my dad and stepmom are getting a divorece.
My mom isnt around anymore and ive known my step mom for 10 years.
My stepmom is like another mom to me. my little sister is going to be devasted. All i wanted was for my sister to grow up saying mom and dad in one sentance.
how can I stop them from divorcing and throwing 10 years away???
2007-09-04 15:37:57 · 4 answers · asked by mish_mosh_posh 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Unfortunately, you can't. Just remember that they are divorcing each other and not you. They will always still love you. Good luck for the future..
2007-09-06 10:43:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your "man" Johnny Depp was married for 3 years but divorced and has had 4 or 5 other partners, he is living with Vanessa Paradis who recorded a song called Joe Le Taxi about 20 or so years ago. They have been living together since I believe 1998 but not married, so he is no different from anyone else. If you dont want to get married you dont have to list a whole host of reasons why, its not everyones cup of tea so just live by your own code. There will be plenty of men who will be willing to live with you or anyone else that is not going to moan about getting hitched so you will have no shortage of partners. For me marriage is the ultimate and you dont go into it thinking you will divorce, I was married once before but it never worked out and we tried for 12 years since we had a little girl. We parted as friends and have both since remarried, he is happy and his wife is lovely and a good friend, she is a great step mum and we have no problems at all. My husband is my world, he is the one I should have been with but I had to go through whatever happened before in order to meet him. We are together for life, its called love. I am sorry about your childhood experience but perhaps you should talk to someone about how its affecting you in your adult life. Best of luck.
2016-03-18 00:01:55 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to help them see the person they once married and was in love with. Try to help them to rekindle that love, you could prepare them a romantic dinner for two with candle light and soft music and let them take it from there. Hope you all the best.
2007-09-04 16:01:24 · answer #3 · answered by teddy_bear_says_os 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't. Unfortunately while it takes two to make a relationship, it only takes one to end it. However, you can be there for your sister. She will need you.
2007-09-04 16:01:24 · answer #4 · answered by missingora 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to remind them why they got married and they won't listen find other ways for them to know. Let them know that divorcing is also a sin unto God, ,no couple is to get married then divorce, they r to try their best for it to work...but you need to open your eyes and see you don't always get wat you want in life........sorry to be harsh.
2007-09-04 15:52:59 · answer #5 · answered by FRANCENE E 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋