When ever my husband leave to go to work or run errands, my brother in law shows up suddenly, and flirts with me, and he always stares at my chest, its making my VERY uncomfortable, what should I do, before it gets worse.
2007-08-27 09:33:48 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Tell your husband! I am sure he will take care of it
2007-08-27 09:38:17 · answer #1 · answered by ~NIKKI~ 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Your brother in law is horny for you! He wants to have sex with U! U must be a very attractive lady, for a guy to be hitting on you. Either that or maybe you are dressing too sexy or something. Maybe U are showing-exposing too much of your bare skin. Use loose clothing and cover up your bare skin. First, tell him to stop that! Hitting on you!!! Warned him to back off! Or else you will tell your husband!!! If everything fails, then go ahead and tell your husband. So that your husband can beat him up physically.
2007-08-27 10:34:35 · answer #2 · answered by pain_of_unhappiness 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It may stop when the baby comes, but if it doesn't, you should confront him. We are all adults here, so take the high road. Just respectfully tell him how you feel and perhaps remind him he has a wife, and you have a happy marriage with your husband. If he still does not stop, then you should talk to your sister. Since she is your sister, perhaps she will understand. Expressing your feelings early will hopefully keep the situation from becoming worse, especially when he has a wife and a child coming into the world to think about. I hope this helps! Good luck.
2016-05-19 03:41:38 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your husband about it!! Tell him whats been going on and explain to him that you realize that it is his brother and you dont want ot cause any bad blood but it is making you uncomfortable. I would suggest doing that instead of saying something outright to the brother because it may set him off and he may do something childish like making things up to tell your husband. I would suggest telling your husband so he knows and then confront the brother the next time he does something, as long as your not worried about him being aggressive.
2007-08-27 09:42:45 · answer #4 · answered by Holly 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell your husband immediately! What his brother is doing is not only wrong, it's also stupid and hurtful ! The last thing you need is your husband to blame you for this unwanted attention so the faster he finds out about this, the better..!
Speak up today -Tell your husband to speak to his brother in front of you.... and to keep the hell away from his house and from his wife. Sheesh! Who needs a brother like that?!?
2007-08-27 09:44:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell your husband it makes you feel uncomfortable when he is not home and his brother stops by. Tell him you don't feel comfortable being left alone with him. Your husband needs to talk to his brother and ask him to only visit when he is home. Will this make things uncomfortable with the in-laws, yes it will, but they need to know that your brother-in-law is a perv.
2007-08-27 09:40:45 · answer #6 · answered by jimmy.parker06 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
When he comes over show him a tape recorder and tell him that you like to record conversations and you always give them to your husband. And, the advice others have given you not to answer the door is fine too.
As for staring at your chest, dress modesty and he will not have anything to look at.
2007-08-27 10:55:36 · answer #7 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell the guy how uncomfortable he is making you. Let him know if he doesn't stop you will tell your husband. If he continues to hit on you tell your hubby that you tried to handle the situation but the guy won't stop. I am sure your husband will take care of him at this point.
2007-08-27 09:48:24 · answer #8 · answered by faith 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell him it doesn't look right with him being there w/o your husband and that he needs to leave because it makes you uncomfortable. If he doesn't get the point then you need to let your husband tell "bubby" to back off.
2007-08-27 09:39:52 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That can make for an awkward Christmas... If you're comfortable talking to your brother in law about this then talk to him first and let him know that you don't appreciate him coming over unannounced. Ask him to please call before coming over so you can arrange it that your husband is there. If he doesn't respect this rule, you have to tell your husband.
2007-08-27 09:42:40 · answer #10 · answered by jackibear 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You need to put your foot down and tell him it makes you uncomfortable. Also talk to your husband. He has the right to know that something like this is going on.
2007-08-27 09:39:31 · answer #11 · answered by Beatngu 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋