Marriage & Divorce - 27 August 2007

when a couple get married IN THIS CENTURY, how the financial thing works in the family? the man pays all the bills? the couple shares (even with children)? or the man pays the most part and the wife just helps out when it needs to?

if you have any real example in your life, please share. and also state your age range please...

2007-08-27 11:18:19 · 3 answers · asked by MoniJ 2

He says she has messed with his mind and that he still has feelings for her, but he wants her to keep away from him. He hurt her in the past and feels truly regretful, and since she told him that she forgives him ,he still isnt ready to forgive himself. we been together almost 2yr on and off. I dont know what to do i told him that maybe i should leave him, and he says it's my choice but then also has said he wants us to work. He tried so hard to get me back, i dont undestand him-she was his sweetheart/ first love, though...is it true that a person will always have feelings for their first love?

2007-08-27 11:13:53 · 23 answers · asked by tacva 2

My friend has been seperated from his wife for about 12 years. They both have new relationships, He would love to merry his girlfriend but his wife refuses to give him the divorce, is there something he can do to get them, specialy after 12 years....i would think so but im not a family law expert....so if you can help that would be great....this is all the info i know...i dont know other details.

2007-08-27 11:12:22 · 3 answers · asked by TUCK 2

My Husband and I have been married for 11 years. He goes out every weekend, for the past 4 or 5 months with his friends on the weekend. Even if he makes plans with me if one of his friends ask him to go someplace he totally forgets about the plans he had with me and goes with them. He never answers his cell phone when he is with them. It doesnt do any good for me to get mad and yell because he says that its ok for him to do this and that its my problem. I dont think its normal for married men to go out every weekend and stay out til midnight. He told me a few weeks ago that he would stop-it lasted a week and he is now back to doing it. I am at my wits end. any advice?

2007-08-27 11:02:24 · 21 answers · asked by kelly71396 2

2007-08-27 10:47:40 · 28 answers · asked by south of france 4

I love my wife a lot and I want to be with her, but one pussy in not enough, especially while I'm in the service. It hurts because I don't want to lose her over this, but I don't think she'll ever understand.

I always date other girls when I'm out of state. I'm stationed on the other side of the country from her until she finishes school. What should do, I don't want to lose her....I treat her well, send her gifts and never love her any less. Am I a bad person?

2007-08-27 10:40:37 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok, so here's why I'm sooo frustated: Right now, we've been living in a house owned by my in-laws, and since it's theirs, well they have a key and walk in and out whenever they feel like it, withous even knocking! This is driving me crazy almost literally speaking, lol. Ok, so when we were in th procss of buying OUR new house, I was so excited!! Finally some privacy! No inlaws invading me! lol
Now, they're seariously thingking in moving right next to us!! OMG!!!!!!!!!
Please, som advice, I haven't said a thing to anyone because I believe anyone has a right to buy whatever they want and live wherever thy want, but if this happens, oh God.
Please give me some advice! :-)

2007-08-27 10:39:09 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

My brother's wife left him for another man. He was a very good husband, but she was not such a good wife (example: she asked him to move out the day before her new man was to move in so she wouldn't be alone in the house for a few days)
He is letting her have the house that he mostly paid for and all their furniture. He says he's doing this because he says she has the right to half of everything including his dental practice. He figures if he gives her the house, she'll leave his practice alone. Is this right?! She's the one who cheated!

2007-08-27 10:26:08 · 17 answers · asked by lazydazy 4

Me and my husband had been married for five years now, we used to have sex once a week, and then that changed to three times a week, and then everyday. Now we do it twice a day, and I'm tired. I tell him about it but he keeps on saying that I don't love him anymore, or that I'm cheating on him. What should I do now?

2007-08-27 10:12:25 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

what is the most funest and daring thing you have done in a relationship and yes my mom knows im hear she dont care much she still loves me and two im turning 16 im not to yuong and 3 i have a boyfriend and i might try one of you ideas out and be vary great ful for that and dont tell me to wait becase im not going to listen to you lol ^_^

2007-08-27 10:06:10 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I love my soon to be wife but XBOX360 is sure to hit the spot too.

2007-08-27 09:53:43 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous

After my husband cheated on me many times, I decided to divorce him. I have filed for divorce in VA and in the process of moving to FL. My lawyer says I can bring suit against him in either state. I was told FL will try to force couples to reconcile first and VA will not, but VA favors the men more than women. I want it to be quick I need to know which state would benefit me more to file the suit in?

2007-08-27 09:48:01 · 7 answers · asked by Cobalt B 1

I'm tired of living, I'm tired of living, I'm tired of living,,, What do i do? I'm tired of living, I'm tired of living...I tired of living.

2007-08-27 09:47:20 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

Why do guys love to criticize whenever they have the chance to and raaaarely compliment things about their gf/fiance'/wife ? although they love their women

However, if the guy was just a friend or has any kind of relationship with a woman that is not love .. he compliments everything even the air she breathe

Why would "most" men do that? (i dont wana say "all" )

I REALLY WANT TO KNOW

2007-08-27 09:41:36 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been married 2 years and today found out that my husband got really drunk and kissed my best friend. I know that is all that happened because I was at our house when this happened. My question is should I divorce him even though this happened 3 years ago.

2007-08-27 09:40:40 · 33 answers · asked by rscottsluv 1

When ever my husband leave to go to work or run errands, my brother in law shows up suddenly, and flirts with me, and he always stares at my chest, its making my VERY uncomfortable, what should I do, before it gets worse.

2007-08-27 09:33:48 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

If you have had a relationship with more than its share of ups and downs, and you knew then what you know now, would you get involved with the person? I wouldn't. I have two kids by him, and I love them more than life itself, but I sometimes regret getting involved.

2007-08-27 09:29:25 · 20 answers · asked by Ms. GTO 7

I have been with my husband 5 years and the last year or so for various different reasons have been quite difficulr between us. He has been away for a month to visit his family who live abroad (idecided to stay at home for a bit of space for us to reflect ect)

He is flying home Wednesday and I would like to kinda get the love and romance back, I am meeting him from the airport and am really excited about seeing him now. I plan to dress real pretty for him to think "Wow" but i really want that sparkle back! Any advice? Im really hoping the phrase "absence makes the heart grow fonder" is true!

2007-08-27 09:24:36 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-08-27 09:23:53 · 52 answers · asked by sharpie2292 3

we live in a two family home but we renovated it and made it one big house. We enjoy living together but latley he is so mean to her. She has cried everyday this week. My husband told me to stay out of it but I really think my hubby should talk to his brother.They normally get along but this week has been BAD!!

2007-08-27 09:23:31 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm just looking for an origional reference to the "death do us part" phrase in marriage vows. Where did the phrase origionate or come from. Did some priest start saying that phrase a long time ago. This question has been on my mind for years.

2007-08-27 09:17:33 · 15 answers · asked by falisrm 4

my parents split up when i was 13.( i am now 24 with 2 kids) It was very nasty as they still can not be in the same part of the country. My mom is coming to visit my brother and I with her husband of five years in tow. I have alot of bitter feeling towards my mother as she has only seen my 7 year old son three times in is life. She refers to her husband as Grandpa when talking to my kids. I have issues with this as I hardly know him. I want to talk to my mom about this but our realationship is VERY rocky. Please help she will be here in two days.

2007-08-27 09:14:56 · 19 answers · asked by renee u 2

I am looking for answers from married women. My wife does not like to answer questions like this when I ask. So I am just trying to see what mose other women like.

2007-08-27 09:14:29 · 7 answers · asked by scout2116 2

Okay so I am 30 have been married for 2 years my husband is 25 and was a virgin until he met me. I have had a lot more experience than he has so I know what I like and I am very freaky and willing to try new stuff. My husband on the other hand is frigid and it is always missionary or me on top. BORING. Can you give suggestions as to how we can bring in some toys and even try oral which he hates and I love.. Help!!! By the way we are both very attractive and I look 23 or younger.

2007-08-27 09:12:10 · 18 answers · asked by rscottsluv 1

My husband is always tired...to tired to be together, to tired to go out, too tired to ..well you know. When I try to talk to him about bills or straightening out our credit or doing things to the house or about us hes like I don't want to talk aboutit right now. I am pretty sure alot of women have to deal with this I just have to know about how many. Whats his deal? Never wants to talk about anything I am always bitching and is always too tired from working. Alright guys whats the deal?

2007-08-27 09:10:44 · 10 answers · asked by youcandoit 4

if i was divorsed in the state of oklahoma and was given sole custody and my ex husband was denied visitation rights, and ordered to pay child support, can the divorse decree be changed by the state of texas if we moved here? or do we have to go through the state of oklahoma to have child custody changed?

2007-08-27 09:06:31 · 12 answers · asked by talk_to_me_32 1

When someone talks about another subject he always says let me tell you the story about when this or that happen to me. I feel like punching him in the mouth. Why does he do that?

2007-08-27 09:04:08 · 10 answers · asked by Pepper1black 2

After he moved out to be with another MAN? It's not my dilemma. I was reading a book about it and the woman still loves him??? I don't think there is anything to think about. NO YOU CANNOT COME BACK HOME!!! The husband is begging to come back because he says sex with a man is not what he thought it would be...WTF???

2007-08-27 08:57:08 · 47 answers · asked by SmartyPants 5

My wife and I are breaking up and getting a divorce. It's very much mutual and we're not at each other's throats about the divorce. She's asking me to continue to pay the house not on a home that I'm not living in. I'm in AZ, she's in Cal. Should I? What legal ramifications are there if I do? Thanks!

2007-08-27 08:55:01 · 8 answers · asked by dimplefce30 1

2007-08-27 08:54:13 · 15 answers · asked by daiberino 2