its been about two weeks since i seen my wife. just when i think i'm getting over her .it all comes back. i try to keep busy, but no matter what i do i think of my family being togetter and happy. i wish things could have been different.
2007-08-27 15:04:12 · 10 answers · asked by michaelpz76 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
most people wish things could have been different. no one likes to remember that they failed at something. especially when the happiness of children are involved. it's our protective nature of our children to want to make their lives perfect in every way.
however in these cases, when it's two people that are required to make that relationship work and one party doesn't want it to work, the best we can do is make the best of the situation.
it will suck for awhile. once you have found your groove, you can look to being happy again. it will happen. let yourself grieve.
2007-08-27 15:11:51 · answer #1 · answered by Isabella S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunatley wishing aint ging to get you anywhere.
Seperating isnt an easy thing and the emotions you are feeling are normal and will ease in time.
If your family was together do you think that you both would of been happy?
If you both couldnt reconcile before the chance of doin it now with a great outcome is probably slim to none.
Just be there for your son, someone will come into your life and you will be happy again!
Good Luck
2007-08-27 22:11:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie, the best way to forget someone who stabbed you is to find someone else.... and you ought to try on line dating. I met my husband with personal advertising long before computers....After 18 years, thru no fault of my own, I was again alone... I put up an ad in Yahoo, and met lovely people... Love, hon is toooooo lovely, and sharing tooooo wonderful to give only once... I met men who wanted to see me again, but I was uninterested, and men I want to see again, but they weren't interested. And even a real nut case.... (an orthopedic surgeon that was psychotic.... really!!!! just like someone you'd find next to you in church....
Here are some hints: If you don't have a killer smile, get it at the best cosmetic dentist you can afford.....beautiful teeth radiate health, and healhty, hon, is sexy.... There are other things too... get some help with some clothes, loose some weight if you need to, have your hair done by a pro, and get some nice photos done..... You can sit and have a pity party for years, hoping and wishing that things were different... and people for sure do that. But there is no perfect road, and every road is interesting.... Get on another trip--a new road --, hon, and find that nice lady.... she's there... All you gotta do is expend some effort and find her....
The man I am with now, I met on Yahoo. He was as well having his own little pity party, and one of his buddies suggested he put up a profile. After a year, I was sick of being nice, and answering all those who wrote, but were just inappropriate matches, so I I removed mine, but retained membership, and let the computer send me matches on Sunday mornings..... and guess what..... We met. That was more than 2 years ago. We both rather healed together, and are now planning to buy a house together... See?? But it takes effort on your part. Need some more hints? Write.
2007-08-27 22:49:01 · answer #3 · answered by April 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Michael -
See? Remember your other question about dating? And telling someone or not that you are divorcing? This is exactly why...you are going to be on a roller coaster of emotion for a while. I'm not even sure even considering dating is a good idea.
I think the only "dating" you should do, is a weekly appointment with a counselor - get your head on straight and deal with the emotions of your divorce...make yourself whole again before you offer yourself up to someone else.
Hugs to you - I know you are going through a lot.
2007-08-28 14:21:11 · answer #4 · answered by allrightythen 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Was you a bad boy did you do something you shouldn't have or did she.Trying to get over someone on your own is next to imposable you need to find someone to keep you mind off her. It's that easy sometime it all depends on just how bad you want to get over her.
2007-08-27 22:25:00 · answer #5 · answered by Teenie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You poor honey....it's never easy but time helps ease the pain. Good luck and take care.
2007-08-27 22:12:48 · answer #6 · answered by gloria b 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Thats so sad. Family breakups are never easy. good luck.
2007-08-27 22:10:08 · answer #7 · answered by cowboy_fan 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Thats too bad. is there no way you guys could talk?. Why are you divorcing.
2007-08-27 22:17:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its pretty hard wait when u go pick up ure kids its never easy i still think what if? its hard 2 let go
2007-08-27 22:14:28 · answer #9 · answered by mickey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its hard that;s why I haven't split yet I have to think of evryone involved and it bites the big one
2007-08-27 22:11:41 · answer #10 · answered by Amy D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋