Marriage & Divorce - 27 August 2007

then why would you look at/ fantasize about others. Isn't that really cheating in your heart? And what did you do to stop it, if you did stop?

2007-08-27 15:25:06 · 15 answers · asked by nada 3

2007-08-27 15:12:37 · 4 answers · asked by smiley 3

how did you fix it?

2007-08-27 15:04:16 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

its been about two weeks since i seen my wife. just when i think i'm getting over her .it all comes back. i try to keep busy, but no matter what i do i think of my family being togetter and happy. i wish things could have been different.

2007-08-27 15:04:12 · 10 answers · asked by michaelpz76 2

2007-08-27 14:58:43 · 24 answers · asked by Page 4

I need to go to the army and no one will marry me.I have 4 kids their father will take care of them but i need to give up custody how do i go about that in the state of ohio

2007-08-27 14:58:26 · 10 answers · asked by jjjpeeples 2

We've been together nearly three years, somewhat turbulant but overall okay. Two months ago, she left over an infatuation with another guy, which amounted to nearly nothing. Then she began seeing another guy named DJ, which shortly there after they decided to be just friends. She has since moved home, but talks to DJ on the phone for hours at a time usually late at night, and says that my prior jealousy issues about other men make it akward for her to have these conversations with me in earshot, so she goes to rooms that I won't be in when she talks with him. They spend time together, on average once or twice a week, seeing movies, having a drink as friends. Should I be angry about this, or am I paranoid because of what has happened? I am not too very angry about her little relationships over the past two months, more hurt than anything, but I am committed to working things out, and she says she is too.

2007-08-27 14:58:24 · 16 answers · asked by b.kgrove 1

2007-08-27 14:56:41 · 7 answers · asked by Azucar 1

I live in Texas and I am divorcing my husband of almost 10 years. We have 2 children. Standard 25% of net income child support should be one amount. However, isn't this based also on the non-custodial parent doing every other weekend and one night a week? What if the non-custodial parent has much less time with his children? Is that grounds to ask for more support?

2007-08-27 14:52:14 · 15 answers · asked by la9799 2

Specifically, I'm trying to understand what causes certain men to get discouraged in the job search.

I've met more than one man who is unemployed, leaving their wife to support the family. The men do a good job when they have work, but when the economy turns sour, they will refuse to take a job that pays below a specific wage, even if they cannot collect unemployment.

It seems like for the men it's harder to take a step back due to their pride?

Specifically I'd like suggestions from men, how can a wife understand the reluctance the man faces?

In each case I've seen, the men will refuse to take a job working at McDonalds (any minimum wage job) because it doesn't pay enough money. It seems to me that it would be better to have some money available!

Nagging doesn't work, and I don't want to suggest a separation or a divorce. How can a wife help the husband to understand he needs to take any job until something better comes around?

(Please note that the men will not accept counseling

2007-08-27 14:44:06 · 20 answers · asked by Searcher 7

If so, is there only one? Or many possibly millions?

2007-08-27 14:43:45 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous

I know that 99% of you that will read this are a quarter century or more younger than me. You are used to answering questions about pimples, sex and young relationships. I just need to vent so here I go: I am 61 years old, my Mom is 88, if there is anyone still living that is as old as me please advise me: Mom lives with me and my wonderful husband. She has been my best friend since I was a kid. Now she has dementia, she thinks I am her sister most of the time. She tells me the same stories and asks me the same questions a dozen times a day. Tonight after dinner I lost it; I freaked out. I drove down to the river and it was so peaceful there that I went back home and kidnapped my husband, because I knew he needed to find that peace too. We walked in the water up to our knees, cried, hugged and came back home feeling better but not GOOD. I was in my house 20 minutes when all of the frustration and anger was built back up inside because MOM was doing it all over again. Help me.

2007-08-27 14:42:16 · 16 answers · asked by nan4six 2

2007-08-27 14:36:30 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous

alright...here it goes..
my mother in law wanted my husband to get married to her niece( my mother in law's sister's daughter)
yes i know we marry in cousins..no rude comments
but my husband did not want to marry her as she is his first cousin and it would be gross..........so he married me...me and him are not related..
the problem is that my mother in law's sisters and brothers (the whole family) is upset that her son got married to me and not that other girl. and they are not talking to her. but she always babbles about how they used to be a "family" before me and always want to go to their place...........whenever she gets a chance (when her sister invites her just for formality) she goes and drags me along with her..........i mean if they said it on her face that "we did not like that decision ur son made and we do not like u"
why does she not have any self-respect and GO THERE EVERY TIME? WHY DOES SHE DRAGS ME TOO? WHAT CAN I DO TO STOP HER?

2007-08-27 14:26:40 · 7 answers · asked by Just another gal 3

Latley I've been really depressed. I don't know why, but i've been like this for the past 4 months. I have frequant thoughts of suicide and the awful part is I'm still in school, not even in High School. So i'm to young to take anti-depresents.. I don't want people feeling sorry for me, but I just want advice on handle this...

Does anybody else have depression? Advice?

Thanks,..

2007-08-27 14:14:43 · 28 answers · asked by Jessica 3

I was diagnosed with bi-polar 6 years ago and when I was first diagnosed brfore the diagnosis, I had got into trouble with theft partly due to a manic episode. My husband only seems happy when I work and pay my own bills. For the last 5 yrs I have been stable with the bi-polar but at my recent job was just fired for stealing a $100 Wal mart gift card and am afraid it was due to another mainc episode and relapse. I am afriad I will go to jail this time. I want to seek help but he says it is only because I got caught stealing when in all reality I am just wanting to get help more than anything for fear I could get worse. I have been afraid to work due to my bipolar and now look what I have done. I am afraid that I am going to lose my family and my boys see their mom hauled away too. My husband only is happy when I work. Anyone willing to give advice on this one?

2007-08-27 14:12:12 · 5 answers · asked by JENESEE 1

2007-08-27 14:09:02 · 26 answers · asked by 2see 1

2007-08-27 14:05:21 · 21 answers · asked by Pramod R 4

Am I crazy? I think I would prefer my husband to look Playboy than to watch GGW. It just really irks me for some reason to see girls barely out of high school acting so stupid and showing their goodies for free. Plus the commercial comes on every night, late night on say the Comedy Channel and I get so embarresed and tell my husband to change the channel. I guess it's just a little too close to home for me.

The reason I ask is because my husband told me last night "you should buy that for me." trying to be funny, but it just pissed me off.

2007-08-27 13:38:59 · 45 answers · asked by marie s 4

Why does love fade away once a couple have been together
in a marriage for say two Decades ?

2007-08-27 12:48:11 · 10 answers · asked by Truth Source 4

they live 3 hours away but i was planning on doing this weekend in Florida and have no time to driver up there and ask. should i just wait until i can ask him in person, or can i just ask him over the phone?

2007-08-27 12:31:06 · 23 answers · asked by mcjuice2200 2

Can i get a court order for a dna test even if i dont want child support?

2007-08-27 12:29:49 · 25 answers · asked by Taliyah1 2

I have apologized she said she accepts but i still feel like a D**K What can I do!!

2007-08-27 12:13:17 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

Who do you believe is responsible for all the extramarital that men have? I mean in the over all deliberation of this situation who do you believe has the finale finally of it proceeding or not? At the end of truly thinking this threw do you believe women are responsible for all the extramarital affairs that proceed?

2007-08-27 12:03:20 · 16 answers · asked by LittleDaisy. 6

and I am suddenly scared. I take marriage seriously and I have a wonderful man in my life. However, suddenly I feel scared... What if it didn't work out? What if he or I fell out of love?
I don't know how to calm my thoughts... Is this normal? It's just about the "What If's?" of life... I am happy that we are getting married but at the same time I feel really worried....

2007-08-27 11:47:57 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

I feel a little snubbed, a little selfish, but that's my preference. What should I do, she has another year to plan it.

2007-08-27 11:46:59 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

Quella Bella...

I promise I'll be good this time! I'll even give up men for you!

2007-08-27 11:45:33 · 16 answers · asked by Jack B, sinistral 5

me and my husband meet playing yahoo pool. he lived in London i lived in the us. we chatted on yahoo messenger for 8 months and then i flue to London to meet him for he first time. we fall inlove and then 3 months after i left he moved here and now were married. We got married Aug 11 2007 thats the emotionless version i get get into alot od detail ad emotion but its twice as long. .

2007-08-27 11:35:26 · 22 answers · asked by Mrs. Nolan 4

Last night my husband and I got into a fight. It was over something stupid, but he ended up blowing up and shouting at me. I threw my ring on the floor and went to the bathroom to settle down, but he followed me in there and then wouldn't let me out. Finally he let me out. In the course of the rest of the night he punched the door and broke part of the frame, and when I said I was leaving he said "If you're going to leave, then GET OUT" and as I was trying to at least get some shoes on he grabbed me and pushed/threw me outside and locked the door. He opened the door a minute later.

I started getting things ready to leave, but of course everything that would entail started going through my head. He got even more violent than that a year ago with me and I told him if he ever did it again, that I would be gone. But then I started thinking about how I have no money to move out. I will miss a whole year of school if I leave. My family lives all the way across the United States

2007-08-27 11:26:31 · 25 answers · asked by April 3

Doese anyone know how to contact The Los Angeles Distric Attorney's office concerning Family Law. My ex-husband and his new wife have been trying to bribe me with $ amount less than half of what he owes by claiming to be dis abled and and have now threatened to black mail me by using text messages that they have obtained (i don't know how -from my T-mobile line that were sent to my boyfriends phone then forwarded to their line) cell phone (meesages that I sent to my boyfriend). I've been divorced several years and since his re-marriage my ex-husband does not wan't to pay what he owes which is a horrendous $ amount.

2007-08-27 11:19:00 · 13 answers · asked by pixieq4tay 4