Marriage & Divorce - 27 August 2007

My wife has been talking with this guy over the phone and online I found some profound emails exchanged, spoke to her about it and she promised not to call him again or contact him...well she never did!
Should I let her fool me for another empty promise or simply dump her? any other sugestions????

2007-08-27 06:03:23 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous

I watched and interesting show about sex the other day. It seems that unlike most creatures the human female is capable of having sex during times that will not produce an child. Now why is it that humans evolved to be able to have sex so frequntly? The prevailing theory seems to be to keep male around. Especially since human children are so weak and require so much attention, unlike other animal who are much more indepentant. Afterall, manl animals learn not only to walk, but run momeent after birth.

Since humans are so dependant as babies the female requires the the male to stay around and the biological drive of the male inclines it to want to mate as frequently as possible, women are therefore able to have sex all the time.

Now the question is if women choose to not have sex, then aren't they in fact undermining there own relationship, because this will go conflict with the biological of the human animal?

Would you stay in a relationship with no sex?

2007-08-27 06:02:40 · 19 answers · asked by snack_daddy10 6

I have been dating a guy for almost a year and a half now and he proposed to me in May. I don't really fit in his family and his mom is always trying to hard to talk to me - she doesn't know how to act around me or something. I'm not in love with him, and not happy with my life with him right now - I don't know for sure weather my life would be better or worse without him but I know right now I'm not happy. He thinks I'm the only good thing in his life, and he wouldn't know what he would do without me, how do you tell someone like that, you don't want to marry them? I don't want to break his heart or for him to be lonely, I care about him a lot and don't want to hurt him, I think this is why I haven't ended it yet. Please help with any suggestions, I don't want to hurt him, and I want him to realize I'm not all he has and that other people love him and care for him - not just me. PLEASE HELP!!!!!

2007-08-27 05:59:27 · 18 answers · asked by SMILE777 1

Ok so my boyfriend and I have been friends for the last 10 years. He got married about 5 yrs ago and is going thru his divorce. We've been seriously dating now for about a year. Thing is, his ex is driving me and him up the wall. She made a fake email for him and tried to pretend she was him. She emailed me trying to talk about things we have done in bed. I know its her bc my bf doesnt even have a computer. When I told him he was p-o'd. He confronted her and she claims it was me that made the email? Uh hello why would I make a fake email from him and send to myself to have a convo w/ myself about things we have done. Just does not make any sense. She's also trying to explain to him that I'm a cow and weigh over 300lbs and wears a size XXXL. Uhm don't you think he knows what I look like and what size I wear by now? She is just so annoying!! Anyways, she's being difficult about the big D and won't sign the papers. What can he/I/we do to get her to sign and finally leave us alone!?!?

2007-08-27 05:56:44 · 11 answers · asked by ♥ Uwish ♥ 6

Ok this is mainly for men but women I'd like to know how you are treated?
Curious...(men) do you tend to treat your wife like your Mom? You know expecting her to cook, clean, do your laundry, get you up, keep up with your social life as well as "where you put your _____"? Or do you treat her as your wife....Thanking her for the job she does and making sure she feels like a wife and not just the maid/mom?
Think about it....say thank you! Don't have the attitude of "I thank her by giving her a nice house and etc." TELL HER THANK YOU! If you do that already I give you a HUGE pat on the back.
Women...do you feel like a MOM to hubby or wife?

2007-08-27 05:51:33 · 20 answers · asked by okiemom67 3

If your against it, why?
If your for it, why?

2007-08-27 05:50:09 · 9 answers · asked by MiracleMonroe (Alex H.) 1

He mentioned something last night about something he had seen on facebook. I didn't know he had a facebook - nor did our daughters. One of them immediately said, "Oh - Dad, can I add you?" and he said, "Uh...oh... sure." So she did and she later looked up his profile and showed me.

He has a particularly good looking photo and a lot of information about himself. It seemed to me that he went out of his way to make himself sound wealthy and exciting. For instance, he put down things that he has dabbled in years ago, but doesn't actually pursue (like sailing and flying) as his hobbies. He also listed our home address.

However, in all of this detail, he had absolutely NO MENTION that he was married or a father. (He didn't say he was single, he just avoided the whole question. BTW, we've been together for 17 years.)

I think this could be trouble.

I haven't said or done anything, and I'm not into spying or playing games. What do you think I should do?

2007-08-27 05:50:01 · 25 answers · asked by ceezee 3

About 6 weeks ago (at 11 weeks pregnant) my husband went threw this stage where he wasn’t sure if he was ready for the role of "daddy" and took the weekend to himself to think about things. After 3 days apart, he came home, said he was ready to be a daddy and we have been fine ever since. Well, this past weekend he has been acting the exact same as right before he blew up and left last time. We actually got into a fight Friday, Sat and last night. I thought this was something men just go threw before they become fathers, but I’m really starting to wonder. And as my mom put it "one breakdown is understandable, but husbands shouldn’t be needing continuous breaks from their pregnant wife" and I agree with her. He said Sat night that he can’t seem to have any fun around me anymore because all I want to do is relax and sleep. I told him being pregnant drains everything out of me and he said that was just an excuse. Your opinion... what in the world is going on? Please only serious answers.

2007-08-27 05:34:16 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

My BF was a very hot headed person, but has calm down TON. I wasn’t in the picture when he was headed. But now he feels that ppl are trying to test him. (Pride issue). He calls me to vent about things but I don't know what to say. I try to tell him to be the bigger man, but since his brother is a well know artist and he is also an artist. He feels that he must defend everything. IE: We where at the club the other nite and some guy just came up and threw money at him. That’s very disrespectful in his eyes. I was able to clam him down but is there anything I really can say are do. He has valid reasons to be upset but not to fight. I want him to know that I will be there for him no matter what, but I don't want him to get in trouble over some crazy stuff. Any tips on what and how to say things to him when he is upset. And so that his pride is being affected.

2007-08-27 05:30:59 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

Is their anyway that a soon to be 18 years old ger married without parents concent is it legal in vegas ?

2007-08-27 05:27:26 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

have sexual relations? And how long have you two been together? I'm in a 5 year relationship, and I'm just curious to see how we compare to other couples.

2007-08-27 05:24:35 · 35 answers · asked by batmantis1999 4

I have been with my bf for 2 years. He says he wants to marry me but (1) he wants to feel like we are both on the same level (I am a lawyer and he is just starting his career) (2) my family doesn't like him and (3) he thinks i'm overly jealous (i hate this girl who is his friend and wanted him to stop talking to her). Inspite of these things we love each other and its a good relationship. Shouldn't he know already that he wants to marry and ask me already. I am 27 goig on 28.

2007-08-27 05:19:29 · 12 answers · asked by honeyluv_2010 4

My husband is a pornography addict who gratifies his sexual urges through masturbation,leaving me sexually frustrated on bed.This habit of his is seriously impacting our relationship which is almost on the verge of termination. I'm completely perplexed about how to react to this.I'd highly appreciate any type of counselling on this

2007-08-27 05:16:57 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-08-27 05:09:59 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am currently deployed in Iraq at the moment. My wife has given me the notice that she wants a divorce and she says that there is no changing her mind. How am I to handle this. I still love her and we have a 2 year old daughter together. Can someone who has gone through this kind of help me get through. No amount of military training could have prepared me for this. I need you help please.

2007-08-27 04:40:08 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

My wife and I were at the beach. A bird flew over us, I ducked and the bird crap landed in my wife's sandwich.

But that was the last sandwich, my wife was starving, and I was too embarrased to say anything.

She ate it and got sick. The doctor said it's severe food poisoning, and she ate something very toxic.

I didn't say anything. But now she has to take a couple days off from work. The doctor said she should take the week off to get it out of her system. And go to the hospital if it gets worse.

What do I do? Should I tell her that I saw the bird doo doo and chose not to say anything?

I can't have sex with her because she's so sick. She's refusing me and I'm starting to feel guilty.

What do I do?

2007-08-27 04:22:50 · 31 answers · asked by hershey highway road thug 2

This is primarily for women who have been married a long time. I love my hubby of 18 yrs., but sometimes I just plain dislike him. Is this part of a regular marriage?

2007-08-27 04:22:22 · 19 answers · asked by Jen2U 3

me and my hubby are 21 years old.. we've been married over 3 years and 2 months now..married in the name of love.. just graduate from college.. planning to continue for further studies..so do you all think we should have a baby at this time?

just wanna see what's your thoughts of this..
thank you in advance..

2007-08-27 04:18:18 · 15 answers · asked by NEILISA **Shane's Mama** 6

My means what they do so after them marriage come a child.
which activited they do???? what a man and women do so born a child??? tell me them activies a to z

2007-08-27 04:14:57 · 5 answers · asked by Anoop Agrwal 1

Unbeknownst to my boyfriend, I just discovered that he has a fancy for teen & mother/daughter porn. I have no issues with him looking at porn. However, I must admit that I am a little disturbed and weirded out by his tastes in pleasure. I don't know if this is something I should be concerned about or not. Is it ok as long as it's just fantasy and not reality? Any mature advice would be appreciated.

2007-08-27 04:01:51 · 23 answers · asked by ravenmickey 2

My husband and I split up two weeks ago, this pained me to do it but he was not going to change, we recently found out our youngest daughter has special needs which has put a strain on us and I have been in and out of hospital ill recently.

the thing is now he wont speak to me, after things being okish, as, he went away without telling me, I became very sick and was rushed in to hosital to have an operation, he ignored all the phone calls to get hold of him to return to look after the kids, he wont answer his phone to me now, and I have only had one text saying' i didnt realise how bad you were' he is one for burying his head in the sand and not facing things, but he wont respond to emails phone calls or texts to me, or even see his daughter, instead his family have turned there back on me and so has he, what can I do??

do you men think this is his way of coping, he just wont speak to me, I mean he has never been like this and to leave me in hospital really ill with collapsed lung

2007-08-27 03:54:39 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

he always says this is just one of his e-mail buddies, but one day I came to visit him at work and on his computer was a e-mail he sent this woman saying honey do this for me love G, when I asked he said he doesn't even now this woman except by e-mail, but when I went thru his roller dex on his desk her name and home and work number he had it all, she now e-mails at home little spiritual things saying god loves you and stuff like that, my husband is starting to drink every day, and one time I saw his car parked in front of a aprtment building were one of the woman lives

2007-08-27 03:53:41 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

I love my boyfriend but sometimes I feel that he takes me for granted. I don't think that he thinks I'm speacial. He makes these statements such if we break up he would do such and such. I feel that he can see his life without me. He says he was hurt in the past and is just being realistic. Also, there was this girl that he new and during the course of our relationship she has become his best friend. I feel that that should not have happended because I should be his best friend. He continued being friends with her even though he new how I felt about it. Can we get through this?

2007-08-27 03:44:13 · 9 answers · asked by honeyluv_2010 4

2007-08-27 03:29:55 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

He was there when I got it and never said a word until we got home. Now he keeps complaining about it. We have agreed to get it covered with something else when it heals and have agreed on what to cover it up with. Now, I find out that he keeps telling his friends and co-workers how much he hates it! His friend approached me the other day and begged me to show him it, telling me all about my husband making fun of me, I was so embarassed! What should I say to hubby to make him stop???

2007-08-27 03:21:06 · 44 answers · asked by Prohibition Rose 2

My husband feels this is just revenge- so what, I say. Why should she get off scott free? I guess they should have thought of the consequences before they slept together.

2007-08-27 03:10:49 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous

Is that a real bad thing?

2007-08-27 03:09:53 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-08-27 03:06:59 · 68 answers · asked by Woody 3

Who else is sick of having their relationships on their partner's terms, and not theirs? I am so tired of it - it is what, when, how, and where HE wants - why can't it be my turn?

I don't know what to do anymore. He is a really great guy 80% of the time - everything I could want in a partner. Then, he will turn around and be completely inconsiderate, even rude to me - wanting everything his way - and not caring how I feel about it. It is good to have your needs met, but it seems like his needs are the only ones he considers - not mine, at all.

I don't know what to do - I do want to be with him, but how do I make these terms more equitable? How can I stand up for and get what I want out of this?

Here is a more concrete example. We spent the night Fri. and day through early evening together on Sat. He was awesome - absolutely great. Sat. night he went to a party (guys only) at his friend's house, and was supposed to call me on Sun. to get together Sun. evening.

2007-08-27 02:57:25 · 21 answers · asked by HooliganGrrl 5

2007-08-27 02:48:01 · 28 answers · asked by wonderboy 1