get help and best of luck to you. If you're really unwilling to go to the ER, at least call the doctor who did your implants and ask him/her what to do.
2016-03-18 00:01:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are several medications and homeopathic remedies for migraines now. You could help her by doing a little research for her. Just be understanding and help her when she needs it. Has she spoken to her doctor about them? To make sure it's not a symptom of something serious? You might want to suggest it. In fact, you might want to go with her so that you can find out more about it!
Good luck to you both!
2007-09-04 15:35:16 · answer #5 · answered by lhtracey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What are you talking about? Sounds like you are looking for a way out. Migraines are easily treated with numerous new medications today. She has them ,not you . A serious health
problem? Appears to me that you're probably causing the headaches. Find another excuse, this one won't pass.
2007-09-04 15:38:31 · answer #6 · answered by Morningstar 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
What do you want to do? You can't do anything about stopping a migraine. Some people are prone to migraines, some are not. It can be severe and annoying but,there is medication for migraines. It's not a life or death thing. Though I must admit it isn't any fun having them. She just has to deal with it.
2007-09-04 15:40:47 · answer #7 · answered by darlene z 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Doctors can prescribe medication to treat this. Also, some people have had success with accupuncture for pain.
The things which can trigger migraines are stress, bad sleep patterns and poor eating habits. You can help by understanding the triggers and doing your part to help her avoid them.
2007-09-04 15:35:04 · answer #8 · answered by banana6464 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing, migraines are treatable. I've never heard of anyone dying from a migraine. Sounds like you are looking for a loophole to get out of your marriage...
2007-09-04 15:38:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
she wasnt hiding something from you by not telling you,im sure she just didnt think about it,I mean its just a hella headache!she probably didnt think it would be a big deal to you either way! its nothing terminal and MANY like me suffer from miagraines!
if you truely love her,ask her what helps her headaches,dim lights,softer volume on tv/radios,brushin her hair with a soft brush,whatever,and do it! be there for her and offer your love and help! and YESstress and pressure bring them on more and usually stronger! just do what a hubby is supposed to do,support her,talk to her,listen and offer help!
if you think you "are in a position" maybe you just werent ready to get married and are trying to find a reason to have an out? I dunno but your post kinda sounds like you feel she lied or hid something mega major from you? just a thought! if ya sound that way to me,how do ya sound to her? hope that helps somehow
2007-09-04 15:37:51 · answer #10 · answered by adc7492 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋