We are married fro 6months now. Ours si a love marriage. He lied for everything and cheated me.He gave me nothing from time of marriage.He showed me imaginary married life and world to me before marrying me.He doesnt earn he has no home so My parents supported us and gave a home to live. I am from very rich and high class family with masters in education. I started working also and he takes all my money and spends it of.He has never given me anything but knows how to take it from me. He made me sell my gold and ask money from my parents all the time coz i love him.He smokes, watches blue films, tv and playing cards and snookers on yahoo.he enjoys his life. He slaps me on my face if I argue.I love him and I am suffering. His family left him never supported him financially also at time we got married. My parents are my strenght.But now he is cheating and lying to me and meeting his family and giving them my money if they ask.Which is not accepted by me. Please advice.
2007-09-04 04:01:38 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Get out while you can. You're probably in love with the idea of what your marriage should be. The reality of it sucks.
2007-09-04 04:05:43 · answer #1 · answered by pollymallone 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your deserve so much better. I dont believe that he loves you. He wants your money and he finds everything else elsewhere. It will be the hardest thing in the world to leave him or kick him out. It will last a little while. But after words you will feel confident, and strong. There are lots of men out there who you might fall in love with who have the same great qualites or even more then the man you first fell in love with. If he loved you he would not treat you like this. Maybe at time he might even say hes sorry and he loves you but that is because he is afraid of losing the things most important to him like money and a home. Be the strong woman you were raised to be and look out for yourself first. You should never let anyone lay a hand on you ever! Whatever you decide to do I wish you luck and just know that you deserve better.
2007-09-04 04:17:32 · answer #2 · answered by Emy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hun, you've got to leave. This is unacceptable. And it would be even worse to bring kids into this kind of life. Your daughters would be taught that this is an acceptable form of relationship, and the boys would be taught that this is how you treat women.
You've said, your parents are your strength and you have money. Both of these help greatly, so do it.
Ask yourself, if a friend came to you and said the same thing, what would you tell her?
If he's the kind of guy to be like this only 6 months after you gt married, don't hang around any longer to find out how much worse he can get. Especially in respect to violence!
All the best, Alice xx
2007-09-04 04:16:23 · answer #3 · answered by *~Ally~* 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is no magic thing here, he is not worth a minute of worry. Why do good women fall for rotten men?. I would say you picked the worst man I have ever heard of. He can't get your money unless you give it to him. First, go to a psychiatrist and have some of the cobwebs cleared then go to a lawyer and have the insect cleared! That's the only answer to your question, you just want "us" to verify it for you...keep your head up and your pocket book closed.
2007-09-04 04:16:27 · answer #4 · answered by Conrey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look at it this way his slaps you if you argue with him, what happens if you guys have a child and the crying gets on your nerves what is he going to do to that baby. Also him taking your money gey seperate bank accounts. Thank about leaving if you have only been married six months see if you can get annuledinstead of divorce.
2007-09-04 07:29:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you know what t do, you just don't want to accept reality. He is not gonna change. Move on and kick him out of your life. They love you "feel" right now is gonna turn into hatred for all the things he's doing to you. Run... run... run! he doesn't deserve you, is gonna hurt at the beginning but you are better off without someone like him. Good luck!
2007-09-04 04:10:05 · answer #6 · answered by Kent-B-True 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
There's no love there, although I'm not sure what you're feeling...you are allowing him to treat you like trash. If you are unhappy, then put a stop to it. It's that simple...don't list all his ugly traits, then say "but I love him and don't want to divorce"...you simply fear having to go through the ordeal of dating and all that again...but hey girl, being single the rest of your life would beat the krap you're dealing with now.
Send his sorry azz packing...or stop fussing about his behavior.
2007-09-04 04:10:56 · answer #7 · answered by . 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If divoirce is not an answer, then you will have to accept things. He won't change unless he wants to and why should he. He has everything. The money is the root of the problem. If you have control of it, then stop giving it to him. Discuss the situation with your parents. They may be able to help.
2007-09-04 04:06:53 · answer #8 · answered by ? 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You made your bed, and now you have to lie in it. You made your vows under the eyes of God and he will be very disappointed and spiteful if you throw away the sanctity of marriage. Grin and bear it.
2007-09-04 04:19:16 · answer #9 · answered by GirlsAreStupid!ThrowRocksAtThem! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get rid of him ASAP.
Your parents paid for the house so put him out of it and divorce the bastard
2007-09-04 04:11:41 · answer #10 · answered by threecraws 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋