but now I'm starting to wonder. Ever since my husband and I married 2 years ago, we've had a string of difficulties. For example, 2 totalled cars, open heart surgery, broken teeth, needing to make extensive house repairs and the like. We exercise, eat right, pray every day, are positive do and everything a person is 'supposed' to do, but we can't get a break. Amazingly, we're closer than ever and have a very strong marriage.
I consulted a 'psychic' yesterday and was told that his ex-wife cursed us because we've been so happy together.
What do you think about this? If you think it's a curse, how can we break it?
2007-09-04 03:03:54 · 11 answers · asked by Claire 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I believe what most of you are saying about these tests, most of which I didn't mention. The 'psychic' was a friend of the family who has been watching our situation and who knows all the details. I wouldn't spend money on that.
My husband lived in Iran, India, Uganda, and Ecuador as a missionary for 30 years, so he's no stranger to hardship; he's literally been beaten, imprisoned, and tortured for his faith. Some of his friends were murdered in front of him.
He was the one who posed the question about curses; it's been a constant barrage of tests.
But like people have said, it has strengthened us and our marriage.
2007-09-04 03:28:18 · update #1
Claire... You said it, "Amazingly we are closer than ever and have a very strong marriage." Your psychic reads into what you ask, if you give too much info they know exactly where to lead you, I hope you didn't pay much for the reading. Things happen for a reason, just maybe the reason was to bring you close. Luck can change on a dime, keep your wits about you and don't worry about curses.
2007-09-04 03:23:12 · answer #1 · answered by Cheri >^.^< 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The curse seems real because you make it real.
This is alot like religion - you believe in evil forces & that your faith alone can protect you from them.
Curses - If you're made to believe that a veil of darkness has been cast upon you, you might begin to act accordingly. This has been referred to as "the power of suggestion".
Praying - Praying creates anxiety & apprehension. Your efforts are focused too much on blind hope & chance. You could be more productive & actively do something to better your situation.
Psychics - If the psychic told you that you're strong people & everything will be ok, you wouldn't feel a need to consult (spend money on) them. They send you away with more problems than you came with - the only cure for these problems are contained in your wallet.
There's many who may benefit from your fears & superstition: churches, psychics & enemies alike.
2007-09-04 10:17:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like a blessing if you two are closer than ever and have a strong marriage.
Life cycles between good and bad times, all you can really do is keep on trucking and whatever you do, don't go back to the psychic and let her lift the curse for a moderate sum of money. If you're that worried about it being a curse, go to a reputable Wiccan/Pagan shop and ask them what they would suggest.
2007-09-04 10:20:55 · answer #3 · answered by Manny 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think these so called "psychics" are full of bullchit. You give them enough information and they will make any situation look good or bad. I don't believe your husband's ex wife has the power to put a curse on you and your husband...that is crap. Maybe God is testing you...testing your love for one another....Don't worry....things will get better....but don't waste your money on going to a psychic....they will keep telling what you think you want to hear...just so you will come back and hand over more money.
2007-09-04 10:11:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Continue to be happy despite everything and eventually Karma will take care of the ex, what goes around, comes around!!!
Bad stuff can't happen forever but you can continue to grow as a couple and make the best of every situation.
They say that the best revenge is living well. Sounds like the ex believes that too, otherwise why would she be so angry?!?
2007-09-04 10:13:59 · answer #5 · answered by haleigh's mom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's crap...don't do the "pyschic" thing it's a waist of time. You said you "pray" everyday, that's great. Sometimes difficult times are what actually makes you closer in your relationship and looking back you can see where it shapes and molds your life. Maybe you and your husband need to find a deeper relationship with Christ. If he wants to get your attention he will and it sounds like that might be where your at. Trust me it isn't a bad thing, it's actually a good thing. Talk to him, pray to him and praise him. Pray with your husband and praise him together and just see what happens...you will be SHOCKED!! God Bless!
2007-09-04 10:12:32 · answer #6 · answered by LilSunbeam 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What a load of crap. Why put your faith, trust and hope for a better future in the hands of a pyschic?? You can be the "best person", living life the "right way" and still have your life in a mess. Try having a PERSONAL relationship with Jesus Christ. He's the one you need :)
2007-09-04 10:16:10 · answer #7 · answered by sam1230 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to stay off the psychic lines and continue to pray and seek God. It's called trials and tribulations and we all go through them.
2007-09-04 10:06:57 · answer #8 · answered by Hoping he will bless me with #1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think it's crap. if curses were true, everyone would have bad luck because someone along the line would have cursed them. my hubby and i can't catch a break for anything either.
2007-09-04 10:10:36 · answer #9 · answered by redpeach_mi 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
what country do u live in, and if thats all that has happened to u in the two yrs of ur marriage, ur not cursed, ur blessed
2007-09-04 10:15:26 · answer #10 · answered by charlesjerrell 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋