Marriage & Divorce - 27 August 2007

We got married 3 years ago, an then eventually we receive a bless from God , now hes 2 years old hes evetyhing for me, since I moved to another city to get a better job she had to separated from her family which bothered her to much, we daily fight for stupid things but she and I started this kind of fights before moving on to this job, she and I dont share love anymore, it appears that it is only the routine, but usually she complaints about everything I do, besides all this things I think that she is no longer dedicated to try to look beautiful, in fact I believe that phisically she doesnt attract me anymore,

With all this situations, If I separated from her she will take our son with her and moved to her family house, just to thing about it make to sad because I know I will miss my son to much, maybe not her, but my son is my entire life for me, I love him more than my own life,

Please if there are fathers that were in the same situation please advise me what to do?

2007-08-27 02:37:13 · 11 answers · asked by carlosagb2003 2

Hubby & I have been through alot-my insecurity,his porn addiction,drug addiction and basic financial irrespononsiblty(my opinion-I had great credit,savings.primary wage earner when this all started). I think he is done with drugs,but how can I know ?He lies=missed his daughters birthday on 7/1/07. I cheated once,after he disappeared for the 20th timebut have kept the guy as a long distance friend. I have 3 kids and honestly,its easier to have hubby around when he's "good".I just can't trust him-we're still a financial mess and that really bothers me.Hubby has worked steadily for the past 11/2 yrs(longest ever}, and has given me money since moving out 6/1/07- $350. I otherwise support the kids-He'll watch the kids maybe 1x a week when I work- works night so it is tough(but he's able to go golfing with his friend 2x a week), he will pick them up to take to practices 2 -3 time/week. I wanted counseling set up by him, him to pay back taxes($6000),my family($15,000!!)-drug debt & he hasn't

2007-08-27 02:35:49 · 8 answers · asked by Angie07 1

When I leave, do I have to pay all the bills as I did before? My wife only works part-time and refuses to do any more, but is happy to see me work 15 hours a day and ask why I don't get paid more! I desperately want to support my kids, but don't want her living a care-free lifestyle on the back of any money I'd have to give to them. They are all under 18. Is there anywhere I get good advice on this?

2007-08-27 02:17:36 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been dating my partner for over 3 months and see each other everyday and truly want to be with each other. ...now we do (according to her, at least i know how i feel and really do want to be with her) are on the same wavelength. A buddy of mine is on a dating website and saw her picture on there,but it said she WAS NOT ACTIVE for some time. She was on her email this weekend and i was there and i saw that she had several emails from the dating website and they were opened (you can tell because they are no longer in bold in your email)...Now i WILL NOT and HAVE NOT pry into her email, but she told me about a month that she tried emailing the websites to cancel her membership and so far nothing has happened. Now i know for a fact you can delete your membership directly FROM the website itself. Is her response a ploy to keep her options open? Should i let her know it bothers me? i should trust her right? but shouldn't she cancel them if she truly wants to be with me???

2007-08-27 02:08:31 · 13 answers · asked by dude 1

I live in ohio there is a person I know who has children and has been married for 8 yrs., however she now wants a divorce and he has somehow obtained temporary emergency custody of thier two boys. This in itself is odd because what I have read states that the other parent in question somehow poses a eminent threat to the children, which is by no means the case. The other part to my question is this although they were married eventually, he is 6 to 7 yrs older than her and their first sexual intercourse happened when she was 15 and he was 21. From the research I have done on my own the details are sketchy I read that the statute is 20 yrs. but in general you have to claim within 6 is this true? Also because they were eventually married would this cause them not to seek prosecution for this? Thank you in advance for any clarification you can provide.

2007-08-27 02:00:36 · 4 answers · asked by Scott 1

Asking this because, I was on the train this morning and seen my ex, I did not look at her again as she is an ex for a reason. But my friend was with me & as we got off the train, he said she continuously looked. Is it because I have gotten myself back on track and treated my self to a new hairstyle, clothes and joined the gym.

I kind-off feel bad for not saying hello, it was an awkward situation. But I like to leave the past as it is and not try to jog memories.

2007-08-27 01:50:50 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-08-27 01:45:51 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

We went for a walk and talked for two and a half hours. She has had some difficulties as I have with the divorce and other things. She cried and we hugged each other. No one has hugged me like that since the divorce. I have had been with other women but the feeling was not there. I did not know I would still feel this way until after our walk and hanging by my old house with the kids. Boy did it bring back a flood of emotions that I have not had for over a year. It was very painful and that really hurts. I do not have indifference towards my ex but sometimes I feel it can not come soon enough. Can I make the feelings go away or is time the only healer?

2007-08-27 01:27:06 · 11 answers · asked by paco 1

For the last 5 years I've been in touch with one of my ex boyfriends Mom's. Even after our breakup (which was my decision), she kept in touch with me. It was always just "hi, how are you" emails.

For the last 4 years I've been with my husband, married for 2. My ex boyfriend got married last october and the last email I received from his Mom was in December, promising to send me pics from their wedding. It never happened. I'm fine with it...I do miss emailing her but I won't write because I don't want to bother her. Any thoughts on what happened?

2007-08-27 01:16:41 · 10 answers · asked by Rachel 7

My husband and I have been married a year now (dated for 2 before that). I'm ready to, and really, really want to start a family SOON (like, yesterday). We have a very, very good relationship. He's my best friend, my protector, my provider and just all around the greatest husband I could've ever hoped for. Of course we fight sometimes, but what married couple doesn't? We're financially secure (very, very secure). We do tend to travel quite a bit as his job calls for it (the year before we were married we were on the road 9 months out of the 12 - this past year we were only on the road for 4).

I know he wants kids, he said so while we were dating and when we became engaged he made the comment that my mom should move closer to us that way she'll be there to help us when we have babies. But since then, he hasn't mentioned kids again. We did have one pregnancy "scare" but he wasn't too freaked out about it, just a little nervous.

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2007-08-27 00:47:07 · 18 answers · asked by BadWolf 5

he is my ex, and i finished with him, but i heard last night that him and a few mates all went through one bird on the same night. help me think this through, make me feel better please

2007-08-27 00:38:26 · 24 answers · asked by sweets 2

I knew he was downloading porn but recently i found his stash and it is pretty hard core. it is frightening. he has alcohol addiction which we have battled with off and on for all of our time together (as well as drug addiction in the past) He appears quite nice and normal to others, but the porn really threw me. The names of the films are disgusting and I'm too scared to look to see if they are really what they say. He says it's just curiosity and that the names of the videos aren't real, that it is all staged. I don't want to break up but I don't know how to deal with this. What does it mean that he is so into porn?

2007-08-27 00:37:39 · 16 answers · asked by Korg 1